that he nw says he dsnt love me and dsnt wanna call me his gf though he still wants me. we r again not talking. Do you think that due to this disease multiple sclerosis, he dsnt want me in his life? does he want me to leave him so that i dnt suffer or something? because i get confused with his behaviour sometimes.
2006-11-14 13:02:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My mom has MS and it takes a toll on ppl in different ways. Maybe he doesn't want you to be around when certain symptons start, maybe he's embarrassed or just doesn't want you to have to go through the pain of his suffering. Some ppl do that when they get sick and feel that the ppl they love shouldn't have to go through it or they think they are going to be a burden on those ppl.
P.S. Read the book about MS that Montel Williams wrote. It is awesome and I think he would also like to read it.
2006-11-14 13:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~B~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Partner has MS, had it now for over 2 yrs, and I have found that the behavio\r you describe it is a way of protecting the other person in the relationship.
When my partner was first diagnosed she said (yes, she, I'm gay) she wanted to split, and not be involved with me anymore. 2 yrs down the track, and she has told me repeatedly that ishe said those things because she didnt want to put me thru any burdens that MS would present -
I was always the stubborn one, and she is fine. we are fine.
MS has so many stereotypes and images asociated with it - and in this day and age, you have to emeber one thing - "MS DOES NOT NECESSARILY EQUAL DISABILITY AND A WHEELCHAIR"
Sure, symptoms come and go and can seem very frightening, but there is no set path for the didease in anyone, and the mediaction available today is very effective compared to what was available even 5 yrs ago.
MS is an awful disease because its so unpredictable and every case is different - but me being Miss rowdy said 'f**k MS' from the very beginning. If you are truly in love MS will be something that you will step right over and say 'bring it on, whats next?'
I wish you all the best sweetie, you arent alone! ;)
2006-11-16 03:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 23:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hilarious way to describe the problem.Ha!ha! No dummmm!!!!Some people can sit before a comp for hours. May be u'r friend can't.Right now I'm waiting for the clerk to open up the office and thot I can steal some time to answer.That's all.This a friends site and so there is enough room to breathe.
2006-11-14 13:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by 666 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i'm interior the comparable boat, i found out a month into the courting nonetheless, we've been given caught kissing and this lady advised his mom, he have been given in extensive worry and that i've got been given so disenchanted that I broke up with him, we the two have been nevertheless loopy approximately each and each nonetheless so I apologized and now we've been secretly courting for six and a nil.5 months : ) good success
2016-10-03 23:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is trying to push you away from him as he does not want you to suffer with him. If you really love him and you don't have a problem with his disease than i suggest you speak to him. Tell him how much he means to you and that you will be there for him no matter what. Just talk to him and see how he reacts to it.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-11-14 20:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you date someone who has any kind of disability its hard. i know i have a bad back and pushed alot of guys away cause i didn't want them to be burdened with my problems. give him time let him know you love him anyway and you don't have a problem with his ms. but you need to be sincere about it. i know i tried hard to push my now husband away from me but he reassured me that he would be there whether i want him to or not. he was very stubborn about it. and he has been through 2 back surgeries with me and possibly looking at at least 3 more. but again he helps with everything even when i get frustrated and want to do something myself. all i can say is be honest with him let him know you will be there through the good and bad days. and you love him no matter what and will help him through no matter what. just keep reassuring him of all that and hopefully he will come around. best of luck to you
2006-11-14 14:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not he has a disease, you don't deserve to be treated like this. Respect yourself, its all or nothing. If he doesn't want the committment, he shouldn't have the benefits. MS or not.
2006-11-14 13:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tressa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not even know what is the disease and the symptoms of it.
2006-11-14 13:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it s personal babes
2006-11-14 15:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋