My best friend in the whole world is an awesome girl. We used to do EVERYTHING together, and it wasn't like many friendships. We never got into fights, always understood eachother and nothing got into our way. She is my only girl friend that i trust and would tell her everything. Normally we wouldn't let guys get between us, but her boyfriend of about a montha and a half she changed her mind. I hate her new boyfriend. She deserves so much better and he is just stupid. He told her that he loved her within a week, started to cry because she wasn't hanging out with him within 2 weeks. He is still 21, living at home without a steady job. i told her how i felt about her the situation but she still decided to choose him over me. i haven't talk to her in a few days and i am starting to hate it even more. I want to kill this guy because her is just so STUPID. She said that she is going to stay with him because he isn't a sex driven jerk. should i just give up on the friendship or let it go?
2006-11-14 12:56:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing you can do...She needs to make her own mistakes, or this just may be the perfect guy for her...
2006-11-14 13:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on the friendship and tell her you are sorry. She has probably felt the same way once or twice about the guys you choose to be with and never said anything.
It's her choice and she will end up not liking you if you dis her yucky boyfriend. If he was physically harming her, that would be different story all together. But he's not, you just don't like him.
He may be a whiny baby but he is HER whiny baby. Maybe try to find things you like about him?
2006-11-14 13:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bonds of friendship are always stronger than the bonds of a relationship. Give her time--she's probably still all googly-eyed over this guy. If you need a compromise---see if you can't plan a girls' night only once a week or something...to be able to touch base & communicate. When guys come into our lives, things change...as much as we don't want them to. There needs to be room in her for both him & you. Try & stay patient.
2006-11-14 13:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comparable right here! Holy crap i think of her boyfriend is an entire dooche bag and that i tell her each and all of the frigging time yet she does not see it. He akes her cry approximately 3 timse a week and does not provide a crap approximately her. i understand that the only reason he's along with her is by technique of the fact intercourse, and he or she provides him money. She grew to become into soo in love that she gave her virginity to him in 2 weeks into their courting! And now they do iut everytime they draw close out! She's purely in grade 9! yet she does not hear to me....
2016-10-03 23:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends with her but i know what u mean. my friend go with a guy who his a mess. i mean he don't have nothing for him or her, no job, and run around with his friends all the time and cheated many times. i always try to talk her into breaking up with him, but she never listen. so i guess u just gonna have to let her learn on her own. but don't stop being her friend, just don't say nothing else because sooner or later she will realize
2006-11-14 13:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's making her own choice sugar, as difficult as that is for you...but when she tires of him (or vice versa) she'll still need a good friend...
Try not to hold a grudge...and be there when the time comes and she needs you...for now let her walk her own path and learn the lessons she needs to learn...there may be one or two in there for you as well.
2006-11-14 13:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT give up on the friendship...the same thing happened to me and my bbf...she got her first botfriend and now we dont reallt talk anymore...but i really miss her. trust me , if your friendship is as good as you say it is, you will regret it later...
2006-11-14 13:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by scape.squad.story 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a wee bit jealous...he's new, and she's probably excited. Don't worry if you are truly best friends, she would never forget about you for a guy.
2006-11-14 13:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sleep with him and then she'll see what jerk he really is.
2006-11-14 13:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by maxxspeedist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. She'll get rid of him pretty soon.
2006-11-14 13:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋