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How can a very ugly guy get a girl way out of his league. Is it possible? will i girl forsake looks for personality?

2006-11-14 12:54:18 · 29 answers · asked by Xavier W 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Absolutely. First of all, I highly doubt you are that bad looking. And second of all, when it comes to guys, girls are not judgemental. We save all of our criticism for each other. I would say that 99.9% of girls would value personality above looks and I'm sure the girl you have feelings for is the same. Just be self confident and she'll be attracted to you for who you are! Good luck!

2006-11-14 12:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0 0

Sort out your issues and prioritise them.
Firstly, self esteem. Define ugliness and resolve it. If it is only psychological, build your self esteem. If you are overweight, take good care of your health. Otherwise, ugliness is a mental attitude.
Secondly, your choice in the relationship. what are you looking for? Boobs, Heart, What?
Thirdly, her choice. What is she looking for? Money, Love, what?
Last but not least; Sincerity and Honesty. Contemplate on this at every turn and corner of your relationship. Then go back to 1.

2006-11-14 13:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by tomQ 3 · 0 0

Many guys that are not that attractive seem to end up with very good looking ladies on their arms. Perhaps they are less afraid of rejection then some regular looking fella who thinks that this beauty is out of reach and simply ask her out. Plus their personality probably over compensates for their looks department. That's why I guess people always say don't judge a book by its cover.

2006-11-14 12:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1 0

If love is ment to be, then yes. an ugly guy can be with a beautiful girl. The key here is treating her the best way you can and having fun at the same time. Girls love attention, so its good to always ask, " How have you been? " or " Everything ok? "

2006-11-14 12:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes, it is possible. Some girls value who you are more than what you look like.

by the way, you probably aren't very ugly. Often people who think they are ugly are not ugly at all. Sometimes they look a little different, but ugly is an opinion, and not everyone has the same opinions.

2006-11-14 12:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 3 0

Well, first of all, what makes you think that you're ugly? Did someone tell you this, or did you decide this yourself?

Furthermore, some of the most beautiful women I know, feel very badly about themselves, and have low-self-esteem.

I'll put it to you this way . . . the kind of woman you really want is one who feels good about herself. When she sees that you recognize that, she'll want you, and appreciate your intelligence, maturity . . . and if she has any maturity herself, she'll find you very attractive.

2006-11-14 13:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My friend, beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Also, on a more cynical note there are other reasons that a girl might date you e.g your credit cards or your sports car. If you have any of these there is still hope.

2006-11-14 13:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Rhapsody 4 · 0 0

Look at Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett. Girls are attracted to guys that have a high self esteem. If you carry yourself like you know you are something great- people will believe it. It helps if you make a lot of money too.

2006-11-14 12:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by weswe 5 · 1 1

How about Prince, Steven Tyler and Mick Jagger for starters.

You need to become a musical legend, ugly boy. Start doing mass amounts of heroin, and start writing.

2006-11-14 12:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No, i do no longer look at grotesque females. yet i do no longer think of that many women are grotesque, the two. i do no longer think of i'm that shallow, nevertheless. according to risk he's drawn on your intelligence (if he has you in college, and once you're clever)...i don't be attentive to. If he's a jerk, he's possibly staring at you to make his pals snigger on the faces that he's giving you...

2016-12-14 07:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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