Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I'm 21 yrs old and been divorced and single for a little over a yr. I got married when I was 16 and divorced at 19 (almost 20). My marriage was a disaster and I wasn't in love just in severe lust with a man 6 yrs my senior. Within the last 6 mths. I met a man who is incredible. He inspires such a different feeling in me than my ex. I have been scared to be anything more than "friends with benefits" with him, However recently while he was over the "love" word escaped from both of our mouths. He makes me feel like I'm the queen of his world and the most important person in any world. Everything about this seems right but I'm scared to admit that he is the one for me get ahold of me and give me your advice

2006-11-09 07:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Pistol 1 in Friends

My wife and I are in our early thirties. We have three healthy and happy kids. We have been reasonable successful in our lives. And I am bored to death and I am pretty sure she is too. I love my wife and kids. I still think she is beautiful. I enjoy spending time with them, but sometimes I can not imagine going though another week of work, how did dance lessons go, dinner was great, stop hitting your brother, time for bed, turning on the light so my son can go poo, replacing light bulbs that are to high for my wife to reach, looking at a garage that looks like a toy junk yard, what are we going to get the kids for Christmas, well you get the idea. I am not unhappy not depressed and not having marriage problems and certainly would not trade my kid for the world but man I am board to death. I think it might be that we have achieved many of the goals we had when we were just starting out and now, is a time in our live that is filled with more routine than anything else. Anyone else experienced this?

2006-11-09 07:41:36 · 31 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My step-mother (******) gets half of my dads retirement. She didn't earn that, he had the Job 16 years before he met her.

If she got the house we had 10 years before we met her I'd burn it to the ground. When she wasn't home of course. She doesn't desrve anything from my Father.

2006-11-09 07:41:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy friend recently would turn red in the face or glowing like in the face when he talked to me. Does this mean that he likes me?

2006-11-09 07:41:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

I have been separated from my husband for 10 + years and am engaged to a good man.I need a quick divorce and he is no where to be found.I live in Tennessee Can anyone help.....?

2006-11-09 07:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my fiance for two years. We have a 8 month old daughter. Heres my situation. Several times in the past I caught her lying about silly small things. I called her out on her lies and 8 months ago she broke down, apologized, & promised she would never lie again and there werent any lies un exposed. Her promise never felt right & she never admitted anything, but couldnt remember anymore lies she told. 4 months later I told her fess up in 2 weeks or im gone. On 14th day she confessed some lies and dropped two bombs. last year she spent a week with her mom as we were arguing over money and she called the guy she cheated on her ex with, but only 1 call, She cant remember making lots of txt msgs i found to him. Also while tired from our pregnancy she "accidently" fell asleep on her ex's floor when she dropped off their son. I asked her back then if she spent night at his house she swore no. Anyways, I'm heartbroke. I'm thinking she prob cheated on me. Help me please?

2006-11-09 07:40:14 · 19 answers · asked by bradl3y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating a guy for two months, and he used to call every two or three days. He said a few times "you can call me too you know." We had an awesome date on Saturday night and made out a little. It's now Thursday and he hasn't called. Should I call him? Or should I assume he's just not that into me and move on?

2006-11-09 07:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah M 3 in Singles & Dating

To be a friend?
To be a lover?
To be a girlfriend?
To be a wife?

2006-11-09 07:39:13 · 20 answers · asked by â?¥MissMayâ?¥ 4 in Singles & Dating

My parents will be married 25 years at the end of this month. They've asked my three sisters and I to each paint them a picture. One of my sisters has already decided to paint our parents when they were younger using old photographs. I'm really stuck for ideas! Please help! Thanks!

2006-11-09 07:39:09 · 21 answers · asked by ciara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I must admit when I'm not out looking for a job I am at the library reading books or looking up stuff on the computer. Now, I have seen a number of good looking ladies with no rings on any hand, and I tell ya, I can't help but stare at them. Now, and old fart like me (35) doesn't really stand a chance in landing someone younger does he? No, I'm not talking little kiddies ages new born to 18. I'm talking about young college girls up to about 30. My question to you is when do you make your move in a public place? What's is the trick? You can use your examples from McDonalds, 7-11, Movie Theatre, any public place you would like but I just need to know when is the right moment. Do you pop over while she is searching for a book, on the computer, talking on her cell phone, or when she takes that eye to eye glance? You tell me.

2006-11-09 07:39:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know it is usually for the man to propose, but i would love to propose next month when we go away to dubai. Any ideas, want it to be realy romantic and special aswell as show him how mch i really love him

2006-11-09 07:38:43 · 3 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning my own wedding and am wondering how long before a wedding should you send out invitations to your guests.

2006-11-09 07:38:40 · 17 answers · asked by davene101 1 in Weddings

if you fancy me, please leave a messege.
i am from england, have blonde hair, blue eyes.

2006-11-09 07:38:08 · 39 answers · asked by ★japanese lady★ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have searching boyfriend for 3 yrs. I don't know where I start or what I do. Sorry.

2006-11-09 07:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by Aubrey Eckert 1 in Friends

why are women always complain about something?

2006-11-09 07:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by rich 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a very happy marriage, and communicate very well. I'm 30, he's 38, and he is less in the mood than I am, much of the time. I am certain he's not getting it anywhere else... We don't have it that often as it is. Is this common?

2006-11-09 07:36:51 · 31 answers · asked by drama4mama247 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke up just before valentines day. is it wrong to give it to my new g/f if wer still together

2006-11-09 07:36:48 · 18 answers · asked by Oliver G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am now married and so is my son's father, is the child support amount based on the household or just us as individuals?

2006-11-09 07:36:11 · 7 answers · asked by LekinaB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is what you could call a jerk. he is usually sweet to me if he's not joking around. He can be very mean to other people and when i tried to tell him how that bothered me he got defensive. he asked me why i care if hes nice to me? i figure it bothers me because how he treates other people is his real personality. i'm thinking that someday he will start to treat me like he treats everyone else.

i don't want to change him b/c i know that doesn't work. i don't know what to do b/c talking to him about it just made us both mad. what should i do?.......

2006-11-09 07:35:51 · 19 answers · asked by smiles 3 in Singles & Dating

Before you gave me sex .Just a survey on modern women

2006-11-09 07:35:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when-ever he give a a hug i feel like i'm his girls, and i'm always draming of kissing him

2006-11-09 07:34:45 · 12 answers · asked by luv ya 2 in Friends

he thinks that im too much younger than him .

2006-11-09 07:34:36 · 21 answers · asked by salazar 1 in Singles & Dating

Before you gave me sex .Just a survey on modern women

2006-11-09 07:34:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 07:31:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy gives a girl a card with a puppy and flowers on it or say a gift of toy puppy and flowers, does this mean he is a keeper?

2006-11-09 07:29:08 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

3 OF MY FINGERS GOT CUT OFF 2 WEEKS AGO THEY ,EX-FRIENDS, THINK I DID IT ON PURPOSE !

2006-11-09 07:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by a different kind of gurl 1 in Friends

had any lately !

2006-11-09 07:28:39 · 23 answers · asked by ghostguff3 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my f**K buddie of over 7 moths now is acting strange I mite need some GUYS to help me out with this 1...
First he will txt me, email me and Msn me all within 30mins becuse he wants 2 catch up that afternoon, but he isnt sua & he would let me know eitha way Bfor 6PM.. so 6.30pm arrives
no txt no email nothink to say he cant make it.. so i txt him that night latter on saying a few naughty things i know he likes.. & still no reply for days, Why txt sum1 tht n not reply 2them, i finally email him & then he replys. he says he was wrking HardOut. WEIRD...??.... then we catch up & have sex & i get dressed stright away and leave as i need to get sleep for exams cmein up & he was giving me **** for getting up & leaving stright away.... WTF he just goes stright 2 sleep ne how.. so i leave without giving him his usual kiss goodby he asks for... & i drive home... now iv emaild him a day later & no reply again for 2days.

IS HE NOT INTERSTED?
OR IS HE FALLING 4 ME & distancing him self?

2006-11-09 07:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by prettybee 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know thats what it feels like to me right now.

2006-11-09 07:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by yeppaa its mii! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bloke who doesn't follow fashion and I think walking about in clothes what are out of fashion make me less apelling to women. Would a clothes make over help me out and make me more atractive

2006-11-09 07:26:45 · 15 answers · asked by Redbull 1 in Singles & Dating