ok so my f**K buddie of over 7 moths now is acting strange I mite need some GUYS to help me out with this 1...
First he will txt me, email me and Msn me all within 30mins becuse he wants 2 catch up that afternoon, but he isnt sua & he would let me know eitha way Bfor 6PM.. so 6.30pm arrives
no txt no email nothink to say he cant make it.. so i txt him that night latter on saying a few naughty things i know he likes.. & still no reply for days, Why txt sum1 tht n not reply 2them, i finally email him & then he replys. he says he was wrking HardOut. WEIRD...??.... then we catch up & have sex & i get dressed stright away and leave as i need to get sleep for exams cmein up & he was giving me **** for getting up & leaving stright away.... WTF he just goes stright 2 sleep ne how.. so i leave without giving him his usual kiss goodby he asks for... & i drive home... now iv emaild him a day later & no reply again for 2days.
IS HE NOT INTERSTED?
OR IS HE FALLING 4 ME & distancing him self?
2006-11-09 07:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by prettybee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like to me that this guy has started taking you for granted....and there could be all kinds of reasons as to why he has not been showing up and/or cancelling your dates. It's possible that he wants to reserve a time slot with you in the event his other (more impt.) plans fall through--and when they do he forgets about the plans with you. He's probably falling alright...but for someone else. He's inconsiderate and treats you as the 'call back girl'. He wants everything to take place at his own convenience. I'll bet he's not even apologetic when you ask him why he didn't show up. Since there are no negative consequences to his behavior he keeps it up. He may not be calling you back b/c he's in someone else's presence that he is trying to impress. It may also be a matter of the newness has worn off, he's no longer challenged, and he thinks the world revolves around him. I'll bet you've got plenty of other options....why not leave him hanging for awhile, don't return calls, be inaccessible and disappear if you still don't think he's appreciating you. Good Luck.
2006-11-09 07:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is interested, you are giving it up with no strings attached. I doubt he is falling for you, because you are not demonstrating the qualities most guys want in a girlfriend or wife. I am willing to bet that he has a girlfriend that is starting to take up his attention and you are not just side entertainment to him. His not replying when you email, txt or IM him is probably because he does not want her to know about you.
2006-11-09 07:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not interested in dating you anymore...it seems sex is all that matters in your relationship now...although he does it in a strange way...after all dates raise the chances of having sex right? i'm sorry i don't know what's with his attitude... you should talk to him...
sorry i read it again...maybe it's the opposite..he wants this to be a real relationship not just sex...but still...when you email him and stuff like that don't you date first? you just skip to the sex part? that's the dream of almost every guy in this world...
2006-11-09 07:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people telling you to hitch up with him>? have you ever look a photo? did you already know who he extremely is? is it no longer slightly reachable that he has telephone worry and also you cant listen his voice? continuously act with caution! keep on the chat and basically chat about what you probably did that day!
2016-10-16 08:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by zeckzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is messing with you... Seen it happen before... He isn't sure what he wants, but he wants to make you struggle with what goes on... Move on and get yourself another one... Probably a married man that isn't going to be anything but grateful for your time and attention... ;)
2006-11-09 07:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear some sexy panties next time, take off your pants and say, " if you want some of this you better be playing by the rules "
sounds like he has someone else
2006-11-09 07:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not worried because u can always pick up another f u c k buddy ok that what i do all the time
2006-11-09 07:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's falling for you. when he wants you to stay, he's wanting to cuddle probably, to get a litte closer. it's up to you what to do, but if this keeps on going, he's probably gonna ask you to date him soon.
2006-11-09 07:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, sounds like a waist of time.. no commitment = no respect.
2006-11-09 07:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't concern yourself with such details it is afterall only a fukkk buddy afterall....and that means no ties and no strings
2006-11-09 07:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋