I'm 21 yrs old and been divorced and single for a little over a yr. I got married when I was 16 and divorced at 19 (almost 20). My marriage was a disaster and I wasn't in love just in severe lust with a man 6 yrs my senior. Within the last 6 mths. I met a man who is incredible. He inspires such a different feeling in me than my ex. I have been scared to be anything more than "friends with benefits" with him, However recently while he was over the "love" word escaped from both of our mouths. He makes me feel like I'm the queen of his world and the most important person in any world. Everything about this seems right but I'm scared to admit that he is the one for me get ahold of me and give me your advice
2006-11-09 07:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Pistol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, it seems that you've been suffering since along time
i think you afraid to go on in this relationship you know depending on what you have had
however, men not all the same that's first
second you said he is a good person kind and i can feel that you in love with him
so come on give your self another chance you need to be in love
you deserve some joy ,happeniness
do not be scared there is no time in this life to be scare ok
just leave you past behind and start a some thing new
that's it do not be hesitated ok :)
don't forget to tell me the result
best wishes
2006-11-09 07:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by nice guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice, take it slow. I take it you are sexually active with this man, so it could be lust all over again. It is very easy to confuse love and lust. Try taking out the sex part and see if you two still get along. Give it a few months and if you still feel like you're in love, move on into something more serious.
2006-11-09 15:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, it feels like you just described what im goin through right now. The same thing has recently happened to me and as scared as the both of us maybe, it also makes me the happiest ive ever been. I would just go w/ it. Dont rush anything, if its meant to actually be it will happen whether you rush it or not. Take a chance, so down the road you dont have to ask yourself "what if?". I wish you the best of luck and happiness.
2006-11-09 15:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to be real honest with this guy. Let him know your feeling, and what you have been through with the 'sour marriage' If he really loves you, then he should be real understanding. Tell him you want to date for maybe a year, before taking that big step again. I think if you both work at it, You'll be happy for a very long time. Just keep being 'friends with benefits' and be there for each other..............ps good luck.
2006-11-09 15:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what country do you live in? married at 16 ahhhh you were a child. you may think its love and it may feel like love, maybe it is but do not rush into things you were married so young and devorced before most people even consider marriage take the time now to not worry about love and men and catch up on the things that you can do single that you missed.
2006-11-09 15:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say dat dat man makes u feel like a queen then ....... Just do it.ask him out or wait for him to ask u at which he probably will. start a new life,move on. I hope everything goes all right
2006-11-09 15:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by stef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it . if you feel like this is gonna turn out like your last mairage pushaw!!! you were 16 didn't know bupkis about love. now you're older more mature... actually know what love is, and honey this seems like it
2006-11-09 15:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥nychic♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love, Honey. You have got to let yourself go and be open to where love takes you.
2006-11-09 15:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to put it this way>>> if it's 90% good... go for it... because he could be the one you've been missing.
2006-11-09 15:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋