Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

I have a very bright 3 almost 4 year old. And I was wondering if it's ok at this age to talk to her about abuse. Things like inappropriate touching and such. Like, if some one touches you or does something to you that makes you uncomfortable to come talk to me about it. Or tell me about it. I was a rape victim at the very young age of 3 and I think my life would have been much different if I would have known about it and had been able to tell some one. I know what it is I want her to know, but I'm not sure she's able to understand yet.

2006-11-08 09:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by lillibellemichele 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 09:56:56 · 2 answers · asked by ojkwe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-08 09:56:18 · 32 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 09:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I stress about stupid things, and if my plans don't go like I wanted I sometimes think and worry over it too much. Also I try to control things in my life that I know I shouldn't worry about since I don't have much control over it.

How do I just get myself to think "the hell with it" and just let things happen as they happen. Why do I need to be in control of stuff? Its so silly and it doesn't even matter.

I have been to therapy and my therapist says its because of my mother expecting me to be perfect growing up. I don't want to perfect, I just want to let go of stuff and let life happen.

Any advice?

2006-11-08 09:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20 and I recently started dating a guy who is 33. I really like him but I feel he might not take me seriously because of the age difference. Is it possible he is with me for a real relationship or just a booty call?

2006-11-08 09:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by S&M 2 in Singles & Dating

i am going to slip a note in his locker..but now how do i actuall yell hm i like him and have him not feel all weird inside..i dont want to ask him out right away on the note....but not like "hey i want to go out with you" thing..like..."hey want to go to a movie..hang out" or something...what am i posed to write on it?

2006-11-08 09:55:05 · 2 answers · asked by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 09:54:15 · 5 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

if I were him....what would you express to me

2006-11-08 09:54:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Quick Question:
Your husband's birthday is just around the corner. You and him have been together for some time now, you and him are open and honest about everything. He knows what you like...what turns you on...and likewise you know what fantasies he thinks about and you'd love to rock his world for his birthday. While he's too much of a gentleman to just come out and ask you, you know he gets turned on by the thought of you with another woman.

Would you ever consider having pictures/videos taken of you and another girl kissing/making out (no nudity...absolutely no sex)?

If so, would you rather "do it" with a friend, or someone you've never met (and probably never will see again)?

Reason I ask:
My awesome wife keeps asking me to "open up" and share with her my "desires/fantasies"...And while I want to tell her everything that turns me on, I'm wondering if something like this is best kept to myself.

I'm not joking, I'm not looking for some cheap thrills...all honesty

2006-11-08 09:53:12 · 18 answers · asked by Joshua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 28 and I've worked at my job for about six months now. Another girl, Alisha, started the same time. She is a very nice girl, always friendly and upbeat. Her problem?
She doesn't know how to stop talking. From the minute she enters the break room, she'll go on and on and on and on and on and on about EVERYTHING-- food, family, shopping, weather, you name it. She barely breathes! And she doesn't seem to understand when it's inappropriate, or what's inappropriate to talk about. For example, sometimes I choose to sit by myself at lunch and read, simply because I'm tired and I need some alone time to refresh. She'll come and sit by me and talk non-stop until the end of my lunch hour. Yes, the entire hour. I don't know where she comes up with so much stuff to say. Other times I'll put my head down on the table to take a quick nap during my lunch hour and she'll walk in, drop her stuff across from me at the table, sit down, and start talking. She's a bottomless pit. She never runs out of stuff to say.
Slowly, over time, I’ve tried VERY hard and have pretty much learned to look past her nonstop mouth. Underneath she’s such a nice person. But even so, I still cringe when she comes in the room because I know there won’t be one more moment of peace until she leaves.
Here’s another problem (and sorry this is so long). She asked me for my phone number, and I didn’t want to give it to her because I knew she’d call me and I’d probably never get off the phone again. So I told her I don’t give out my phone number. This didn’t deter her; she looked it up in the phone book. Now she calls me EVERY SINGLE DAY. Actually, she skipped one day. And when she calls she still goes on and on and on, talking about EVERYTHING, including sex and other things I don’t want to know about… I cringe now whenever the phone rings because I know it’s her. Twice I’ve decided not to pick up the phone, and she proceeded to call back SIX TIMES IN ONE HOUR!!
I tried telling her that she doesn’t need to call me every day, and that’s when she didn’t call me for that one day. Then again tonight, here’s the phone call again. I let the answering machine get it. Then she called back AGAIN! Like I had somehow materialized within the two minutes between the two phone calls!
WHAT do I do to STOP all this???? I’m just about the only person at my job (there are around 350 of us there) who can do more than tolerate her. She’s gotten in trouble a bunch of times already for saying inappropriate sexual things in the break room, yelling “HI!!!” to people who are working 7 cash registers away, and other things too. I’m starting to wonder if she has a real psychological or physiological problem and she really CAN’T stop talking. She told me her mom has Schizophrenia, so I’m wondering if her inability to realize how obsessively she’s talking could be some form of mental illness too…?
Any comments or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I’m almost at the end of my rope.
Thanks for taking the time to read all this.

2006-11-08 09:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by Somebody 1 in Friends

2006-11-08 09:51:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, 2 years ago my relationship with my parents was destroyed. I did some bad stuff, was a bit lost. I agree I was wrong, fought a lot w/ them and my younger sister. I ended up getting a kinda harsh punishment, was grounded from everything for 4 months, only school and house work. My dad even spanked me. I changed but got extremely humiliated and in a deep depression. Today I'm an excellçente students, deal with chidren in need, my parents say they are proud of me. But I stopped loving them, so intense my resentment was. I became a stranger, respectful but no love, like I didn't belong to the family. I could never get over hat happened, though they tried to get me back. They decided we should go to counselling. I opened my heart and told my parents and the counsellor, very calmly, and without anger that I don't really like them and intend to leave them forever when I'm 18. That's how I feel, this isn't a teen reaction. They didn't expect that, but I had to be honest.

2006-11-08 09:51:49 · 5 answers · asked by Ana M 1 in Family

Okay there is this girl that i really like. she likes me too as a friend. and i want to be more than just a friend. all i have to do is to get the boyfriend out of the picture. now i am willing to do some serious sabotage here. any ideas? No murder plans please!

2006-11-08 09:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by hardjesus 2 in Singles & Dating

can i just pick up and leave with my 2 kids and then file for divorce once I move or is this considered kidnapping? If I file for divorce first he will fight to keep them here and not let me move. I need some suggestions from anyone who knows or knows where i can find out the laws on this.

2006-11-08 09:50:11 · 17 answers · asked by alone in nevada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 09:49:22 · 3 answers · asked by Birgit H 1 in Family

is better to be single or not?

2006-11-08 09:49:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever tried shoving IceCubes up their partners P ussy, A friend of mine put in three icecubes in there.

2006-11-08 09:48:58 · 9 answers · asked by Snoekie D 1 in Singles & Dating

You guys been best friends for awhile but her life got kinda busy, so you hardly have time to hang out and chat, if you can chat it's only on the phone for ten minutes, because the only time you can talk to her is after 9 pm and she has to get up at 4 am.

So how do you know if she's still your best friend? Is a best friend always a best friend, or does the level go down one? If so how?

2006-11-08 09:48:25 · 11 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Friends

ok,,,we have been dating for 9 months now..and sometimes we start getting bored..because i dont know what 2 talk anymore.....we have talked about everything ..i nedd some hepl on how 2 keep up my conversations with him..

2006-11-08 09:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has stopped sharing a lot of things with me just after he started having his affairs.Though he earns 3 times as much as me he has borrowed lots of money off me and promised to pay me back in time to pay my bills he never has.Now that I am in a bit of debt (due to lending and not being paid back) he is questioninig me about what I do with my money.My first instinct was to tell him paying bills that I could not pay after lending him and not getting any back)but as usual I did not.He again with everything else with me became highly critical and started swearing and as usual I just kept my mouth shut.

2006-11-08 09:47:28 · 49 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 09:46:41 · 14 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and she keep bothering me by saying that she wants me to sleep over her house. I like her and everything but I just don't want to sleep over so I told her that my mom doesn't let me. So she started telling me to beg my mom and call her back once I get an answer, what should I say? Also, if she asks to come over my house, what should I say? I don't want her to come over, because all I do is watch shows all day and listen to music, that's my perfect weekend, I don't want it ruined by having friends over. I don't know, I'm weird like that. Please help me? I've tried so many excuses so far, I just don't know what to say anymore.

2006-11-08 09:46:19 · 18 answers · asked by Alterna 4 in Friends

I would like to know who u would apologize to and why??? Someone u maybe hurt in the past. Like me, I would like to say sorry to my grandmother. For not being with her in the end.

2006-11-08 09:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by texaslady78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-11-08 09:45:56 · 6 answers · asked by www.loosechange911.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 09:44:56 · 23 answers · asked by littlebit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-08 09:44:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know i would automatically...but she wasn't pleased.

2006-11-08 09:44:29 · 16 answers · asked by PinkHalo 1 in Friends

I do. I think I'm depressed.

2006-11-08 09:43:46 · 25 answers · asked by a1000_desert_roses_bloom 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 09:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Singles & Dating