Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

I've been with the same guy for nearly 5 years now, and we get along really well. He's a good man - responsible, very loving and affectionate, would do anything for anyone type of person. My parents love him, I love his family, everything is great...except one thing. I'm not passionate about him - i don't find him physically attractive, and it's difficult to get intimate with him b/c of this. This just recently became an issue, b/c we're starting to discuss the prospect of marriage. Sex is horrible unless I've had a few drinks, and the guy just can't kiss. I've tried giving him pointers and telling him what I like, and he's made efforts to improve, but something is always missing. Can I possibly marry a man under these circumstances? Shouldn't I want to rip his clothes off when I get home from work? Where's my butterflies, weak knees, loss of appetite? Are these necessities or should I keep him b/c he's a good guy, which let's face it, is hard to come by? Help :-(

2006-11-08 10:18:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need a little help with this... my wedding colour theme is white and gold, my bridesmaids are wearing all gold dresses and gold tiaras, the men are wearing gold waistcoats and cravats. Im wearing a white dress, pearls are also in my theme...would it look stupid if i wore pearl&diamonte&silver tiara and a pearl diamonte necklace/choker? would this really look silly with my gold theme? as i dont really suit gold tiaras.

2006-11-08 10:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by rach_b_2003 1 in Weddings

2006-11-08 10:18:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy friend always does this to me in texts.... :P..... i have no idea what it means

2006-11-08 10:18:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 10:16:59 · 13 answers · asked by virginiatech35 1 in Singles & Dating

any suggestions

2006-11-08 10:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by anthony86 2 in Weddings

2006-11-08 10:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

would u or wouldn't u and why. both parties are married to other people and long time friends that have alway's had a mutual attraction to each other. sex with their partners is unfullfilling and not satisfying. should they?

2006-11-08 10:16:29 · 16 answers · asked by peters_lissan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy, and we are best friends already, I just need help knowing what I should do when it comes to telling him how I feel about him...HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-11-08 10:16:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Say you see a girl around your work a lot; you've talked to her for a little bit once or twice, introduced yourselves briefly, she says hi (basically, you barely know her). If she asked you out for coffee or something, how would you react?

2006-11-08 10:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by Dumblydore 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 10:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by winter 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and i been together just over a year nowa and we have a 7mth old daughter. We live in his parents house to save money for a house however I find it hard living herea as they have two bull terrier dogs who have run of the house except downstairs where we are, his whole family smokes upstairs and the house is filthy no matter how much i try clean it. He is now 25 and been living with his family all his life and is very lazy due to the fact his mother does everything for him. I pay for all our daughters needs so as he can put money away for the house deposit and have regularly had to remind him to play with her etc as he is so wrapped up in his xbox. recently i just found that we have no savings only $500 and he just bought a $170 lego for himsellf. then in the last 3 wks i met a guy who is very stable financially secure etc and wants to have my daughter and i with him, we did sleep together but it was something we both wanted so badly.SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE

2006-11-08 10:15:23 · 6 answers · asked by Spastikus 4 in Family

2006-11-08 10:15:18 · 1 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

I loved him dearly but I disliked his drunken company and antics but I can't get over the fact that I never said goodbye or maybe didn't look after him properly but I really found it hard to see him. Most of all I constantly torture myself over what he went through on his own the night he died. I am now unhealthily obsessed with the death of my remaining nearest and dearest and don't know what to do. I am 39, my sister(who has the same probs) is 31.

2006-11-08 10:15:09 · 22 answers · asked by mojo 2 in Family

well.. i know a guy at work likes me and has done for a year but over the last 3 months we have got a lot closer..i have a boyfriend and he knows that.
When he told me he liked me i did say i would go out with him if i did not have a boyfriend and its true, i would. cos he is nice guy ..but then on friday he was wanted a hug from me...and i did not want to jus cos it might make things a lot worse... and friday was cool but after i told him no..and gave the reason of "i cant say" he has been real off with me.
We had a good relationship but since last friday he doesnt talk to me at all. and i have a feeling another girl probably told him not to talk to me,
and at the pub just now he let some of it out... he called me a head fcuk...
what does this mean?

2006-11-08 10:15:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl i like(ex) i dating another guy and it hurts to see someone i love with someone else.and i think shes doing it to make me jelouse because i said i hav a girlfriend an the way reacted made me suspicios

2006-11-08 10:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by MR47 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 10:14:09 · 3 answers · asked by the searcher 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm Daniela and I would like to know a guy or a girl from UK. I'm 21 and I'm from Italy! We can chat by Yahoo messenger.

2006-11-08 10:14:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if not then what are your reasons me of course dont want have any kids cause its too much responsibility and stress and i have to learn how to take of myself.

2006-11-08 10:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by regboi45 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK So theres this boy in my PE class thats really cute but hes in another grade.(1YR younger than me) I really like him my friends do too. What should I do???

2006-11-08 10:11:41 · 21 answers · asked by roocioosb 3 in Singles & Dating

I am letting my bestfriend live with me for awhile to finish college. I really want her to leave but she has nowhere to go and a 2yr. old. How do I tell her to leave and not start a huge fight?

2006-11-08 10:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by teaspoons 1 in Friends

whether it be gifts, restaurants, place

2006-11-08 10:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello Everyone, I could use some advice.

I am married and have a newborn son with my wife. I have another son who lives with my Ex-girlfriend. We have joint custody and I pay child support. The problem is most of my pay check goes to support my first born son.

I am in sales and work off of commision as well as a small base pay. It's not that I do not want to support my first born son. It's that I'm paying her so much that I will and am having difficulty supporting my new family. My Ex-girlfriend makes good money so it's not that my first born son is not getting his needs met. I need help renegotiating my child support.

I am seeking advice on where to turn for legal help. If anyone could suggest a legal service that is either free or specializes in fathers that wish to do right by all their children but are having a tough time of it, that would be helpful.

Web pages and names and telephone numbers of organizations that might be able to help me would be appreciated.

Thanks.

2006-11-08 10:10:51 · 12 answers · asked by loveuall3000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When he is good, he is very good, sweet, romantic, helpful.

But more times than not, he is lazy, doesn't communicate, unmotivated, self centered, and moody. I am having a hard time differentiating the swings from sheer laziness. I am responsible for everything solely on my own, I work, cook for the family, take care of the baby, grocery shop, laundry, clean house, etc. He does nothing. Some nights he will warm the baby's bottle between watching football games. I feel like leaving. I want to get a boyfriend who can care and unserstand and listen to me. I feel like hurting myself. I feel all of those things yet I would do none of them. I feel like a jack in the box waiting to explode from the box. We have a son. I feel sorry for him and do my best to spend time with him and make him think everything is ok. But it's not. I have never felt so alone in my life. I almost think being abuised would be better than his silence. I feel, as if I am literally, losing it. He maxed all our ccards.

2006-11-08 10:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by bjsmama 4 in Family

Going up to girls that initiate my interest has been thus far a hurdle. The even bigger hurdle is after I finally conjure up the balls to say hi, I cannot keep a conversation from turning awkward. I get overcome by nervousness which eventually leaves me with little to say. I know the answer sounds simple but to me i feel like i cannot get over this nervous feeling. What can I do? Any suggestions?

2006-11-08 10:09:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 10:08:56 · 9 answers · asked by Simply Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

are you a racist? do you hate other nationalities, and tell me why without violating community rules?

2006-11-08 10:08:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to add some spice to my sex life. I have been married for 4 years and with him for 7. Don't get me wrong, the sex is out of this world but I want to do something that will blow his mind. I am open to just about anything, but am too shy to make the first move. I have never brought out anything other then massage oils. He is more than enough for me but I want to be more than enough for him as well.

2006-11-08 10:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by Kerri E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im just wondering i want people think he was a nice guy and he would do anything for you

2006-11-08 10:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What to do to this kind of assholes?
They act smart and confident i just want to throw poo on thier faces!

2006-11-08 10:08:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jagxery 2 in Friends