My fiancee and i been together just over a year nowa and we have a 7mth old daughter. We live in his parents house to save money for a house however I find it hard living herea as they have two bull terrier dogs who have run of the house except downstairs where we are, his whole family smokes upstairs and the house is filthy no matter how much i try clean it. He is now 25 and been living with his family all his life and is very lazy due to the fact his mother does everything for him. I pay for all our daughters needs so as he can put money away for the house deposit and have regularly had to remind him to play with her etc as he is so wrapped up in his xbox. recently i just found that we have no savings only $500 and he just bought a $170 lego for himsellf. then in the last 3 wks i met a guy who is very stable financially secure etc and wants to have my daughter and i with him, we did sleep together but it was something we both wanted so badly.SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE
2006-11-08 10:15:23 · 6 answers · asked by Spastikus 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So, you're asking us if it's ok for you to leave your baby's father because you made a bad decision, and you seem to be wanting to keep making them? It's not up to us. If you're sleeping with someone else, I wouldn't stay there with him and his family. I wouldn't leave one guy and move in with another, either. Sweetie, if you want what's best for your daughter then do what's best for her. Get some counseling, go to school, and take care of her without depending on other men to do it.
2006-11-08 10:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will be answer with you. What on earth are you doing? from reading your letter and what I got from it, you are selfish and in living in denial.you made your bed then lay in it. Also what makes tick that new man I believe all you are looking for is financial security. What about love, and loyalty.to your man. I have been married for 5 years and went through lots of hard times but i will never say oh i found this other guy he did not gain the weight that my man did. I look beyond money property and prestige fine men are hard to find.
2006-11-08 10:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you answered you own question...Good Luck with your decision..smiles. How does living on your own for awhile and getting some independents before moving in with another guy sound???
2006-11-08 11:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jenah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI!
You are the best for your daughter. not a boyfriend that does nothing. get out on your own or with your parents but get rid of him. you deserve better!!!
2006-11-08 10:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's obvious you want to be with someone else, so just go. You are not happy where you are anyways, so just admit it to yourself, and move on.
2006-11-09 03:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL-I THINK YOU REALLY HAVE MADE UP YOU OWN MINE.
ANOTHER MAN-SECURE-SLEPT TOGETHER.
DON'T NEED ANY OUTSIDE JUSTIFICATION. YOU HAVE ALREADY DECIDED.
MOVE OUT AND ON.
CURRENT BF STILL A CHILD HIS SELF.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-08 10:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋