would u or wouldn't u and why. both parties are married to other people and long time friends that have alway's had a mutual attraction to each other. sex with their partners is unfullfilling and not satisfying. should they?
2006-11-08 10:16:29 · 16 answers · asked by peters_lissan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go right ahead. BUT, before you do, get divorces FIRST. Then, you'll both be single, and free to sleep with anybody you wish.
2006-11-08 10:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the friends have always had a mutual attraction why didnt they get married instead of marrying other people?!!
Being unfaithful is unacceptable in all circumstances from girlfriends and boyfriends to married couples. There are no advantages and the present relationship between two parties is never the same.
So sit down and talk with your partner, they wont bite, if you are married to them then nothing is too difficult to speak about because you know them. Sex isnt just sex, it involves feelings and affects each person differently and if not respected there are alot of consequences.
So talk about how you can light the flame again, whether its to lose weight, or it just isnt interesting anymore, there are always new and interesting ways to make love.
So think about approaching each other, dont ever keep secrets in relationships.
2006-11-09 00:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Resor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT!!!!! very risky, first if you have children, you could loose your kids, second if its just sex u are having a problem with just satisfy yourself, because u never know if your friend could be sleeping around and u end up catching STD or worse. Lastly if its really that important to you, get out of the relationship first, at least you are not hurting anyone and only responsible for yourself.
2006-11-08 18:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by jinky l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It start simple: sex is sex.
Then I'll bet you it will get complex.
If sex is good then why wouldn't everything else also be good.
One will want more or the other just wont be able to leave their marriage.
Then you get to know each other completely so that you are able to fart in front of each other or go to the bathroom (I KNOW THIS IMAGE KILLS THE MYSTERY).
Next think is you realize that something is missing in the relationship and you start to look else where and you've learned nothing.
As long as you know what you are getting into go for it.
2006-11-08 18:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! In life and in our relationships there must be a balance. Everyday we push and pull to get to that balance, which may include emotional fulfillment and support, intellectual stimulation, a feeling of spirituality and peace, and the basic human needs of physical, sexual desire and excitement. If one or more of these needs are not met it causes us to seek out someone who can fill in the blanks of those missing pieces that don't exist in our relationship. It is very challenging to find someone who can provide all those needs but not impossible. Open and honest communication about what each of you wants and needs from the other and ways that you can make it happen, would be the first step in bringing about happiness and fulfillment for both of you. Both people should be on equal ground. Providing a challenge for men, whether it be intellectually or intimately, keeps life exciting. If a husband (or wife) is cheating, there is probably something missing in the relationship, or he may just feel the need to feed his ego. For every negative comment you say to your spouse you should say five positive ones. Everybody likes to feel special and good about themselves and sometimes they fulfill that need with someone outside the marriage. Find the good qualities in your spouse and let them know about them.
2006-11-08 18:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Peters, Being unfaithful or dis-respectful towards your partner is not the answer. It is time to sit down with your partner and talk about how spice can be added back into your life. Good luck.
2006-11-08 18:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have an obligation to tell their spouses that they are unhappy and want a divorce.
Cheating on your partner is THE most devastating and hurtful thing you can do to them.
Divorce and settle your assets and alimony then have your fling .
See if it was worth all the pain and suffering that YOU BOTH have caused.
2006-11-08 18:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T, it's opening up Pandora's Box, and alot of problems.
Obviously people don't want to take their wedding vows seriously. Don't do it. It would be a terrible mistake and can cause alot of pain and resentment and anger between partners.
2006-11-08 18:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't for a ccouple of reasons.If you fool around with your friends and they with you sooner or later someone is going to get hurt and then everyone is going to lose.Its better to have a good friend that you can call on when needed than have a piece of tail to play with.
2006-11-08 18:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, think of the trouble that is going to happen if anybody finds out, once your married that's it. should have thought about it more before you took that step. plus how would you feel if your wife or husband cheated.
2006-11-08 18:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by brent0331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋