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Question

Quick Question:
Your husband's birthday is just around the corner. You and him have been together for some time now, you and him are open and honest about everything. He knows what you like...what turns you on...and likewise you know what fantasies he thinks about and you'd love to rock his world for his birthday. While he's too much of a gentleman to just come out and ask you, you know he gets turned on by the thought of you with another woman.

Would you ever consider having pictures/videos taken of you and another girl kissing/making out (no nudity...absolutely no sex)?

If so, would you rather "do it" with a friend, or someone you've never met (and probably never will see again)?

Reason I ask:
My awesome wife keeps asking me to "open up" and share with her my "desires/fantasies"...And while I want to tell her everything that turns me on, I'm wondering if something like this is best kept to myself.

I'm not joking, I'm not looking for some cheap thrills...all honesty

Answer 1

It is not my thing, it may be hers, share...

Answer 2

It depends on your wife. Some women would be completely heart broken if they knew their husbands thought of such a thing. Other women, however, might be somewhat up to the idea. If you think it will hurt her then keep it to yourself and let fantasies be fantasies. It she's what i would call a Little kinky then go for it, ask her. I would personally get someone you'll never see again because if your wife totally regrets it it's going to be hard to forget it if the girl is a friend. Just make sure that if you decide to use someone you don't really know that their clean, as in STD free.

Answer 3

No way would I do it. When your married your in a committed relationship and same sex or not that would be cheating. A friend of mines husband wanted her to do it, so she did to make him happy, well turned out he didn't like it like he thought he would because everything they had an argument he threw it in her face that she cheated with another woman. They broke up a few months later.Besides fantasiess are called fantasies for a reason, their something to think about not act on. I don't know anyone that has ever had a fantasie live up to it's expectations.

Answer 4

Is a picture going to be enough in a year or will you want it in reality? Never ever bring a third person into a marriage sexually it makes the partner feel threatened that he or she is not enough.Some people can do it but they have to be 110% sure of how they will feel long term. I dont think opening up to her is doing any harm by any means im not that much of a prude and lets face it it would rank high on the top of MOST mens fantasies.....unfortunately fantasies if taken further can turn into total disasters.oh and i am single but divorced...i have dealt with this sort of thing though on a personal level

Answer 5

Sometime's fantasies can be damaging. It all depends on your relationship. We share everything, it makes our sex very intense. And though at the time, the thoughts may bring jealousy, we know where fantasies fit in our lives. Women in general are very tolerant of male fantasies, we know they exist. What most have issues with is if the fantasies don't include them. If she is asking about yours, she has the desire to satisfy you. Don't shut her out completely, start small, tell her something like... her and a friend are out clothes shopping and they are sharing a dressing room and one helps the other with a zipper, or they are complimenting each other... nothing sexual has happened but they are both aware of the potential...

Answer 6

Maybe.....someone that you don't know becuase if she did it with a friend then everytime you see the friend you will look at her differently and it may make your wife feel uncomfortable. Although, who knows where a stranger has been and it is not like you just go up to a stranger and say "Hey do you want to make out with my wife?" Kind of odd either way....sorry. I don't have a straight answer for you.

Answer 7

Im sorry I wouldnt be able to fulfill this fantasy with my husband ever. And besides he would want 2 chicks hotter than me anyway. I guess the only thing you can do is tell her your fantasy and the worse she will say is no. So take a chance tell her your fantasy and she will either fullfill it or not.

Answer 8

Fantasies are just that ..FANTASIES....You want to keep this to yourself...Otherwise u will open up a can or worms that u do not want to open. Let me explain.If u tell her this she will think u are not satisfied with her.Then all these doubts will creep up in her and then u will have a mess....Keep it as a fantasy....Sometimes woman ask things that they have no idea what they are really asking...

Answer 9

I think you are looking for a fat lip and knot on the head.Not many wives are open enough to see pictures of there husbands makeing out with other women.Same for the guys seeing there ladies.It sounds like fantasy that probable needs to stay a fantasy.

Answer 10

I would tell her and see what she says. Sounds like ya'll have a good relationship.

I would do it for my husband if he asked and i have never been with a girl or kissed one for that matter. But if that's what he wanted just a pictures that's all i would do it.

Oh and it would have to be a stranger

Answer 11

I would do it, but only with a stranger that I would never see again. You should really open up to your wife about this, but if she rejects the idea NEVER ask her again, or she will feel obligated to do something that makes her uncomfortable.