Okay there is this girl that i really like. she likes me too as a friend. and i want to be more than just a friend. all i have to do is to get the boyfriend out of the picture. now i am willing to do some serious sabotage here. any ideas? No murder plans please!
2006-11-08 09:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by hardjesus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't allow yourself to be seen getting involved; it will just make you look bad in her eyes. Instead, let her best friend (one that hopefully does not like her boyfriend) know that you like her and get her to help. The friend will bad-mouth the boyfriend while you are making yourself look better by spending more time with her, talking to her, listening and learning more about her. Eventually, the bad talk and the sabotaging will force her and her boyfriend to fight, and she will probably come to you to be comforted if you did your job right.
Eventually, you will have to let her know how you feel about her, and she will have to respond. If she's just not into you, you can not force her hand; but, if there is honestly some interest, you being so cool during her "crisis" should seal the deal.
Good luck!
2006-11-08 09:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by hotstepper2100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation. does she love her boyfriend very very much? if she does, leave their relationship alone. if you love her, and she's very happy with the boyfriend she has now, you should leave things the way they are. however, if you feel that you can make her happier than that other dude, and she doesn't really love that guy anyway, make your moves. i am a girl, so i know that the following would make me leave my boyfriend if i wasn't crazy about him anyway:
1. compliment her everyday (not too much, just one a day) on hair, clothes, shoes (yes, shoes, very important), then you can get into eyes...etc.
2. worship her like she is the only woman in the world
3. be there when she needs you -- if all the world abandons her, you should be the person to make her feel loved
4. make her laugh -- it would be great if you have inside jokes too
5. show that you care about her, even only as a friend
6. let her hug you and do the girly stuff...etc. (i think you have no problems with that)
7. KNOW when is the right time to say the right thing - FILTER is important, think before you talk.
Good luck~
2006-11-08 09:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a total jerk for even thinking of doing something so mean. Word of advice buddy u don't always get what u want. U might laugh and say yeah right, even if u do get the girl it makes no difference b/c your time will come when it's not so pretty and all ur way. Oh yeah and to all u playas who think u made urself a name, i got one for u dickheads!!!!!!!!! Holla Ladies!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 09:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you gotta get her flirting and a bit interested. otherwise the sabotage is going to profit someone else. get the flirty "if only we met sooner" vibe going. Once you know you're her top what if, all you gotta do is watch. he'll go out one night and she wont be with him. Ask her where he went. ask her why he didnt bring her. listen to the answers, and then at the end just, "hmm" at her. dont explain.
if they get in a fight, ask her why she puts up with him. suggest maybe he isnt as interested anymore. reaffirm that she is perfect and right and he is stupid and not worthy of her. keep pushing it.
Best I ever did was I told a girl I was flirting with to call me when she broke up with her BF. she said you could at least have the decency to say if, and i retorted, but you already dont like him much right? a month later I hooked up with her and a month after that she was single. sometimes its just how confident you sound while you talk.
2006-11-08 09:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you need to get her drunk.......... then you talk to her and have a heartfelt conversation with her about how you dig her and how you want to be together with her. Then at that point you start pointing out the other guys' imperfections like his bad hygene or how he's a loser with a loser job and no money and how much of an idiot he is. But dont say it all savage, tell her in a joking, but serious way. That way she will she that you are better than the other guy is.
The day after you call her and ask her if she wants to get some coffee.......... its as simple as that
2006-11-08 09:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by dirty n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People like you make me sick. Why should you wreck what they've got?
Who are you to destroy something they've built? Great, she's got someone. You have but two options.
1) Wait for her. If she seems unhappy in her current relationship, she will end it. But it doesn't need your help. Be there for her, let her talk to you. Thats it.
2) Find someone else. Someone who doesn't have a boyfriend.
How would you like it if I were to come and steal your girl from you? Hmmm?
2006-11-08 09:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy just Catch him doing something she does not approve of! or get one of your really good girlfriends to start hitting on him and get some pictures show them to her. if that don't work take her out and treat her better then he does.
2006-11-08 09:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sad that you would want to hurt the girl you claim to be very serious about. If you really care... Do what is right for her. let that relationship run its course..
2006-11-08 09:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're only gonna get bad rsults for doing this playa . you wouldn't want this to happen to you find someone else.
2006-11-08 09:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by fstrkm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything cause then that girl is going to hate you and not like you anymore...and your goin to make things worse..trust me just wait..be friends for now with her...
2006-11-08 09:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋