Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

alright i have a problem, i've known this girl for around two years now and i have feelings for her but she has a boyfriend who treats her like **** and doesnt really care about her like i do. we are friends and she is always callin me everytime he hurts her, but on the other hand there is this other girl i've been talkin to and she is single and i like her but my feeling are stronger for the other girl but she has a boyfriend, and everytme i talk to her and the other girl calls she gets mad, i just dont know what to do anymore. plz help

2006-11-06 10:31:36 · 10 answers · asked by thatonefoolinthe_831 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I want to 2 but well at the same time I dont and he kind of keeps calling me chicken and what not because of it what should I do or say or should I just have sex with him????

2006-11-06 10:30:58 · 24 answers · asked by ferretgirlsnickers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is 5 years too long, especially since we are saving sex for marriage? We're both 19 and have dated for more than a year, and got engaged recently... We talked about waiting until a year after we graduate to get married... Please give me how long it was for you, and what you think of our plan. Thanks!

2006-11-06 10:30:39 · 26 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today is me & my boyfirend's 3 month anniversery. I miss him soo much and I did get a phone call on Nov.5 which Im really happy about (and we write letters all the time) but I wish I could hear from him today too, seeing as when he called me was the first time in almost 4 weeks that I have heard his voice but I know he couldnt help it they dont give you much freedom in bootcamp, this Wendsday he is going to be sent to an "A" school in or near Illinois.
But anyways how would or how do you deal with missing someone so much???

2006-11-06 10:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 10:30:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends x-gf still talks to him. Ok thats fine i keep in contact with my x's. BuT this little girl still flirts with him like crazy and ive told him abt how much it bugs me. Ive even talked to her abt it and she said shed stop. BUt the stupid little girl still has been talking to him and stuff like b4. Is this reasonable for me to get mad? if it is what should i say to him or her?

2006-11-06 10:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking him in his 30's, her in her 50's.

2006-11-06 10:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by Salsa 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm making a picture slideshow for the wedding party as a memory book for the wedding. I need song suggestions! Thanks!

2006-11-06 10:28:20 · 13 answers · asked by athespiangirl 2 in Weddings

.....okay my man is acusuing me of cheating on him! I never did I love him with all my heart! It never ever even crossed my mind of cheating on him.
Now here is my question would u do it now just because he told u u are doing it.

2006-11-06 10:28:14 · 29 answers · asked by Tiny T 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's weird for a grown man to collect action figures or baseball cards?

2006-11-06 10:26:55 · 19 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

I just can't get a guy young enough for me. What have I done? I mean just a guy in his late teens early 20's shouldn't be that hard. what should I do dif?

2006-11-06 10:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for about a week. We had some pretty intense conversations and got to know each other very well right away. He had dated a lot of different people, while I have always been more into relationships. I didn't push him into a relationship...he wanted to be in one. He initiated it. We had an amazing weekend together doing some really fun and unique things. He would tell me how I was what he'd been looking for for years. That I'm the one he's been searching for. How happy I made him. How if he was having a bad day I could turn it around. Then, out of nowhere, he says he's unhappy with where he is in his life regarding work and his living situation. That he feels like he needs to take better control over those things before he can feel like he can fully give to someone. It was completely out of nowhere. So he says he still wants to be close friends. That he still needs me in his life, just not in a relationship. I have no idea what to think or do. Am I missing something

2006-11-06 10:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by Squeegy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 and very frustrated with guys, I feel they are childish can't hold a conversation and insecure. The oldest gut I dated was 24. Should I try older men?

2006-11-06 10:25:59 · 30 answers · asked by Brystal 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with this guy for about two months now, we fight sometimes, but he loves me and i know i love him. one of my best friends believe me but two dont, how do i prove to them that i do love him? i'm already in a fight with one of them because they won't get over the fact that i'm in love and they aren't! its sooo annoying please help me out!! =(

2006-11-06 10:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi// 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my this girl that used to be my friend moved in with me & my parents they lived here for about 3 months up until today when no one was at home packed their stuff and left owning my parents money, is there anyway I can get it to court so my parents can get their money back?
Important please some answer.
I feel really guilty about this.

2006-11-06 10:24:17 · 3 answers · asked by krissy_pod 2 in Friends

I jumped into a relationship and now I regrett it and dont want it but dont know how to break it off and what to say because I am concerned about the other persons feelings. But if I dont end it I know i will just do more damage

2006-11-06 10:24:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is living with me because she is going to college here and she is taking over my life. I am in the 8th grade and she has taken my family away from me. She impresses them and I feel left out because it is like I am invisible now. If I am talking to my mom or dad she will start talking to them and my parents forget I am there. When I try watching television she takes the remote and watches what she wants to watch and I don't get to watch television. I usually don't get to get on the computer either but right now she went with my mom to get some stuff. She gets to shop at American Eagle, Aeropostale, Abercrombie, and Hollister and my mom pays for it! If I ask my mom to buy something for $15 she says no, but she will spend almost $100 on my cousin a week! They also pay for her fees for college wich is like $500 dollars a month! My mom won't even pay my $50 fee for school because of the textbooks! She is controling my life, taken my parents and my brother. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!

2006-11-06 10:23:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am VERY VERY VERY VERY sure that Erik (the guy i think likes me) likes me....how o i get to know for show...he does all of the looks into my eyes, gives me compliments and laughs at his jokes...how do i get to know for SURE that he likes me.....please if you could help..that would be great

2006-11-06 10:23:41 · 14 answers · asked by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has just gotten a new set of friends, they are really cool, and I hang out with them myself. But I soon started to knowtice that she wouldn't call me anymore, and she would tell her secrets to others, but not me. Should I wait around for her to realize I'm sad, and mad at her, or just end the friendship?

2006-11-06 10:23:21 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel L 2 in Friends

and i think he likes me back cause he looks at me ?!?!

2006-11-06 10:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by sportfun101 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend and he has a really rude and mean girlfriend. Anyways, I really like him and if you have read any of my previous questions, you can see why I am so confused. But, I really like him and I flirted with him. He flirted back. He squeezed my waist, whispered in my ear, gave me "more than friends" hugs, stared at me a lot and kept on staring even after I caught him. What do I do?

2006-11-06 10:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I asked some of my friends that are girls!what would make them want to go out with a boy???And they both said just go up to the girl you think is pretty and complament her and walk away!Like go up to somone and go hey.Then go i am........josh!And then last like go i like your shoes,your pretty,ect and then say later and walk away????Would that work because they would not get pressured and come to me and me not haveing to crawl to them????
Would it work or should i just flush the idea!
GIRLS OLNY!

2006-11-06 10:22:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just to keep the balance...;0)

2006-11-06 10:22:11 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short, me and this girl were talking, one night, i went out and drank with some people while she did the same, we met up later cuz she kept callin and wanted to hang out, i drove from a place that was a half hour away, after id been drinking, just to hang out for a couple hours, later that night, we are laying on the couch with another couple, one of my good friends and another girl, and then my friend has his hand down her pants... i dont know what to do because i still have feelings for this girl, but there is no way i think i could ever trust her again, granted she had alcohol in her system, this is really no excuse, please send help soon

2006-11-06 10:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by bonediddly 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy was my friend for about 3 months and we literally hang out together like...every second of our lives and I really know him, and he really knows me, and one day, he asked his x-girlfriend if I want to go out with him. she asked me and is probably telling everyone about it. plus, I reeeaaalllyyy like this OTHER guy and he probably like me too, but haven't said anything. So, my friend wants to ask me out and this is my first date. I don't know what to say. I don't want to hurt his feelings by saying no, and this is probably the only chance I'll get asked out. I do like him alot, and I do like to go out with him, but I don't like him as much as the other guy and I don't want to ruin any chances with him.
and...what do you do when you go out? i need answers quick plz!!!

2006-11-06 10:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Charlene 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago i still dont think im ready to start dating but my mom and friends found alot of interested guys. Should i start dating or wait till im ready?

2006-11-06 10:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

I got to know a bunch of new friends in college, but lately I realized that we can't get along. What should I do? I mean I'm afraid that when I leave them, I won't find somebody else and will be all alone again, but still if I decide to stay with them, we are not comfortable because we are not the same type, what do you think?

2006-11-06 10:20:25 · 6 answers · asked by Drowned in English! 3 in Friends

At school i dress up all pretty for him and all that stuff..and he goes around acting all kool thinking he can do whatever he wants to me just because he has a girlfriend.He wont talk to me or nothing.I keep telling him he treats me like dirt but all he says is sorry.People i just got off the phone with him.I hung up on him.Should i just let him keep controling me and treating me like dirt or what???

2006-11-06 10:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you do or how do you tell your newly found partner that their breathe is bad? Bad enough that you cant talk to them face to face? Bad enough that you find it hard to kiss them and look like you are enjoying it?

2006-11-06 10:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Robert T 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for 3 years. I'm 23 and he's 32. When we first met I was going to clubs/parties 3 weekends out the month. As our relationship gets stronger I go less, for the past year I probably go out once sometimes twice a month. He wants me to stop going period, whether it's just because or a friend/family member birthday. I tell him that I don't give out my number or hook up with anyone when I do go and he says he believes and trusts me, but doesnt want me in that atmosphere anymore. I've invited him to go out with us but he doesnt want to. He doesnt go to clubs and parties. We love each other very much. Should I stop going out because he doesnt want me to?

2006-11-06 10:19:57 · 9 answers · asked by Miss E 3 in Singles & Dating