At school i dress up all pretty for him and all that stuff..and he goes around acting all kool thinking he can do whatever he wants to me just because he has a girlfriend.He wont talk to me or nothing.I keep telling him he treats me like dirt but all he says is sorry.People i just got off the phone with him.I hung up on him.Should i just let him keep controling me and treating me like dirt or what???
2006-11-06 10:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't let him treat you like dirt, just break up wit him. Find another bf who treats you right
2006-11-06 10:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to give it to you like this but....he thinks your dirt and the longer you let him treat you like dirt then he's going to keep doing it. You let him treat you like this he doesn't force you...he's not forcing you to talk to him....not holding you captive..so why are you doing this to yourself? that's the big question!
i know girls that are so pretty (i've been through it) where we have guys that treat us horrible no matter what we do and its not because of us its them and he has problems and he's taking it out on you. i had an ex that talked to me like crap and disrespected me alot.. and why cause i i thought he was sorry every time and i kept taking him back when he kept on doing it. so what does that say about u and me and everyone else? it says that we dont respect ourselves. i've let him go and did what i had to do to get myself on track and now he's begging all the time begging for me back and i can't cause he doesnt respect me. let him go and before you do let him know one last time that you do not appreciate him disrespecting you and you can't be with someone like that. why would you? do you want to marry someone like that? NO so leave him alone now. he has you under control break free from that and move on. the more he treats you like dirt the more you feel like you are but YOUR NOT and show him that by giving him the boot. dont be afraid to do there are so many guys he's not the only one. u have to give up in order to get better the more you stay the worst its going to get
2006-11-06 18:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let ANYBODY treat you badly, there is no reason for it. Find another boyfriend...and never repeat this mistake. People who try to be controlling, jealous, or abusive are not the sort of people you will want in your life. If your boyfriend does not treat you as though you are the best thing that's ever happened to him, replace him...there are always more out there, and you will have nothing to lose...don't be a victim.
2006-11-06 18:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm no you should not keep letting him control you and treat you like dirt...what kind of relationship is that? talk to him...tell him he has no right to treat you like that and ask him why he wont talk to you in school? tell him your his girlfriend and deserve to be treated better than he has be treating you and if he doesnt change then you're going to find someone who will...dont sit around and let some guy treat you like that...trust me there are alot better guys out there :)
2006-11-06 18:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things
He may be treating you like this because he only wants to seem cool and follow the group by having a girlfriend.
Or he could be too shy to talk to you face-to-face so instead, he ignores you.
2006-11-06 18:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzycherrycream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you shouldnt let him treat you like this. You definatly dont want this for the rest of your life, why put up with it now? Stop right now while you have nothing invested with him.
2006-11-06 18:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sophiegreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the no....let that dirt bag go...sister girl move on to another and dont look back...life is too short to put up with bs
2006-11-06 18:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by ThunderCats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem, but the guy im with, doesn't have a gf and bullys especially me. he gets his friends into bulling me too. i know how you feel.
i think you should tell someone that has controll over him (his parents, a teacher...ect) and explain to them what's wrong. they will understand and will talk to him.
i think that's what im gonna do
2006-11-06 18:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Charlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinitly not! get rid of him. you deserve someone who is actually going to be a REAL BOYFRIEND, to me he sounds like a fake, and he is just using you.
2006-11-06 18:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u let him control u, just leave, it's that easy trust me!
2006-11-06 18:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋