alright i have a problem, i've known this girl for around two years now and i have feelings for her but she has a boyfriend who treats her like **** and doesnt really care about her like i do. we are friends and she is always callin me everytime he hurts her, but on the other hand there is this other girl i've been talkin to and she is single and i like her but my feeling are stronger for the other girl but she has a boyfriend, and everytme i talk to her and the other girl calls she gets mad, i just dont know what to do anymore. plz help
2006-11-06 10:31:36 · 10 answers · asked by thatonefoolinthe_831 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha. we're on the same boat.
except, im a girl and he's a boy...good luck!!!
i think you should just wait, like im doing. it's going pretty well and sooner or later, she'll care about herself more and will know you like her and her boyfriend is treating her like ******
2006-11-06 10:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by Charlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similiar situation a time back. The girl I really wanted never became mine because she started using me as a tool towards her real b/f. After I found out about this, I quit going after her knowing she would probably do the same to me later. It sounds like she is maybe using you just for a shoulder to cry on. Good luck
2006-11-06 18:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robert T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is a little jealousy going on- this might be an option- you can date the other girl and see if that makes the one you want break up w her present bf- esp if he treats her like- )((&^%$$#&- She must not think enough of her self if she stays w a guy that treats her bad- that is a whole 'nother story= D
2006-11-06 18:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are going to talk to 2 girls at once, never tell one when the other is calling..... but i would try to go for the taken girl. if she is being treated like **** then maybe if you talk to her at the right time, you can win her heart from the dumbass. Save her! But, once you get her, you have to be a perfect gentleman, bc you dont want to be just as bad! and after a bad relationship, she will be insecure and/or low self-esteemed.
2006-11-06 18:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many confusing pronouns in this I don't even get who's mad for when the other one calls.
So they both have BF's?
Bro, just choose. It's your life. If you want to be with that girl with a bf and she wants to be with you then tell her she has to choose.
Personally, she's taken, go for someone else. Like that girl who does/doesn't have a bf who may/may not be mad when the other one calls/or she calls her.
2006-11-06 18:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the girl you have the most feelings for..if the boyfriend treats her bad she'll know how much you care for her by going ahead and talking to her with your heart in her hands...girls like it when guys show their emotions..talk to the one you care about the most and that you see yourself with.
2006-11-06 18:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life. Date, have fun. The girl with the a**hole boyfriend might just come around. Don't be a door mat.
2006-11-06 18:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by reedtherulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl that you feel strongly about how you feel and see how she feels. If you don't you might end up regretting it for a long time.....
2006-11-06 18:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rayc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT BEING A DORK AND DO WHAT YOU KNOW TO BE RIGHT, TELL HER YOU LOVE HER AND SHE IS EITHER GONNA BE WITH YOU OR STAY IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP; EITHER WY YOU GET HER OR THE ONE YOUR DONKIN NOW.
2006-11-06 18:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by msocmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend. you've always been loyal to each other- make her realize what a douche this guy is, and go for it.
2006-11-06 18:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋