Long story short, me and this girl were talking, one night, i went out and drank with some people while she did the same, we met up later cuz she kept callin and wanted to hang out, i drove from a place that was a half hour away, after id been drinking, just to hang out for a couple hours, later that night, we are laying on the couch with another couple, one of my good friends and another girl, and then my friend has his hand down her pants... i dont know what to do because i still have feelings for this girl, but there is no way i think i could ever trust her again, granted she had alcohol in her system, this is really no excuse, please send help soon
2006-11-06 10:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by bonediddly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Save yourself further heartbreak and steer clear of her...
2006-11-06 10:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you can say alcohol is no excuse but, it IS! If you had been stopped while drinking what excuse would you have had for acting so stupid? Alcohol consumption would be the cause because people who aren't drinking won't do all the things they do when they are. Take it from a long line of family alcoholism. People do all kinds of stupid things and if you hold this against her you are really an A**. I know you've done things that she doesn't know about and alcohol was involved. So, it's good for the Gander just not the Goose, am I right? you need to stop and try to help her stop socializing in this way. It's a real deadly as well as risky way to behave for all of you. Take responsibility for your actions, you were there and she is a lot smaller and probably a lot more intoxicated than you, probably blacked out! So, grow up, be forgiving and do the right thing and don't be the Holier than thou judgemental person that thinks it's wrong but he does it too. give it up and start being a real man and help yourself and her too. Talk to her and try to get away from the behavior that caused the mistake. it could be worse, there is Aides, HepatitisC which is deadly, syphilis, gonhorea, genital warts that cause cervical cancer in women, then the little thing called pregnancy. This can happen any time you drink and don't use protection, or don't use it correctly. All birth control fails at least 6-15% of the time. That includes condoms, spermicide, the pill and anything else out there. That's besides all the other things that are spread by body fluids or kissing as far as herpes. Grow up and ask her to do the same. She may surprise you and be a great partner, to be sober with. Don't judge her, she was not in control. You should have been protecting her too!! good luck buddy. Hope you get straight.
2006-11-06 18:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are buzzed or drunk you really have no clue what you are doing or who is doing what to you so give this girl a chance and see how she is when she is sober and if she is still with the guy then yes move on already HUGS
2006-11-06 18:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can do that infront of someone else and cant control her liqour shes definetly not someone you want to take home to mama
2006-11-06 18:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should consider the fact that there was alchohol in her system because well she was drunk just ask her to try it with you
2006-11-06 18:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by MR47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her let her go.
2006-11-06 18:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by butterflyaht1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋