i've been going out with this guy for about two months now, we fight sometimes, but he loves me and i know i love him. one of my best friends believe me but two dont, how do i prove to them that i do love him? i'm already in a fight with one of them because they won't get over the fact that i'm in love and they aren't! its sooo annoying please help me out!! =(
2006-11-06 10:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by Brandi// 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump your friend(s)...
2006-11-06 10:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Brandi, they (the two who don't believe you) might think that you aren't in love with him (and vice versa) because of the fighting. But what I've seen is that the little fights sort of test the relationship. Not really in a bad way, just think of it as a way to see if the relationship will last. If you believe in God, you could think of it that God is watching over the relationship, and wants to make sure it will last. It's sort of hard to explain, but just looking at it like practicing or seeing if you're ready for a more serious relationship, I'm sure you could convince the friends who don't believe you.
2006-11-06 18:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what your friends think? She's just jealous that she doessnt have anyone yet. Don't worry about it, if shes a true friend she'll get over it. If not then you dont need her as a friend anyway. You shouldn't have to prove to your friends that you love your boyfriend or that he loves you. That is between you two. Your friends should be there for you no matter what, and if you are fighting with your boyfriend she should be there for you to lean on. That is what friends are for. If she's not there for you, you dont need her as a friend. You shouldnt have to fiight with them both. You dont need that.
2006-11-06 18:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well id they are jealous becase you are happily in love and they arent, they arent your true friends. Cause a real friend would have been happy for you. I know its hard to hear that kind of thing and believe it, but its true. If you know you are in love that's all that matters. Not what your friends thing. You dont need to explain your self to anyone. You believe what you feel and thats it.
2006-11-06 18:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by krissy_pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to prove it to them!! You and him both know thats all that matters....but sayiny that they are jel because your in love and their not is harsh. They a prob a bit upset that you spend so much time with this guy, try juggling a bit more, never neglect mates and fall out over a guy with them.
Hope it all works out hun xxx
2006-11-06 18:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to prove anything to your so called friends. They arent the ones in love with him you are. What do you care what they think anyways???? Thats crazy. If they were your friends then they would support you no matter what. Maybe they are just jealous of you and his relationship. If i were you i would prove anything to them and i wouldnt owrry what they think. If you and him are in love then thats all who needs to know.
2006-11-06 18:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda had the same problem with my 2 friends ..... what i figured works the best was talk to them about it and tell them how you really feel about him and that if their true friend's they'll understand and accept me that u love him and that u shouldn't have to prove it to them ... tell them something like that ... Good Luck!! <333
2006-11-06 18:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well, if you are really fighting about that, its sad. You don't need to define your life for your friends. if you two know you love eachother, that's enough. Your friends fighting you because they don't believe you're in love..I mean really! it's insane. Don't worry about them, if they can't handle it they aren't really friends.
2006-11-06 18:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Becca P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to prove your love of your boyfriend to your other friends. They'll get over it.
2006-11-06 18:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can't be proven. And sorry, if you are in love it doesn't matter what your friends think about it (provided you aren't doing something really, really stupid). So their opinions on whether it's love or not don't matter, because it is your bf, not theirs.
2006-11-06 18:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by derkaiser93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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dont dump ur friends-god
if you guys do eventually break up then who would be there for you if you got rid of your friends u need them.
2006-11-06 18:30:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋