Today is me & my boyfirend's 3 month anniversery. I miss him soo much and I did get a phone call on Nov.5 which Im really happy about (and we write letters all the time) but I wish I could hear from him today too, seeing as when he called me was the first time in almost 4 weeks that I have heard his voice but I know he couldnt help it they dont give you much freedom in bootcamp, this Wendsday he is going to be sent to an "A" school in or near Illinois.
But anyways how would or how do you deal with missing someone so much???
2006-11-06 10:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww... I had to deal with a long distance relationship for 4 months... I've got 3 tips for you.
Make him record a voicemail on your phone, a long one that will comfort you, and listen to it when you miss him.
Call him and leave msgs on his phone (if possible). It feels like you've talked to him and told him what you wanted to say.
Make little presents to give him (like folding paper, etc) for when you see him again... This will keep your hands busy.
Good luck and stay strong!
2006-11-06 10:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to date someone in the military then you are going to have to learn that work comes first!!!! He is not always going to be able to call or write when you need him too.
Be patient and understanding. I'm sure he misses you just as much as you him. He is having a harder time then you if you think about it.
I use to tell my husband that by the time he gets home the garbage will be ready to take out...he was out ALLOT!!!!
2006-11-06 18:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, I would be REALLY careful with that relationship. I only say that because I was in the military and unless your guy is the best and most faithfull guy in this world, he will mess around on you. No matter how much he says he won't, he doesnt realize how it is when your really in the military and get to the base.
Now i am not trying to scare you, because im sure there are guys that will try to be faithfull, but it is hard when you are away for so long.
But to answer your question, I would deal with it by trying to fill my life up with friends and family and trying to do stuff for myself.
2006-11-06 18:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEING A FORMER SAILOR IS NOT EASY ESPECIALLY TO A GF CAUSE A SCHOOL IS FOR A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME THEN THEY GET TO GO HOME AND SEE THERE FAMILY AND YOU BUT THATS ONLY FOR 30 DAY THEN SHIPPED OUT TO SEA
PS THE TOWN WHERE HE PROBABLY AS NTC GREAT LAKES IT ABOUT 1 1/2 HOURS FROM CHICAGO
2006-11-06 18:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a Sailor and you have to keep yourself busy.
Send him cards and notes make sure your scent is on them.
Always be upbeat when talking to him but let him know you miss him.
I hope you are able to see him really soon.
2006-11-06 21:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋