Okay I asked some of my friends that are girls!what would make them want to go out with a boy???And they both said just go up to the girl you think is pretty and complament her and walk away!Like go up to somone and go hey.Then go i am........josh!And then last like go i like your shoes,your pretty,ect and then say later and walk away????Would that work because they would not get pressured and come to me and me not haveing to crawl to them????
Would it work or should i just flush the idea!
GIRLS OLNY!
2006-11-06 10:22:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FLUSH the idea,,,, I don't think a girl is going to buy that, or at least I wouldn't I would think... "that was weird" If you really want to meet a girl, you need to introduce your self and have a conversation. non of this hi, your pretty bye thing.... the girl will just blow it off and wait for a real man to come talk to her.... so don't be shy and make conversation and yes compliment her but stay talking after the compliment.
2006-11-06 10:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging from the response you got form them I'm assuming your in Jr High or High School at the most. When your younget these things work, just as well as being nice. Though the girl may think you odd for walking up to her ans telling her something nice and walking away. Try having a conversation with her. If you show your genuinly interested in her beyond on efeature, she will like that. Girls (and women) like a guy who can listen and be nice to them. But remember they also have to be nice to you and show interest towards you too.. not "oh he likes me.... ok I'll date him" Wrong mentality to date someone. Like them for who they are and be interested.
2006-11-06 10:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it actually depends on like if u mean it and who u r tell it too. If u do say that then don't do it when like 1000 of people r there but also not just u and her. Oh and don't do it to one girl then go to another and tell her the same thing 'cause then she might think that u were making fun of her or something. But do whatever u want to do dude.
2006-11-06 10:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flush the idea. Girls tend to go for what they want, when girls want your attention they will use their friends somehow and make jokes around you. give her a smile and she will know your interested, if she's interested back she will make the next move, let things happen naturaly it's the best way to go.
2006-11-06 10:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the impression you are a young guy, so I can't say for sure if that would work well...it wouldn't have worked on me as a teen...once you said "later" that would've been it...if you want to talk to a girl, talk to her...don't walk up to her, say something, then walk away...that might work, but is it worth the trouble and days of "he said"/"she said" to find out if she's really interested?
If you like her, walk up to her and start a conversation...if she seems ammenable to that, then maybe ask her out...
Good luck!
2006-11-06 10:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flush baby. I'm a girl and I like directness and not games. If a guy wants to go out with me, then he should just say...you wanna go out? It's as simple as that.
2006-11-06 10:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well dont change to get a certain girl to like you. but i would want to go out with a guy that was sweet, caring, easy to talk to, listens to me, is always there for me, compliments me, and just fun to hang around with. dont just walk up to her and say shes pretty a guy did that to my friend and it was creepy. get your friends that are girls to get to know her better then u guys should all hang out as a group then talk to her and compliment her. and flirt with her. she will soon get the idea u like her. then once u feel her vibe go and ask her out. or if your talking and a good moment comes up tell ehr u like her hair or shes pretty or tell her u like her the same without makeup on that always works! good luck!
2006-11-06 10:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is walking away going to make them like you?
Girls like compliments, but they must be timed correctly. Otherwise they assume your trying to use a pick-up line and you just come off as a pervert or a jerk. How you approach them depends on if you know them or not.
Also, dont be fake and say something cliche like "I like your shirt" instead try something like "You look great in red." Try to find something that they wouldnt expect you to notice.
2006-11-06 10:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the girl out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no, or say that someone already asked her to homecoming. But don't punk out, be a man, and do what you gotta do. If she likes you, she'll probably say yes, especially since she knows you.
2016-05-22 05:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl will have a different answer of how they like to be approached. but i think getting there direct eye contact, and see how long they stair back is a good one. (quick second, just walk away, but a longer stair go for it.) if there is a second look then i would approach then by introducing your self and going on from there. if they are interested they will look longer to see what other things you have to offer.ie.. looks, good clothes, well mannered, jewelry. good luck
2006-11-06 10:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sue A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋