i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago i still dont think im ready to start dating but my mom and friends found alot of interested guys. Should i start dating or wait till im ready?
2006-11-06 10:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait til you are ready. But I hope you are going out with your friends. Sometimes a girls night out is what you need.
2006-11-06 10:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyaht1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start when you feel like you are ready. IF you went out just because your mom or friend set you up, you may give an impression to the guy that you are not interested and/or you don't like him even though maybe you do.
Dating comes down to wanting and willing to meet other people. You have to want to do it to have a good time and to thoroughly get to know someone.
But, it is always a good thing to get back out there so you don't end up at home eating ice cream on the couch every night (coming from me!).
I would just date when you feel the time is right and start actually seeing other guys and feel you are interested in getting to know them.
2006-11-06 10:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least try to talk to these guys, after talking to them if they dont spark your interest or you find yourself not opening up then you may just need to wait. Your personal life should not be on hold because of a breakup
2006-11-06 10:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait till u r ready and good luck.
2006-11-06 10:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by shy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait if you are ready to go out with a guy again..
but if you'd like to forget about your break-up, go out with your friends and family than dating these "interested guys."
2006-11-06 10:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by marielsigrid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait until your ready. but you could go out with maybe one or two of the guys just to give them a chance, or just to have fun
2006-11-06 10:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your ready!
It wont be fair to you or to the new guy .
Best of luck!!!
2006-11-06 10:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and start having fun. Accept that it is over and move on. There's no point in sitting around pining. You could be meeting someone great while you're doing that
2006-11-06 10:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you haven't dated for a bit sometimes its difficult to know when you're actually ready, and going out may push it into the "i'm ready" phase. so, i say yes, start dating.
2006-11-06 10:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out is not a bad thing... meet new people! Don't be with them, if you're not ready, but going out is not a big deal.
Enjoy yourself
2006-11-06 10:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋