.....okay my man is acusuing me of cheating on him! I never did I love him with all my heart! It never ever even crossed my mind of cheating on him.
Now here is my question would u do it now just because he told u u are doing it.
2006-11-06 10:28:14 · 29 answers · asked by Tiny T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you dare.Don't do that you will be making a big mistake. You need to find out why he acts this way.Is he doing something wrong?He won't tell you if he is so just do some investigating.Keep your eyes and ears open at all times.Its okay to tell him that he is putting to much pressure on you and he makes you want to cheat.Tell him the thought of cheating never crossed you mind but now its there because he is forcing it to be there.Don't cheat though it will not solve anything.
2006-11-06 10:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by yesmaam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you were not cheating, that he has absolutely no reason to think that you were, and that he obviously doesn't trust you. Don't let him make you feel guilty for doing something that you did not do. You are the one who should be angry. I had a guy do that to me and I tried and tried to convince him that I wasn't cheating. I was the one that was sweet, and he was nasty to me. Never would I be like that again. You are not the one doing anything wrong. He is doing something wrong, however, by accusing you of doing something that you did not do. You need to see what his reasons are for thinking that, and determine if the relationshhip is workable, or if he is just a control freak.
I would not cheat just because I was accused. If you love him, and you determine you want to stay together, you don't want to ruin the relationship by cheating. If it is not going to work out, just end it. Don't ever cheat just because you are being accused. It can cause nothing but trouble.
2006-11-06 18:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lawgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be plain old insecurity on his part, because he doesn't get why *he* got you, instead of someone else. Then I guess it's a back-handed compliment and he just wants a bit of reassurance.
On the other hand, if he's constantly pushing the 'you're cheating on me' button, I'd be real careful. It's a control mechanism in some men, to try and get you to isolate yourself and prove you're not inclined to cheat. Then he thinks he can treat you however he likes because you've got no support network.
As for cheating now because you've been accused of it anyway: don't be an idiot. Do you compromise your morals every time someone accuses you of it?
2006-11-06 18:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lower yourself to such behavior, simply because you are accused of it? That makes as much sense as murdering someone, just because someone said you did.
What goes around, comes around...do you really want the repercussions in your life, down the road, from cheating? Do you realize that if you do cheat, you are saying it's okay for people to cheat on you?
Think a little harder about this and don't just jump in and do something stupid out of spite...it's not worth the issues it'll cause down the road...
However...I'd take another look at my relationship and my insecure boyfriend if I were you.
2006-11-06 18:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a Veteran - he is accusing you of cheating because he wants out of the relationship. Don't play yourself for a fool - get out while you still have your dignity. Chances are, he has or is planning on cheating on you. Good luck!!
2006-11-06 18:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by austsgrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh... well what i would do is that i would talk to him and say what the f*** is wrong with you I love you and would never cheat on you. And maybe he is doing the cheating think about that.
2006-11-06 18:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by DJ thunderdust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my favorite, "ye who accuses, should be accused." and then... Me thinks ye doth protest too much". when he denies it.
My ex husby cheated on me and when i caught him, he suddenly turned it around to say that i was cheating on him... oh really, yeah, i guess crossing the street with a man could be considered adultery..... who woulda thunk it hey?
oh in answer to your question? dont give the Rat Bas**** the satisfaction, and then kick him to the curb. he obviously has a guilty conscience.
2006-11-06 18:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Joyce K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater
2006-11-06 18:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not you can't go against him just cuz he accused you of cheating. just tell him how you feel and the complete truth. and if he still doesn't trust you end the relationship if he doesn't trust you then he must not love you. also you could try accusing him of cheating and he can see how it feels
2006-11-06 18:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever think coz he's accusing you that he might be the guilty one? and no that doesnt give you the right to go cheat just coz he said you did...tell him that you havent and you never will..that you love him and why would you hurt him if you love him...you two also need to work on your trust issues
2006-11-06 18:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋