Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

I'm in a very deep love trouble. I ended my very long, 5 yrs, loving relationship with GF last year b'coz of family issues, family doesnt want me to marry her. She tried convincing me a lot to come back. When family issue get resolved I came back to her after 7-8 mnths but she was unwilling to trust on me. I thought it will take some time and things will be fine. I did another mistake, after coming back I didn't call her for more than a mnth, I was trying to give her time, but she thout I did not make up my mind and she moved on and commited to some other guy. She didn't tell me while moving on.
I got to know about this and called her (we are mostly on long distance rel'n, but we had a wonderful rel'n, I'll call it a true love). Now I'm almost dead, I want her back at any rate. Bt she is not agree, she is bitching on me, per her I'm a selfish creature and don't love her. I have cleared my standings and cried over my faults and begged her to forgive me once and come back. Help me please

2006-11-06 14:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It started like this. I knew him five years ago and we were friends since then. A couple of years ago we use to flirt with each other and one day he asked me for a kiss, and I gave it to him with the condition to remain as friends and that's it. I saw him again a year after graduation, we talk for a while, he wanted a kiss and I gave it to him. I liked the feeling I got when I kiss him, that is why I did it. After he told me that we are better off as friends and I agree with it. Later on he tried to go for a kiss but I did not let him. Another day he tried a second time, this time he was a little more aggresive by insisting it and moving towards it, even though I said no. My "no" was weak so he took it as a yes or maybe. I asked him why is he doing that he said because he wants it but relationships are complicated. So yes besides kissing we went on to further things like when he placed my hand on his penis and his hands we going through my breasts and my vagina. I know I was a fool

2006-11-06 14:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What kind of personality traits are an outcome of a parent leaving a child of early school age?

2006-11-06 14:19:28 · 8 answers · asked by SeansWife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. I have a friend who, although I haven't known her for long, I really really like. In fact I like her so much I can't stop thinking about her which is rather annoying because firstly, she has a long-term boyfriend, and secondly because I need to be able to concentrate on other things.

I've tried to forget about her, but it just doesn't seem to be working. She's given me slight signs that I thought may have meant she was interested as well, but as noted above, she does have a long-term boyfriend. Also, she never mentions him around me, and I'm pretty sure she has a pic of him on her phone, yet she placed it face-down when only the two of us were there.

Anyway I don't see myself getting anywhere here, so what is the best way to forget her? I'm thinking of just telling her how I feel and breaking off contact with her. Is this a good idea or not?

If anyone has any suggestions or advice, it would be great.

Thanks.

2006-11-06 14:19:17 · 4 answers · asked by John Doe 2 in Singles & Dating

i just want to break you down so badly

2006-11-06 14:18:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well my boyfriend is in jail weve been together for 8months and i love him to death but i miss him so much, and i have SO....many feelings going through me, it doesnt make any since. iva had dreams and its just i need him but i dont want to mess up again if u know what i mean but i just need to know what to do?......

2006-11-06 14:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in love with an older man that is 20 years older than me. I was dropping him off at the airport and before he got out of the car he gave me a kiss. We both got out and i tried for another kiss, and he said I already gave you one hesitenatly and walked away. Now i know some ppl are going to say hes afraid of PDA, but he's kissed me in public before, but I thought older guys with younger girls was a good thing. If you were 34 and your gf was 18(LEGAL) would you introduce her to your friends etc?

2006-11-06 14:16:24 · 28 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3 in Singles & Dating

you have ur legs/knees tied together?? Would you use it to describe a girl who was molested but went to consuling??

Please answer my other post too. Thanx!!!!!!!

2006-11-06 14:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Singles & Dating

heres the story, im in junior high..i wuz goin out w/ this guy whom i believd 2 b the man of my dreams...i gess hes not.. on halloween this year, i went trick-or-treating w/ him...[y not?!?! i luv candy!!!] we had a HUGE group of kids so we broke up into 2 groups..one was bein led my my bf...n the other by my ex....my ex's group was goin past my house n i had 2 go home soon, so i went w/ my ex, the next day, he broke ^ w/ me.. told me he didnt like 2 go out w/ his frenz n didnt want a gf at the moment...i CRIED 4ever!!! then the next day, he asked out 1 of my FRENZ!!! who also happend 2 b 1 of his frenz!!!! omgsh.....wut m i supposed 2 do?!?! im still madly in luv w/ him n i no its time 4 me 2 move on.. but, its not that easy.......

2006-11-06 14:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who is sweet and funny. I really like him, but the only problem is that my best friend hates him. No matter what I say she still thinks he's a looser. I want a relationship with this guys, but should I really try to pursue it? What will my BEST FRIEND think of me?

2006-11-06 14:14:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I also have a problem. My b/f's older sister,(by a year so 18) cant stand him and as a way to get him mad or hurt him she hurts me. she will make fun of me and even go as far as to lie about things he does..as him cheating on me and saying he doesnt love me and onlt wants to hurt me and laughs afterwards when we get in an arguement..what can i do?

2006-11-06 14:13:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

As you may know I posted do you have trouble telling your boyfriend you are on your period. So anyway I told him and he was really well disturbed and I dont know should he fell this way.

2006-11-06 14:13:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it better to hold out as long as possible, but still continue to be sexy?

2006-11-06 14:13:13 · 21 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do if a giirl throws herself at you, i d that to one hot guys at my skool that i know & like but how do you know if he likes you or do you continue until he or one of your other friends tells you to stop?

2006-11-06 14:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really feel attracted to guys, but I'm not sure if I could be bi-sexual or if I like girls since I prefer their company. Can anyone tell me how to know how to tell if you're straight or gay?

2006-11-06 14:10:10 · 25 answers · asked by Blu_Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

If you're in a new relationship, but have been in love in the past, do you think you can ever really move on?

2006-11-06 14:09:31 · 27 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 14:09:07 · 17 answers · asked by zouk 3 in Singles & Dating

I think mine is that he may treat someone else better than he treats me. Basicly because he treat me like a dung. And I certainly don't want him standing looking at me and thinking to himself...POOR THING, SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW I JUST SCREWED so and so before I came in.

2006-11-06 14:08:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Singles & Dating

I give my boyfriend a bj everyday cuz I hate when he does it himself, because A while a go I found out he was talking to girls on webcams etc… and I don’t want him to be tempted to do it again cuz hes making an effort not too
I don’t tell him he cant mas*ter b*te I just try to pleasure him myself, but I do it every night and He still does it every morning, do u think this is necessary? Im just so afraid he will do the whole porn thing again, I need guys opinions

2006-11-06 14:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by t.marie1988 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a pretty weird problem, I think. My husband is loving and kind and a great husband, but he doesn't want sex as much as I do. I'm not ugly or fat and I do a lot to try and turn him on and we do have sex, but I initiate it. I want him to do this. It makes me feel so unsexy! I know he has been stressed at work and he used to work out more often. I know these are playing factors, but what can I do from my end? He claims nothing is wrong. Oh, and when we do have sex he comes in like three minutes. HELP ME!!!

2006-11-06 14:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by Lynn Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I jsut wonder why im alone. I had one boyfriend once, but he turned out to be an ***. Maybe its cause, im destined not to be happy. Im tall and dark skinned and Hindu, does that hinder my chances of finding true love? well, lets see how God rolls his dice.

2006-11-06 14:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if ur dream girl(and current gf) was molested about a year ago and she went through counsling, would you expect her to have had sex with you after 9 month of being together??

On the anniversary when she feels most vulnrable(sp?) would you let her cry/talk about it?? How would you comfort her??
Would you let her sleep(not sex) with you for comfort??(ie- fear of being alone.)

How would you and her spend this day??

All answers appreciated. Thanx!!

2006-11-06 14:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Singles & Dating

what are they attracted to

2006-11-06 14:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 14:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a stereotype that I have been curious about for a while now, I realize that not every person (or woman) is the same, but on a general scale do women seem to find type computer "types" unattractive. I suppose sources and statistics would be great.

2006-11-06 14:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

my best friend Brittney went with her friend Kelly too Kelly’s old town and Brittney comes back, with all these make out photos of her and this guy, there on the floor and couch and on top of each other she was bragging about it too everyone and now she can't wait too go back and get some more action she talks about nothing else and keeps bragging, how do i get her too stop talking about it?

2006-11-06 14:01:53 · 17 answers · asked by valley1800 5 in Singles & Dating

i know i have posted this kind of question before. but please if you can not be nice then dont bother, this guy that i use to date a long time ago, contacted me again, he came to see me and plans on coming again this weekend. he lives in another state. but here is the problem, he and i know this girl, and he does not want her to know that we are even talking. she to knows his ex, all he says is he does not want her to know because she has a big mouth. so what! right? why would he care if she told his ex. or anyone else for that matter. he has the right to have a life.or do you think it is because he still wants to be with his ex. she cheated on him and thats why they are not together.

2006-11-06 14:01:41 · 3 answers · asked by here to help 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 14:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like for example, my friend's parents told her that they were going to be really late (coming home) because her dad forgot to bring money for the toll, but they were really going out for their anniversery. Is it just that they dont like to talk about love stuff around their kids?

2006-11-06 14:01:26 · 11 answers · asked by amcheung10 2 in Family

yes they do well some of the couples do cause it makes their realationship work better and they have time to talk to each other and have all the time that they need to say to each when things are needed to be said.....

2006-11-06 14:01:24 · 1 answers · asked by #41 truck 2 in Singles & Dating