heres the story, im in junior high..i wuz goin out w/ this guy whom i believd 2 b the man of my dreams...i gess hes not.. on halloween this year, i went trick-or-treating w/ him...[y not?!?! i luv candy!!!] we had a HUGE group of kids so we broke up into 2 groups..one was bein led my my bf...n the other by my ex....my ex's group was goin past my house n i had 2 go home soon, so i went w/ my ex, the next day, he broke ^ w/ me.. told me he didnt like 2 go out w/ his frenz n didnt want a gf at the moment...i CRIED 4ever!!! then the next day, he asked out 1 of my FRENZ!!! who also happend 2 b 1 of his frenz!!!! omgsh.....wut m i supposed 2 do?!?! im still madly in luv w/ him n i no its time 4 me 2 move on.. but, its not that easy.......
2006-11-06 14:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy has certainly demonstrated that he's a cad or a total A.H. I don't know if you are crying because you feel you lost something valuable or because you are embarassed you did not pick well.
Trust me girl, you did not lose something of value. What you lost was an imaginary value, not a real one.
Chalk it up to the many lessons you will learn about people, love and life.
Also you need to realize that his actions are the WEAKEST forms of dumping a girl. He didn't dump you. He weasled his way out. So his crappy method of moving on is NO reflection on you, your personality or your beauty.
Your values are really gained from within and your understanding of yourself. They are not derived from other people.
I can dig it you are still madly in love with him, but in actuality you are in love with the the guy you imagine he COULD be; which is not the guy he actually IS. So don't let it bother you, it was a dream in the first place.
2006-11-06 14:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Trailcook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie move on. Ur in junior high u just think u found the guy of dreams. When ur older u will honestly know if u find Mr. Right. Don't worry about this guy. Trust me when u look back at this u will probably be glad that this didn't work out like u planned. Because the things u want most in life aren't always the things we need.
2006-11-06 14:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think logic! How can you still madly in luv with him? He makes you cried. Is he still luv u? i don't think so. So now, forget about him, open your heart. He is not the best for you. There is someone that should be the best for you.
2006-11-06 14:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Poltak M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wasn't he a slippery fish!!! Your hook will get you a new one soon,, trust me if he treated you like this now,, just think if you were deeper into him say after YEARS!!! All you need time,, go on a learn from this jerk,, but don't let him rule it from now on!!
2006-11-06 14:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a hypocrite get over him. I know it's going to be hard but if he lied to you like that then goes out with one of your friends HE WON'T EVER KEEP HIS PROMISES!!! He's bad news and obviously not worth your time.
2006-11-06 14:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not easy but he has shown you how little he respects you --- get out socialise -- find new people to talk to ---- dont push it and you will suddenly find someone new
2006-11-06 14:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋