Okay. I have a friend who, although I haven't known her for long, I really really like. In fact I like her so much I can't stop thinking about her which is rather annoying because firstly, she has a long-term boyfriend, and secondly because I need to be able to concentrate on other things.
I've tried to forget about her, but it just doesn't seem to be working. She's given me slight signs that I thought may have meant she was interested as well, but as noted above, she does have a long-term boyfriend. Also, she never mentions him around me, and I'm pretty sure she has a pic of him on her phone, yet she placed it face-down when only the two of us were there.
Anyway I don't see myself getting anywhere here, so what is the best way to forget her? I'm thinking of just telling her how I feel and breaking off contact with her. Is this a good idea or not?
If anyone has any suggestions or advice, it would be great.
Thanks.
2006-11-06 14:19:17 · 4 answers · asked by John Doe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay so I decided to tell her, but needed to let her know I wanted to talk to her, so I SMS'd her. Starting off with 'Hi xxxx, we need to talk' was probably a bad idea, especially since I normally use a nickname.
Anyway the result was a reply from her saying 'can you tell me what it's about, you're starting to worry me'. Well done to me. I suppose it's a good sign that I can worry her, maybe it means she cares (and I don't mean necessarily in a romantic way).
So anyway hopefully I'll be able to have that chat with her soon and see how it goes.
2006-11-08 14:51:29 · update #1
If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
2006-11-06 14:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by ILuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol at what kit said but yea i think i should u should talk to her and see how she feels and see if she is willin to make things work and if not then just go and check out the other fish in the sea lol
2006-11-06 14:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by leelee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her how you feel, just ask her out for coffee. Her response will let you know one way or the other if she's interested.
2006-11-06 14:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN FOREST RUN !!!!
2006-11-06 14:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋