I don't really feel attracted to guys, but I'm not sure if I could be bi-sexual or if I like girls since I prefer their company. Can anyone tell me how to know how to tell if you're straight or gay?
2006-11-06 14:10:10 · 25 answers · asked by Blu_Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll know...you'll have physical and emotional attractions to which ever sex you prefer...or perhaps both...if you aren't attracted to guys then maybe you won't ever be...or maybe you just haven't met a guy that 'rings your bells' yet...
Don't worry about it much...in time you'll see where your heart and mind go and you'll know...it may even take some experimenting...
Just be true to yourself...whichever way you are led...
2006-11-06 14:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well starting off it depends on exactly how you feel and whether you're sure though i used to ask myself the same question though my answer to myself was that I preferred being in a relationship with a guy but having sex with a girl.. And now ask yourself would you want to be in a relationship with a guy? And do you have sexual fantasies about being with a girl? If you just prefer being around girls then that's normal but wanting to have a relationship with them probably means you're lesbian and or bi but if you're saying you're not attracted to guys then answer is you're lesbian... Though the best answer you'll get for this question is truly what you think and feel
2006-11-06 14:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel like OMG look at that gurl? Do you want to have sex with woman? Do you find yourself looking at woman all the time? When you are with a man do you wish it were a woman? Do you find sex with a man all gross? Do you find yourself talking with others about how beautiful woman are as opposed to how good looking men are? here are some other things I asked myself before comming to the conclusion that I am 100% Lesbian. Am I Bisexual or Lesbian? Do I have to put myself in a Catagory? I love woman because there is more touching, hugging & carressing. Woman are more caring. With woman I feel like I can talk about my troubles an weakness. I like the softness of a woman as opposed the the hardness of a man. There is an altogether gentler, slower & safer quality to a relationship with woman a opposed to men. I also believe that deep in your heart you know the answer. I don't believe anyone can tell "Hey your Gay or Hey your Straight." If you are bisexual that is ok too. I believe we are born the way we are. Be happy with whatever you are. God made you just the way you are. He lloves you whether you are Gay/Sraight or anything else. Just be who you are and nothing less.
2006-11-06 14:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by monar_sharyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be bi. I am 35 and when I was a teenager I felt attracted more so to females, then I felt that my parents would never accept me for how I felt. So I found myself turning to males. I have always had strong feelings for females but all my female friends were straight and I didn't want to lose their friend ship especially if i told them they were "hot"! Eventually, I did enter a relationship With a woman and she made me happy and so did my husband. I would say that what ever feelings you have may be just curiosity, or the true inner you. Either way if you want someone to talk to please feel free to drop me a line or two, I'll try to help the best I can. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 14:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by dmarienewlon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel like your sexually attracted to girls besides being in their company you could be gay. But when girls are gay they sometime don't get nothing out of being with a guy no tingling feeling when you kiss or when he touches you or hug you, you may feel grossed out by a guy doing you like that but if you don't mine it and you can get down with a guy you just maybe bi. The females I know who are lesbians they have no desire to be with no man at no time.
2006-11-06 14:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make that decision, no one can tell you if you're bi or straight. Myself, I know I'm bi because I could be just as comfortable in a relationship with a male or a female. The biggest thing to ask yourself is if you'd be comfortable in a serious relationship with a women.
2006-11-06 14:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for girls to feel comfortable in the company of other girls since you understand their ways. Guys are a mystery to most girls.
Don't put a label on yourself. Wait and see what happens in the future. You don't need to decide this right now. You may feel differently when you meet a man instead of a boy.
2006-11-06 14:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls mostly talk to girls because they feel insecure around guys or just prefer girls for friends than guys.
I guess if you're not straight than that means you like some of the girls you see more than a friend.
2006-11-06 14:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am gay but it's something I just knew. You should really sit down an think it over. That's not a decision that you should make lightly. Make sure whether it's man or woman that the person makes you feel happy an allows you to still be yourself . that will help in your decision .I when you find the right person trust me you will know an you will also find yourself.
2006-11-06 14:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Southern Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAybe you are just more comfortable with girls...that doesnt mean your gay. You just need to get to know some guys a little more. In my opinion, you can only tell your orientation if you have experience....(which should only come at a mature age).... Wait and see...when you know, you won't have any doubts.
2006-11-06 14:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by kirin575 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋