i know i have posted this kind of question before. but please if you can not be nice then dont bother, this guy that i use to date a long time ago, contacted me again, he came to see me and plans on coming again this weekend. he lives in another state. but here is the problem, he and i know this girl, and he does not want her to know that we are even talking. she to knows his ex, all he says is he does not want her to know because she has a big mouth. so what! right? why would he care if she told his ex. or anyone else for that matter. he has the right to have a life.or do you think it is because he still wants to be with his ex. she cheated on him and thats why they are not together.
2006-11-06 14:01:41 · 3 answers · asked by here to help 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he just want a nice uncomplicated weekend with you. He likes it to be personal, only he and you. If I were him, I wouldn't want others to know too, especially a big mouth. Not because it's a secret date or I'm scared/ ashamed with it. More because I don't want anybody that got nothing to do with it talk about it.
So.. don't think too much about it and have a great weekend. If you're getting more serious in your relationship later, then he'll be more comfortable letting people know (letting people talk about you).
2006-11-06 14:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his ex lives in the same town then it my not be a ex anymore. Or he may not want to listen to her if she is one that likes to run her mouth.
2006-11-06 14:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to keep this thing a secret, so maybe this is a booty call for him.
See him only as a friend when he visits.
2006-11-06 14:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋