Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

My wife and I have been married for almost a year, been together for 2 years. The problem is lately she is getting really annoying. I have had a hobby for awhile now, for as long as she has known me, but now she wants me to stop. I collect Jar Jar Binks collectables, and pretty much everything else to do with Jar Jar (I think he's so funny). All I ask is for her not to interfere. And a few times a week I like to wear my Jar Jar costume and walk around time bringing joy to others. I do things like dance for people, I help angry commuters calm down by dancing in front of cars that are stopped ay lights. I go into stores and make funny noises and throw potato chip bags around. Its light hearted fun. My wife says I'm acting like an idiot, and I should get a job. She flips out whenever I buy an expensive Jar Jar collectable. And she acted like an insane woman when I suggested we use the jar jar costume in our lovemaking. I'm glad she works so many hours a day. Should I divorce her?

2006-11-06 14:01:10 · 34 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are women more open to masturbation than guys? For guys it seems more perverted and twisted, but for women it seems to be more sensual. Am I on the right track? I'm being sincere not raunchy.

2006-11-06 14:00:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

There was the perfect chick. i knew her a few years back, and she moved. she came back and hung out with me for like 6 months. we were literally best friends. i was with her every day, i know everything about her. we starting going out a few weeks back. everyone used to joke, even her, about us getting married... way far off tho. anyways, she said shes been having bad thoughts of us breaking up and not talking, so she wanted to be really good friends so we couldnt break up...i thought about it and said no. all or nothing. she got really, really mad. a few days later i left town without telling anyone, and just got back. i talked to her, and she said shes too busy, and we are just friends. she swore she still likes me like that, and said shed get pissed if i dated another chick.

im so confused and i want to hate her. what to do?

2006-11-06 14:00:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy since i was 4 years old. we weren't goin out. well he was walkin me home and he held my bike all the way there. when i got home he parked my bike and he asked me to come over to him for a second. then he kissed me good nite. it was my 1st kiss. then he just walks away. does that mean we're goin out or not? i need advice. plz help me.

2006-11-06 13:59:27 · 10 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

And i cant figure out why!!! Any ideas???

2006-11-06 13:57:59 · 28 answers · asked by KGcutie 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean to make a girl in love with me,,what is the short cut way?

2006-11-06 13:57:53 · 13 answers · asked by rony 1 in Singles & Dating

i caught a registration for adult friend finder in his e-mail- he said it was old, but it said welcome aaron, and later there was an e-mail from someone saying- hey there lovely, I saw your profile and I'm coming down to your city this weekend, should we meet? you won;t be dissapointed. with an e-mail address attached to write back, he said it was spam and he gets them all the time.
we have a 3 month old son. I love him so much, but I've been hurt enough. what do you think? what should I do?

2006-11-06 13:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have relationship for 7 years. My gf last year tell me not love me anymore and want breakup. Finally move on with other man. I return from my country after one year and i found out my xgf have other man. I ask her give me second chance be with. Tell me what is the reason want breakup with me. And i tell i change in the stuff you not like at me. Because i love her like my life. My xgf now see the new man is not good and tell me want come back with me but need time move out from this man and i have show passion and wait her come. Tell me we are not the same anymore. I know some years ago love me strong but i see now 2 years ago this love is lost and is all my fault. If i show again in my xgf i am again the same person meet and love in 3 days 7 years ago is possible my xgf start love me again and show me the same love have for me 7 years ago?

2006-11-06 13:56:50 · 3 answers · asked by bobbyl1966 2 in Singles & Dating

You're married almost 10 years, have 2 wonderful children, and your not in love with your husband like he loves you. What I mean by that is you've stopped trying, the discussions seem to make you nauseous, you don't want to work on anything anymore you just want it over and done. You think maybe counseling and you go on your own and your therapist says they can help you deal with issues but can't make you feel what isn't there. Your husband asks for you to try and work it out and you have, you've thrown yourself into to 300% planning to renew your vows and keep it strong all the while knowing this is not what you want anymore, do you stay? Or do you let them be loved by someone who wants to make it work and love them at all costs? Do I sound selfish please tell me, all answers welcomed harsh and not.

2006-11-06 13:56:13 · 24 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do u think it can work? i have a relationship with this man but i never see him before just chat . do u think it can work?

2006-11-06 13:56:12 · 12 answers · asked by ♡ Chriz ♡ 1 in Singles & Dating

pisses me off

2006-11-06 13:56:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yea I like this girl, but I think she does not see me...Should I just let it go or do something else?

2006-11-06 13:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by The Overlord 1 in Singles & Dating

sometime over the spring/summer I helped my husband stop using dip. I got him Mint snuff and he was doing great. but several months ago I noticed he was spitting in to a bottle again, he told me that swallowing the mint gave him heart burn. I have asked him AT LEAST 3 times if he was back to using real dip, and he alwasy told me no, that was buying the mint snuff at a local store. ( I use to mail order it) So tonight after he went to sleep I dug the mint/dip box out of his pant pocket and checked it. I smelled it and even put a dap on my tongue... ITS REAL DIP! He has been putting the real stuff in an old mint snuff box! Soooo I superglued the top on it, then I put tape across the top and wrote, "this is not mint! why do youi lie to me?" and put it back in his pants pocket, he will find it in the morning some time.

Am I right to be mad at him for lying to me for so long?

2006-11-06 13:54:27 · 18 answers · asked by grapelady911 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He is too young to drink, so don't put 'beer' or something stupid like that. I was thinking iPod, but your suggestions please?

The only problem is, his parents says iPods ruin people's ears.

2006-11-06 13:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For some reason girls are always approaching me. I flirt ALOT but I never ever admit it (I also claim to be a virgin and also say that the furthest I have ever gotten with a girl was holding hands and If I was lucky got to kiss her on the cheek. Both are lies but I claim them to be true.) Anyways I hook up and I approach girls but it seems like alot more girls approach me then me them. I thought girls would never ever approach a guy, has that changed? Like today this girl laid it on my heavy telling me to break up with my gf of 18 months and sat in my lap and telling me I would get it (apparantly she bought the whole I'm a virgin thing). Why are chicks always approaching me? Am I that desirable? lol im a virgin slow down ladies.

2006-11-06 13:53:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we got along great and i havent heard from him since he moved.

2006-11-06 13:53:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 13:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 13:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly K 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im tired and my nee is busted up so im not going to move, but yet my gf well kinda gf wanted me to get up go downstirs and get my cam so i can go on for her and sit there shirtless for her to look at. I told her no cuz i dont want to then she gets all dumb about it and starts saying that its been 10 months since i last went on cam for her and that shes been on cam every week for me. so i told her no one put a gun to her head and made her do it and no one told her to show her boobs everytime either so she shud shut up. now shes mad and said theres no point so she will never ask again. Whats her deal? What should I do?

2006-11-06 13:52:41 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom is dating my ex-boyfriend and she thinks that she has something that I want but this was my first and he is 21 and my mom is 46 what would you say if your mom was doing this.

2006-11-06 13:51:11 · 33 answers · asked by cristyharris_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i just can't be more obvious and he just can't take a hint and be a little more...advanced. what am i supposed to do? are guys just that oblivious to the world around them?

2006-11-06 13:51:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 13:50:14 · 19 answers · asked by ELIZABETH A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

are they retarded?

2006-11-06 13:50:03 · 20 answers · asked by crazybumper g 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a bad thing to be Emo?
Should her mother be concerned?
Is she freaking out about nothing?
The daughter is 14.
THANKS

2006-11-06 13:49:54 · 18 answers · asked by bex920 3 in Friends

ok girls i presently have 7 tattos 5 on my back and one on each calf. all are military or religious would adding an 8th be to many. i am only 20.

2006-11-06 13:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by montana_infantry_man 2 in Singles & Dating

{HONEST OPINION} I don't care if you don't, don't try to make me feel better, state your honest opinion and why.

2006-11-06 13:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently divorced and was not my choice, I seem to be in a funk. Never really wanting to leave the house and seems the last thing I want to do is see any mutual friends. I'm still hurt and to make things worse he seems to be just fine.

2006-11-06 13:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by Octavia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. But he has a very hard time with performing oral sex. I do it for him, and not that I expect it to be something he needs to repay to me, but the fact that he won't do it makes me feel a bit bad about my body. Can't help but feel that he maybe finds me disgusting in some way.

He claims his problem comes from the 'texture' and it just makes him feel weird. He does have issues with texture with food too, that he can't eat. How can I help him with this problem, so that I don't feel so ignored and bad about my body?

And yes, I have talked to him about it, and the ressponse is always that the texture makes him kind of want to throw up.

2006-11-06 13:48:41 · 11 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I will try to make it short...I was adopted as an infant and never met or saw a picture of my birthmother. She found me in September on MySpace, go figure. I am 22 now with 3 kids. I told her that I woul dbe having another baby (this would be the 3rd, I had her in Sept) in a month or so, (my original due date was October 4). Should I have been expecting a card or somethin in the mail? Because I did and never got one. I was so disappointed. My birthmother and I had been speaking everyday through email and had one 2 hour conversation over the phone. Since I gave birth Sept 19, she hasn't called or emailed me. I'm not emailing her because she sought me out she should maintain contact in my opinion. Plus I sent the last email. Basically am I expecting too much? She seemed excited to find me and told me all about her life and how her and her family want to meet me and mine and stuff. Please give your opinions.

2006-11-06 13:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by mizzladyariel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

first he tells me that he loves me then turns around and tells me he wishes i would find someone else...and puts me down, im dum,cluless..ext. then turns around and tells me that he loves me...it happens alot..im confused and dont know what to do???

2006-11-06 13:47:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce