ok so im tired and my nee is busted up so im not going to move, but yet my gf well kinda gf wanted me to get up go downstirs and get my cam so i can go on for her and sit there shirtless for her to look at. I told her no cuz i dont want to then she gets all dumb about it and starts saying that its been 10 months since i last went on cam for her and that shes been on cam every week for me. so i told her no one put a gun to her head and made her do it and no one told her to show her boobs everytime either so she shud shut up. now shes mad and said theres no point so she will never ask again. Whats her deal? What should I do?
2006-11-06 13:52:41 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Immaturity.
2006-11-06 13:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chainsaw 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She has been making an effort to please you (or at least she feels that she has) and you make no return effort for her. Simply telling her that you didn't force her to make any effort for your sake is hardly conducive to a mutual relationship. She probably sees you as selfish and arrogant if she'll do things for you and you refuse to do anything back or even show any gratitude for what she's done.
It's very clear from how you talk about her that you have no respect for her. Calling her dumb? Blowing off all the effort she makes for your sake? Saying she should "shut up"? Why are you stringing along someone you don't respect? If you do respect her, then you seriously need to start showing it. If you're not sure how, start with apologizing and discussing with her what each of you wants out of the relationship. When she acts like she's hurt, ask her why instead of calling her dumb!
Also, there's no reason to state that all members of her sex are "dumb" simply because you believe from your experience that she is.
2006-11-08 11:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by evil little girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's really been ten months since you did that then I agree with your gf. If you can't do a little thing like that for her then what good are ya? But then again I am a girl and maybe I'm just being "dumb."
2006-11-06 13:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by kelleywheel7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is where you went wrong:
When you said "no" because you "didn't want to".
She would've understood if you told her your knee is busted. I know she's being a bit pushy but if that was the way she was before, that's who you fell for. COMMUNICATION is the key.
To avoid those those stupid arguments, clear things up instead of giving her brief answers.
Girls are sensitive.
2006-11-06 14:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Gwyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay for the record not all girls are like that just immature and childish ones...If your g/f doesn't understand that your hurt and tired than you need a nwe g/f that or you need to have a serious talk with her... i would tell her she can't always have her way...But As for what to do just tell her if she wants to stay with you she needs to understand not everday is gonna be rainbow and sunshines....
2006-11-06 14:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry I won't give you advice unless you sit there shirtless for me to look at. jk. She is immature. What you should do is make her work for it, tease her and act like you are in control(because you are) and tell her to convince you. It lets them know that you are the boss(which you are) and women like a man who does not get bossed arounud. If that makes any sense. Well it did to me and if you didn't understand you problem.... Jesus loves you..... alot.....
2006-11-06 14:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1ST appoligize cuz u need 2 thats juz rude 2nd y would u have ur "gf" do that anyways 3rd if u r gunna let her or wat eva wen she asks u do it, juz cuz ur a dude doesn't mean ur the boss thats 4 SURE!!
2006-11-06 14:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by sexy 916 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NEVER turn on the cam again!! that'll show her and really piss her off. =)
2006-11-06 13:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you love her, seriously talk with her and tell her to stop. If you don't love her, break up with her.
2006-11-06 13:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up.
2006-11-06 13:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋