first he tells me that he loves me then turns around and tells me he wishes i would find someone else...and puts me down, im dum,cluless..ext. then turns around and tells me that he loves me...it happens alot..im confused and dont know what to do???
2006-11-06 13:47:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This will wear and tear on your esteem dear. If you feel that he's totally wrong and out of order, then you must let him know asap. Put a halt to this nonsense and start from there...you probably don't want to live your life like this for ever.
2006-11-06 13:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
existence is a few distance too short to be depressing. concepts are: depart and don't look returned, get some professional counseling for your self and spot if she will connect you with that, or stay the type you're. It sounds like verbal substitute has thoroughly broken down between the two certainly one of you. it particularly is problematic to tell what she is thinking and feeling. Neither certainly one of you're assembly one yet another mentally. the terrific subject could be for a honest and open talk and locate out what is going on with one yet another and spot no count if it particularly is properly worth engaged on and artwork at it. If that's no longer conceivable then the two certainly one of try to be sure the terrific answer for no longer purely the two certainly one of you yet in addition on your son. Marriage isn't uncomplicated and it ought to be worked on on a regular basis. sounds like the two certainly one of think ofyou've have been given a fabulous style of stuff that has outfitted up via the years and ought to get it resolved. good success yet purely bear in mind, in case you purely sit down and don't get the solutions then you certainly won't get feeling any greater desirable with reference to the whole concern. it particularly is all approximately becoming and being waiting to stand what we in front people. right for you which you stopped the ingesting yet in addition bear in mind that as quickly as you probably did, you replaced for the greater desirable and that ought to have made her sense insecure. If she met you on a similar time as ingesting she could have taken the function of co-based and now she does not have that interest anymore and is uncertain what or who you prefer her to be. Very perplexing for the mate that seems after the guy ingesting and then while he stops they do no longer understand what or a thank you to act.
2016-10-03 08:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the type that likes to play games with your heart ...Feelings....And emotions....Look do your self a favor....Ask your self if this is what you are worth ....Being called Dumb... putting you down... You are sup post to be a guys diamond not his peace of coal.....You no that it is up to you what you put your self through....And allow yourself to go through...Don't you no what it is that you deserve......Don't you no what it is to make you happy Someone putting you down and lowering your self esteem and your self worth....Is not Happiness... He is right you deserve some one better then this....Unblind your eyes...and always protect your heart....Love is great when you find your soul mate just have patients and search for the man that you want in all perspective......Love dose not hurt.....Love dose not put you down it lifts you up.....And it builds a self esteem beyond control.....Quit hurting your self and don't give your heart so easy.....And never expect nothing no less than what it is you want in a great Guy.....God bless you and all...Through your life's journey...
2006-11-06 14:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE sounds confused. This sounds like mental torture. He needs counciling and you dont have to take this from him. I have a friend that goes through this every day with her guy.......I tell her to leave but she wont. I wont give youthat advice, just beware that his mental abuse will not stop until he gets some kind of counciling
2006-11-06 13:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sqrlll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's confused too...about how he feels about you. Move on...you don't deserve to be told you're dumb and clueless. That type of verbal abuse leads to self esteem problems that can affect the rest of your life
2006-11-06 13:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
deep breathe... Swing your arm back... Forward.. BITCHSLAP HIM!!!! Okay.. Now tell him everything that he's ever done to you that's hurt.. Look him straight in the eye, and say this. "I've waited on you, I've hurt for you, I've cried about you. But I'm sick of it and you know what? I'm a gorgeous woman and Heck I can find a man who will treat me right! You lost your chance, and if you EVER try to reach me again, you can trust that it won't be pleasant"
You just have to leave him.. Sorry babe, but it's the truth.
2006-11-06 13:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with lilicrose's answer. I'm sure you deserve not to be toyed with. Incidentally, lilicrose, if you are reading this, you sound kind of rough and direct. I like that. I'm billmar4030.
2006-11-06 14:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Albatross 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one that sounds confused. You need to have a serious talk with him and ask him whats going on with him. He needs to stop toying with your emotions.
2006-11-06 13:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You act like he's got control over you which is so wrong.
Act like a smart person and stop letting him dictate what your life is going to be.
2006-11-06 13:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a abusive husband, RUN soon it will turn to beatings!
2006-11-06 13:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋