I'm in a very deep love trouble. I ended my very long, 5 yrs, loving relationship with GF last year b'coz of family issues, family doesnt want me to marry her. She tried convincing me a lot to come back. When family issue get resolved I came back to her after 7-8 mnths but she was unwilling to trust on me. I thought it will take some time and things will be fine. I did another mistake, after coming back I didn't call her for more than a mnth, I was trying to give her time, but she thout I did not make up my mind and she moved on and commited to some other guy. She didn't tell me while moving on.
I got to know about this and called her (we are mostly on long distance rel'n, but we had a wonderful rel'n, I'll call it a true love). Now I'm almost dead, I want her back at any rate. Bt she is not agree, she is bitching on me, per her I'm a selfish creature and don't love her. I have cleared my standings and cried over my faults and begged her to forgive me once and come back. Help me please
2006-11-06 14:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she couldnt trust u anymore since ur parents dun agree u to marry her, and that time u also went away from her about almost a year ((that long)) had put her in miserable hardest time to overcome u. She must hv been crying n beg God to hv u back to her, but answers come in His time. If now she reacts that way not because she doesnt love u or care for u, ONLy she cant believe that u will be hers forever. She must be so afraid to loose u again in the future, so she chooses to walk her way at the moment. I think the best way is to talk friendly to her, dun push, dun beg, just chit chat, relax one. She will tell u something more that u wanna know why.
2006-11-06 14:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you think that you could break things off with her b'c of your family issues and expect to come back after 7-8 months? I am surprised she even talked to you to allow you to have another chance. Much less you thinking that you did not have to call for a whole month.
Good luck, you are gonna need it.
But really, pick up your head and move on. She has.
2006-11-06 22:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are, she gave you all she had in this rel'n.. she just wanted you and you left her. You could have waited, kept dating until your family decided you could possibly marry her, no she thinks you don't want her anymore and you will have to work for at least another year to get her back
2006-11-06 22:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
`move on player you got played there is a thin line between love and hate and right now its hate
2006-11-06 22:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
u have to prove to her u still love her
-flowers maybe
i would definitly say u screwed up big time
2006-11-06 22:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go...if it's meant to be she will be back. For now, you need to move on.
2006-11-06 22:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she gonna do then u should jus let her go it wasnt ment to be and there aint nothin wrong with u it's all her :D
2006-11-06 22:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by leelee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isn't she picky and self centered herself!!
2006-11-06 22:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋