Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

I've been going out with a girl for a month who seemed really into me, but the other day seemed upset and told me that "I am everything she want's in a guy", but the closer she gets to me, the more she starts missing her ex of 4 years." This is a week after wanting to introduce me to her friends and paying for a $120.00 dinner for me. She says that she needs some time right now to gather her thoughts. What should I do?

2006-11-05 10:46:02 · 24 answers · asked by cityteach116 1 in Singles & Dating

Once engaged and planned to be married in march. I'm at the point of moving out of her place after living with eachother for 4 months. We both had some modertate issues with the move in and been in a serious downward spiral. Being overly sensitive to moving into her "domain" i showed a side of me that she never seen, the verbal abuser! We would argue about normal thing but when it would get outta had I would use scare tactics and an elevated voice to end the arguement or get my point across. I've been thru lots and done some anger mangement in the past. Were going to couples couciling for sometime now and each time we go the counseler disapproves of the relationdhip and feeds her every reason not to be with me. Need positive advice the relationship was pretty good as far as trust and cheating issues. Hard girl to give up. How do I mend a broken heart in a short period of time? She has seen a better side of me but is still determined. Help!

2006-11-05 10:45:38 · 18 answers · asked by ohmslaw 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 10:45:23 · 14 answers · asked by fluffy bunny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-05 10:45:10 · 18 answers · asked by Michaelangleo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 10:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley Varghese 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl but she has been hitting on another guy with a girlfriend and it has become serous. She has great potential to be a great person but she in my opinion is just going through a fase. She is being a real slut but I cant help but like her. She is really hot and is smart and likable but I hate wat she is doing. Should I make a move even with wat she is doing, or forget about her. (Were in grade school and kinda young)

2006-11-05 10:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has browen hair blue eyes and like 5'4 i am 5'4 1/2
and he is like totaly hott well i guess i don't really no
but i think i might see him next year still i need to no

2006-11-05 10:44:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He also has a mistress

2006-11-05 10:41:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you get guys to like you? even though you have a perfect circle beauty mark on your for-head snd your not that skinny and not that althletic?

2006-11-05 10:41:20 · 16 answers · asked by Volleyballqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

His name is peewee but in real life his name is irvin.well hes so damn fu***** hot like always and hes the luv of my life!!!im a big fan of him and of his band kumbia-allstarz...but now u tell me if hes cute or not alright???heres a video of him..hes da one wearing a green shirt ok check it out>>>>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AzZKhJFaVVQ&mode=related&search=

2006-11-05 10:40:19 · 9 answers · asked by **MyStErY gIrL** 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we live together. The thing is my boyfriend is really sexual to me. Sometimes it gets annoying and i don't like it. Like the other day i was getting in the shower so he stripped down and came in with me. Only to kiss me the whole time we were in there. And sometimes when im just wearing a shirt or something he will rip it off me and push me against the wall a touch me, or something like that. Ive even waked up to see him on me, naked. What do i do. I tell him to stop but he doesn't. Help please

2006-11-05 10:40:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this boy in my school and he always looks at me and smiles at me. He's only said hello to me once and at the beginning of the school year, he talked to me a LITTLE bit. Do you think he likes me?

2006-11-05 10:39:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 10:39:28 · 17 answers · asked by La_FlaKiSz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. What is their name?

2. What do they look like?

3. What is their personality like?

4. Why do they have to remain a secret?

2006-11-05 10:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by Girl Machine 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old in highschool. I kinda look like my icon, 5'10, skinny, and kinda strong. I want to be able to talk to girls more. And also about dating. I havent had a girlfriend, but have went on a couple of dates with my friends and his girlfriend, and her friend. (but i didnt talk, didnt know what to say or what to talk about). I can be myself around friends, but not in school. But recently i have been more outgoing and speaking more. But it comes and goes to my mood. Its not so much that i am shy. But i think more of... i dont know. I can talk to anygirl about anything else, but have never really been able to ask a girl out myself, and i dont ever know what to talk about. I want to get more dates and talk more, and to show my true personalitly, fun, nice, outgoing. I dont know really what to do. Any comments will help. but really its up to me if i wannta change...thanks

2006-11-05 10:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I physically separated and we have been trying to work things out. He spends the night with me sometimes and we have been getting along well.

I found out that he has allowed his mistress to move in with him although he said she moved somewhere else. He claims that she had no where else to go and he gave her every indication that he didn't want her there. But he still allowed her to move in until she can save enough money to move out.

He says that he really wants his family back and for us to be like we were. If he truly meant this, why did he allow this girl to move in? What is going on with those two?

2006-11-05 10:38:34 · 23 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you like an email Buddie?
Only interesting people with a great sense of humour need apply male or female
No weirdos please
I am a 25yr old female.

2006-11-05 10:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by Gossip81 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

thanks for the comments and help guys and gals... ive asked her why she does this and she replies that she doesnt know why, that its just a feeling she has. when we break up its for no reason at all just that she gets a feeling over night. we stopped talking like 4 days ago and have had no communication, but she still has the key to my house and some of my stuff that she hasnt give me back,which means i know she is gonna come back. im not saying that im gonna take her back cuz im not looking to play games anymore im looking for a real girl. shes a really sweet girl, maybe like some of u said shes just depressed or crazy. i dont know

2006-11-05 10:38:08 · 1 answers · asked by quest 2 in Singles & Dating

my question is do I hyphenate their last name (which I used up until I remarried) with my new last name or just take my new husband's last name. My youngest daughter is having a hard time with me not having the same last name that hey have.

2006-11-05 10:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by grace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am righting this cause people are saying wht should it matter that my ex is kissing someone elses 1 he is still sleeping with me 2 asking me for ka kiss 3 saying he still cares for me anyway my daughter said he was kissing someone at a fire works party last night she is 5 and he is saying it never happened who do i believe at the mo its my daughter i have told him to give me space till sat he said till wednesday and he would keep coming round till i was in we only broke up 5 weeks ago thats why i care still

2006-11-05 10:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you date a kind, caring, sweet, rich, accepting, brown haired brown eyed 5'1 83lb gymnast with perfect white teeth?? She is a vegetarian and eats like all the time but cuz she trains hard it burns off. She is in HS. She enjoys spending time with you but also knows you need time with ur friends and her with hers. Would you ever call her fat cuz she gained a lb?? She looses her period from oct. to march. She was molested by a friend and is still cautious of a guy who only wants to touch her. (it's different when you get to know her first) Would you date her?? She doesn't look skinny. Please include if you wait until marriage for sex cuz she doesn't like guys who say put out or get out!!
although she would have sex b4 marriage if you were right for her.
she doesn't mind if you don't have money. her last bf was just as rich but he gave her gold and silver bracelets every week, but she dumped him cuz is was too much. She wants a guy who is there 4 her not his money.

2006-11-05 10:37:26 · 13 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently in a realtionship right now, and I'm not sure that I want to be in it anymore! I'm missing my Ex boyfriend. I left and went back to an ex. Well at that time I thought it was the best thing. Now I realize what I left behind. He knows I miss him and we talk from time to time. Now since weve been apart he has had some issues of his own and tells me he needs time to figure things out...and needs time?? I just dont know which direction to turn.??

2006-11-05 10:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

and oh yeh he is dating another woman!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-05 10:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by phuongtran12345 1 in Family

I found out this morning that my step dad (married to my mom for 3 years) has two other kids in New York that he has been keeping a secret.

I saw a post on Answers the other day that had a link to http://background-records.net/ Well, I was bored this weekend so I started checking it out. I entered various names and when I entered my step dad's name it listed a group of family names (including my mom, my sister, and myself). There were several other names listed that I was not familiar with. After checking the birth records on the site I discovered that my step dad is their father! The other kids are 12 and 14.

I am positive that my mom does not know this info. I am afraid she will be heart broken. Should I tell her or just pretend like nothing happened? I really don't know what to do.

2006-11-05 10:36:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u are getting to know a girl and u hint that ur interested in her n you ask for her cell number n she gives it to you (and its the correct one too), does that mean she is into u too? or does it mean she wants u to call her sometime later?

2006-11-05 10:35:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In 6th grade I curled my hair and he would call me affrow and a lil bit in 7th too, but now he wont look at me and I don't think he likes my guy friend (from my first Q) anymore cause he always tell him to shut up and stuff like that. But his dad works with my step dad and one night (after he had a few drinks) my step dad told me that the guy actually liked me and I was like "No way!" cause to me he is in the in crowd, I thought he only liked blonds, and I thought he hated me. Because one day on my bus (we ride the same bus) he just looked at me and I thought like a million knifes was stabbing me all over. Why was that? So does he like hate me or like me or neither? And also I just like him, but I also just hate him cause I guess he wouldn't consider going out with me. Can someone please tell me whats going on (in ur point of veiw or whatever)? I know thats not very much info sorry,

2006-11-05 10:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by shy 2 in Singles & Dating

where is a good place to take your husband for a romantic getaway. i want to find somewhere that's secluded but not too far from things. i'd love to be near a beach or lake and somewhere that snows alot.

2006-11-05 10:34:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 10:34:39 · 20 answers · asked by American dude 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out this morning that my step dad (married to my mom for 3 years) has two other kids in New York that he has been keeping a secret.

I saw a post on Answers the other day that had a link to http://background-records.net/ Well, I was bored this weekend so I started checking it out. I entered various names and when I entered my step dad's name it listed a group of family names (including my mom, my sister, and myself). There were several other names listed that I was not familiar with. After checking the birth records on the site I discovered that my step dad is their father! The other kids are 12 and 14.

I am positive that my mom does not know this info. I am afraid she will be heart broken. Should I tell her or just pretend like nothing happened? I really don't know what to do.

2006-11-05 10:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need advice on what I should do?

2006-11-05 10:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by hispanicpower123 1 in Friends