I'm currently in a realtionship right now, and I'm not sure that I want to be in it anymore! I'm missing my Ex boyfriend. I left and went back to an ex. Well at that time I thought it was the best thing. Now I realize what I left behind. He knows I miss him and we talk from time to time. Now since weve been apart he has had some issues of his own and tells me he needs time to figure things out...and needs time?? I just dont know which direction to turn.??
2006-11-05 10:37:07 · 6 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On another note.. I put a card in this door yesterday just letting him know what I care and hope everything is ok... WHAT do you think about men getting cards?
2006-11-05 10:43:29 · update #1
Make a pro and con list. Seriously. They don't lie. Just be truthful when you're writing it. If you truley don't want to be in the relationship you're in right now, then end it. But just remember that you're breaking someone elses heart and they're not going to be so understanding of you going back to an ex. So make sure that's not the only reason. And then if you do break up with your current boyfriend, he probably won't be willing to take you back if you screw up and make the wrong decision. Take some time to think about it. And you really need to make sure that this guy you're going for really does want you and to make a relationship work. Especially if he has some issues. He needs to work these out and find out where you'll fit it and how you'll fit into his life. Like I said whatever your decision, make sure it's for the right reasons and it's what you feel in your heart. Just think about it and talk to your friends or your family!
2006-11-05 10:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brensgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need some time alone , your ex is an ex for a reason , and present you want to be an ex , some times it's best to be alone for awhile , then you can get your bearings and focus on where your going , if you keep running from one relationship to the next , you may never know who you really are and the cycle will continue....
2006-11-05 18:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you've got a little fire burning for him down south. Be honest and demand the same. Issues, schmissues. Give it a shot or don't. I don't believe in BS games in realtionships, especially at the start. Tell your worst points and find out theirs ASAP. It's harsh but it saves a lot of time, and eliminates false hope. Liars never prosper. Hang in there. (If you think he's worth it) My husband was a stubborn SOB and it took me forever to realise that he only appeared to be ignoring me. He actually was just tired of being lied to, so it took a little convince him that I was worth it.
2006-11-05 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by OlCripsWife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not happy in your current relationship, then end it. but dont end it with the hope of getting together with the old guy. its not fair to the current guy, if you are not into him, then let him go. the old guy needs his space. just be his friend.
2006-11-05 18:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably won't be able to trust you anymore, i would'nt take you back after what you had done either, he deserves better than you , you should of relized what you were going to loose before you left him for somebody else.
2006-11-05 18:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by taylor2459 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT, DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE, THINKING SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-05 18:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋