I recently tried anal sex with my bf for the first time in my life. It was nothing like I thought it would be and was very painful at first. Once he got going it was fine, but while he was inserting himself, it was excrutiating!! We have done it 4 times since and it`s the same every time. I found that the slower and gentler he tries to be, the more painful it is and the longer the pain lasts. If he does it quickly, the pain doesn`t last as long, but is still excrutiating. We have tried all different kinds of lubes and nothing is different. There is nothing medically wrong with me or anything( I have been checked by a doctor). So, my question is, what can I do to make it less painful as this is something I want to continue to do? What would make it easier to get it in without feeling like I am being ripped apart? As I said we have tried lots of different lubes and none makes a difference, so what do I do?
2006-11-05
11:12:04
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