Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

What would you prefer...A deep seeded passionate massage? Or, a candlelight dinner, dimmed lights, with some Luther Vandross in the background?

2006-11-03 14:32:02 · 22 answers · asked by cold runner 5 in Singles & Dating

this guy is new around here and he started talking to me MORE AND MORE THEN he ended up coming to my house and we fooled around a lil then after that he didn't talk to me for a while thenthe next week we had sex then he ignored me all ove again,what the hell is hos problem?

2006-11-03 14:31:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i cannot get a boyfriend. I know a lot of guys, but they are just my friends. Can you help me with this problem. I hav never thought of myself of beautiful, but i've never thought of myself as ugly, but i'm starting to think that and i don't want to think that lowly of myself. I'm not going to turn anorexic or anything to change my image, i'm just upset. I want to be told that i am pretty by someone else, not just by my family.

2006-11-03 14:31:17 · 9 answers · asked by Magdalena 2 in Singles & Dating

do u think a relationship lasts longer if you go slowly and take your time to do things or does it last longer if you do things fast? i personally think that going slow (not too slow though) is good because if you do things too fast then u get bored faster,if you take your time it gives you something to look foward to in your relationship and that makes you want to stay with them longer.

2006-11-03 14:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Beca <3 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 2 months now. She constantly talks about her rich ex-boyfriends; how they both bought her cars, expensive clothes and gave them open line credit cards for her to charge without having to pay. She does not wear anything that is not brand name and does not like it when I pick her up in my older car (I have 2). She tells me that the sex is great and I always give her a good time but she wants more. When I ask her what she means by more, she says that she wants me to treat her more like a princess. What is that supposed to mean? I treat her great. I am beginning to feel very uncomfortable with this situation. Last night we went to my grandma's house and she asked me why my grandma lives in a low class neighborhood. I got into an argument with her about this and her silly aristocratic behavior. I dropped her off at her place and have not called her since. What do you guys think? Should I dump her right now?

2006-11-03 14:28:17 · 40 answers · asked by ldz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have these 2 guy friends that I messed around with. I was never in a bf/gf relationship with either of them, because I never really how they felt about me. Well one thing led to another, and I slept with both of them on different occasions, yah I know not smart. But I don't feel like I cheated because I wasn't their girlfriend. Anyway, they found out & they both called me a sl*t! What the hell, if they were really hurt by the situation why didn't they ask me to be their girlfriend before all of this, so I'd know? I thought we were just having fun, and that I was ok because I was "single" . So why did they call me a sl*t, if I didn't cheat?

2006-11-03 14:27:09 · 23 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

Because of my years in the Hotel and Restaurant business in Canada, travelling like I did, I just never had time to settle down, now when inquiring on dating websites, I get some strange reponces and comments as to my sanity and the nature of my intentions plus why I want to start this now, any help, suggestions or comments???

2006-11-03 14:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by The Unknown Chef 7 in Singles & Dating

ok, well there is this boys who is a friend to me i have known him for 2 yrs. then this year i started liking him ... my best friend told him i liked him and that he should talk to me well b pd. he didnt talk 2 me lunch he didnt talk 2 me all the way 2 g pd. he didnt talk 2 me so the next day my friend was like did you talk 2 her? he said no.. that he didnt like me because he has a girl friend and the wierd thing is that he always flirts with me and now hes like oh my gf well then a few days ago my friend___ (who is a girl) and him and me were in science class and were all talking and laughing and then he starts holding her and and she still knows i like him and im like in my head i guess she is the new girl he reallly hurt me and i dont know should i get over him or something? help!!!

2006-11-03 14:24:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-03 14:24:20 · 18 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been so in love with a person that you could die because of them? But they can't make up their mind of what they want. One minute they want you, the next they act like they hate you? What should one do with a situation like that?

2006-11-03 14:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by silhouette 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for awhile. He is talking about the possibility of marriage. I care about him deeply and know he is a wonderful person, yet do not feel that he is THE ONE. However, I know that he would always treat me well and is financially very secure. Do you think I would be missing a great opportunity to be with a great guy while waiting for a Mr Perfect to make me fall head over heels (who may not even exist)?

2006-11-03 14:23:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but im afraid to ask her out because i dont want things to be weird with us. weve known each other for ever and weve been best friends scince we met, but i have very strong feelings for her. what should i do?

2006-11-03 14:22:48 · 13 answers · asked by Rodney Lindsey 2 in Singles & Dating

not tooo big just simple and flirtacious...

2006-11-03 14:22:14 · 1 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

is it just physically, like lust, or oh how nice, like a flower, or
u know how girls are inlove with boys like they are romantically in love, how do boys feel.
don't answer if ur a girl.

2006-11-03 14:21:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i going to hell???

2006-11-03 14:21:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am so tired of her bringing all these illegals around us. I have nothing against them either way. But everyone, needs a home, no job, drinks, she even married one to stay here...later to find out 11 of his 17 years here he has been locked up, He was never to come to the US again, or face prison time, he hates sher kids,,they hate him too, he calls them names, hits the boy because he wont call him dad,he was caught driving, and then they put it in my sisters hands to keep him out of jail, they asked the kids if they wanted him to stay, if they said yes, he would be in a half way house, that way they could see him, hence they are married, but they said no, so he is serving 10 years in L.A. county. He has promised revengeon them and i am scared to death for them. I told her to move, but she says she isn't running from him, now she has seen three other Mexicans, that use her for her house and money, then leave...whats her problem, i wouldn't care if he was mex, blk,wht/hindu/ what ever

2006-11-03 14:20:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing this guy for a month now.
Lately I been feeling like if I did not go to his room or call him we would never see eachother. We live in the same dorm at school. Im 2 floors above!

He says that its because he does not want me to be insecure.

Sometimes I dont call him or go see him because I feel like he will get tired of me. Thats my insecurity.
He says that if he was tired of me he would tell me.

so he doesnt call or come see me because it forces me to go see him, so that way insecurites will stop. I feel like its making it worse. Im actually feeling like he doesnt care whether he sees me or not.

what i mean by force is, that i wont go see or call him for a while that way if he really has feelings for me and wants to see me, he will be forced to come find me.
what should I do?

2006-11-03 14:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Friends

She also says she hates to massage my feet. She says they are sweaty. I have trouble with shoes because of my stomach. She is home all day. I expect a little service when I come through the door.

2006-11-03 14:17:57 · 16 answers · asked by bigfatfrank1 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys always ask me this and I dont know why.

2006-11-03 14:17:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cautious waiting for the other to open up. I feel like he feels something but hes not sharing and holding it in. But i can tell by the way he looks at me. I know it's not about sex becuz I'm usually the one who intiates it. He told me last night he doesn't come on to me even when he wants to cuz he doesn't want me to think he's just about sex. He is starting to share more of his life with me, he shows me pics of his family, he took me to his classroom last night, is it too early after only 2 months to wonder? He just seems like he's not telling me the way he really feels. What's up with him?

2006-11-03 14:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you console your husband when his dad has been diagnosed with cancer? Call it blessed. Call it lucky, but I have been extremely fortunate with only one person in my my close family having a severe illness. So, I don't know quite what to say, what to do or anything to my husband while he deals with this. Help!

2006-11-03 14:15:53 · 12 answers · asked by alicia0821 3 in Family

what time is it were you live.

2006-11-03 14:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why I'm so upset is a real long story, but to make it simple, I found out this guy is dumping me. I don't want to be sulking the whole weekend over a guy, since I know that they come and go, but I just can't stop thinking about it. I REALLY want to forget and get on with my life.

I've tried reading, calling and IMing my BFF, doing homework, and listening to my ipod. Any suggestions?

2006-11-03 14:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by woot 3 in Singles & Dating

???? why

2006-11-03 14:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by justcantfacetheworld 1 in Family

2006-11-03 14:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by HAPPY R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no comment.....just sad and sorrow...i've been crying.

2006-11-03 14:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Andi<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont really have a question..just that i need some encouragement..this week was hell coz i lost my full scholarship and the girl i like finds me boring..im losing my self-esteem, cant really connect with ppl bcoz of my lack of social skills i guess....and this evening two ppl though i was mean and stupid coz i wasnt sure if they were talking to me..sigh..........im gonna lose my mind...have you guys been in this situation..words of encouragement will make my day somehow..

2006-11-03 14:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend broke up with me, and he told me that he still loves me. I still love him very very much, and he loves me. I don't see why we just can't be together. He said that there were things that he needed to do for himself, and that with our relationship, there was something missing (his partial loss of interest, which in the past had been renewed with some time apart), and that if that ever seemed to change then we can think about getting back together.

This is all very new, and I am having a very hard time especially since he had both planned on being together, getting married, and having a family.

Why isn't love enough?

I need to do something to prove to him that we belong together...

Any advise I could get would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-03 14:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by StillBelieve143 1 in Singles & Dating

Some months ago, I met this girl that is much younger than me.
First, let me tell you that I am a very single man who has a great career and I am financially secure. I am in no way a freak or psycho and have never done this before. I am fiscally rich and emotionally poor. She is just the opposite; she is emotionally giving and financially poor.
Anyway, she is so nice to me and never asks for anything. She knows of my status and has told me over and over that she does "Not want my money". She even tries to by me things, even when I resist because I know that she can not afford it.
We love spending time together and make each other laugh. We talk on the phone all of the time and share our daily experiences. She stays at my house and although we have made love one time, it’s not about sex. Her companionship and snuggling at night are amazing. I feel good taking care of her and she truly loves the emotional support that I offer her.
She is 18 and I am 43. Is this wrong?

2006-11-03 14:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by Dog Lover 7 in Singles & Dating

is there any place to find free information about your family tree

2006-11-03 14:08:07 · 1 answers · asked by pooh 1 in Family