cautious waiting for the other to open up. I feel like he feels something but hes not sharing and holding it in. But i can tell by the way he looks at me. I know it's not about sex becuz I'm usually the one who intiates it. He told me last night he doesn't come on to me even when he wants to cuz he doesn't want me to think he's just about sex. He is starting to share more of his life with me, he shows me pics of his family, he took me to his classroom last night, is it too early after only 2 months to wonder? He just seems like he's not telling me the way he really feels. What's up with him?
2006-11-03 14:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is gay
2006-11-03 14:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cautious to a fault. For an adult male to not be able to make observations, draw conclusions and ask a woman out is very strange. If he is waiting for "the other to open up" why is it you have not opened up and laid the facts on the table. Men typically don't tell anyone the "way he really feels." You probably make him uncomfortable because your eyes and impatient manner are probably transferred to him.
"Fred. We have known each other for seven weeks now and we do not communicate as if we know much of anything about one another. So, I'll throw this out: Wanna hit the sheets?"
If he is painfully shy he would not be able to make a statement that he "doesn't come on to me even when he wants to.....doesn't want me to think it is just about sex..." That is a line used more by a man who does not want to have sex with you now or ever. Perhaps he's gay. You sound like a somewhat aggressive person, why would you think anything about this man would be a match?
2006-11-03 22:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him the way you feel and he'll open up.
2006-11-03 22:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds weird, stay away from him.
2006-11-03 22:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋