i cannot get a boyfriend. I know a lot of guys, but they are just my friends. Can you help me with this problem. I hav never thought of myself of beautiful, but i've never thought of myself as ugly, but i'm starting to think that and i don't want to think that lowly of myself. I'm not going to turn anorexic or anything to change my image, i'm just upset. I want to be told that i am pretty by someone else, not just by my family.
2006-11-03 14:31:17 · 9 answers · asked by Magdalena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make some new friends. Your friends if they are male many times if you do not make your intentions known, they have no clue, men do not take or understand hints very well. You have to state what you want. Try giving yourself a make over, this would probably make you feel better. Get a new hairstyle, try some new make up colors, if you don't wear makeup try some neutral colors. And try some new styles in clothing. i don't think these male friends do not find you attractive, they just don't know you like them like that. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-03 14:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,
A lot guys like women, or choose there women because of her attitude. If you are feeling like no one else except you and your family think you are pretty. It is showing on the outside where you think so or not. You should get a close friend (female / family member) either go shopping or go through your closet and pull out one of those sexy or attractive outfits put on some make up (not a lot). Just enough something to bring out your good features. And you and your friends go out, have fun. And go out with the attitude that you are a beautiful women. Like when I go out I put on a little make or none, do my hair etc. And look in the mirror and tell myself that I look sexy. And keep that attitude when I go out.
2006-11-03 22:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you. I have never had a boyfriend, but you can't let it get to you. Guys are not everything(though they sure are cute). Just because you're not being asked out now doesn't mean it will never happen. Plus, guys love a confident woman, so don't go making it apparent that you really want a boyfriend. Just have fun right now and one day you'll be sure to meet a nice guy.
2006-11-03 22:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o im sure u are just lovely ;) id be willn to bet almost anything all those guys around u like u tons and just cant work up the nerve to tell u they like u, i bet if u picked one u liked, and told him, then he would say the same in return, then ud start dating and ud ask y in the world u ever posted this question :) go getem and good luck!
2006-11-03 22:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Maybe try a new look that you like but are too afraid to try. Surround yourself with friends that you like--that are an extension of your personality so that he can learn about you form you and them. :)
2006-11-03 22:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about timing. Hang in there... give attention to other interests and focus on your own goals. Dating, relationships, love etc... has EVERYTHING to do with timing.
2006-11-03 22:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by B L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get one. you just have to believe that you can and be confident in yourself. you have to tell yourself that your pretty. i know i sounds really cliche but "someone else can't love you until you love yourself".
2006-11-03 22:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send picture and I'll give you my opinion Netzdude@yahoo.com
2006-11-03 22:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act mysterious!!
2006-11-03 22:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋