2006-11-03 14:24:20 · 18 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My exboyfriend is Muslim and he asked me to be one of his wives. He said he loves us all the same. I don't understand that?? Can anyone help me with that?
2006-11-03 14:25:51 · update #1
There are sexual beasts in all of us, Being a muslim I know that many people are exploiting what was allowed by the religion in most exceptional circumstances. i.e. Islam does not believe in sex before legitimate marriage, It is so in chritianity and Judiaism as well.
In cases where women have illness, cant bear children and or many other crisis, a man can be allowed to have wives and it is limited.
Howvever Wrong doers can pave their way in every religion, culture, sect, etc, and I am afraid thjat it has happened with islam, as it did to chritianity through developmental eras.
Ignorant mullahs can deliver sermns to equally ignorant people who will believe them.
It is for us to choose whats right and what wrong, and put these people to their place.
2006-11-03 14:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by soa210 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There culture permits a muslim male to have more than One wife even in england a man can have upto 4 wives its permitted like that there religion permits him to have more wives so he propose a love to U its not a real love.
2006-11-03 22:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see guy it is not matter of religious but its a matter of man some man shown the world that i have a four wives but in other religoius like us we keep women as a keeper so if he give a name to your reliationship than he give a respect to you but before take any decision pls consider that this is your life and u have to keep this relationship till end so pls take care
2006-11-04 00:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by pinkbeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! so itz 4 here???the guy i used 2 love he used 2 love me & another girl at the same time & i was confused my self how can he love 2 girlz at once but here the tables have turned with 4!!!!! 'bloody hell'
2006-11-04 04:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey he does not love you or any other women he is doing it only because his religion has given him the liberty of doing so. If he really loved you he would be with you and only you. The problem is that they are preached to produce more children and increase their population.
dont get carried away by his words they dont mean a thing.
2006-11-04 02:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess he just likes to have multiple women. I dont agree with it. Its a practice in some cultures. Im sure it causes jealousy between the women.
2006-11-03 22:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Angels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make unless you want to be one of the women he loves.
Find someone who has the same idea as you do about how many people make a relationship.
2006-11-03 22:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible for any man to show equal love to all 4 partners. It is next to impossible. Be careful my dear young girl.
2006-11-03 22:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by sanam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In their culture it is very normal for males to have more then one wife. All different cultures work in all different ways. If you don't want to do with part of this, you should just tell him. It's not that he is lying just that's what environment he was raised in.
2006-11-03 22:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by luvurbabyegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your okay with that, fine. It is in their religion. I don't think you can love 4 women though. They must have a prefrence for one of them. To me its like cheating but out in the open
2006-11-03 22:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Angel2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋