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I found out two months ago that my husband cheated on me before we were married. I decided that my marriage was worth working on and he assured me that this only happened once. When I first found out he was all symphatetic to how much he had hurt me but now its like just forget about it and move on. I know that it is best to just leave it in the past if I want my marriage to work but at the same time this still hurts me more than words could even begin to describe. Like today out of nowhere it just hit me what he had done to me and I couldnt stop crying. Whenever I do try to talk to him about how I am feeling he just tells me to forget about it and he is tired of me talking about it. Its not like I talk about this everyday. I wish that I could just wake up and not even remember that this happenefd to me. He is the only person I can talk about this with because he doesnt want anybody else in our families to know. So I have to just deal with this alone. I have so much anger inside.

2006-11-03 15:06:56 · 23 answers · asked by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my boyfriend has a girl that sits beside him and she treats him like a brother , and he treats her better.

2006-11-03 15:06:29 · 1 answers · asked by Cameryn M 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked if nick would buy me alcohol, and some lady said if i cant buy it, then i shouldnt be drinking, but is she right. if i was in europe i would be able to buy it, and im sure this lady has committed things that are illegal. is this lady a robot is the real question

2006-11-03 15:06:18 · 1 answers · asked by callowmember 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay. last year, my friends best friend said he like me. i didnt like him much, but you know, we went out. I started to like him, so... i had a crush. then we broke up. then we went out again, and he didnt break ^ w/me, and he went out with erica. so i called him and i was like 'what the heck!' and so the next day i went out (i used him) with another kid. He got jelous and called me a slut. of course my bf got mad, but... nothing happened. the other day i was walking home, and he was being obnoxious and he was saying he spread rumors. i got sick of it. i had a cupcake, so i pushed it in his face. ever since he threw gum at me. my friend told on him, and we went to peer mediation. but now, he stares at me, and flirts from afar, and trys to do a cool trick, and glances. my friend is in his class, and she said hes on to me. im confused. what? i sorta like him. enough to wanna go out w/him. should i make the move? or.. should i wait for him?... i need help... :(

2006-11-03 15:06:01 · 1 answers · asked by Porky 1 in Singles & Dating

questions on this site...I try to get through them but Jesus...I can't read more than 4 or 5 lines without getting disinterested...am I just lazy...

2006-11-03 15:05:09 · 6 answers · asked by loofa36 6 in Singles & Dating

What can I say to a girl when I am in line and she is behind the register. For example, I was in Starbucks this evening and the barista was checking me out, but I don't know what to say(besides giving her my order). Any advice on things to say to get her number or to even see if she is single? Should I carry cards with my phone number/e-mail on it or what?

2006-11-03 15:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, I am a not so typical but very possible businessman, and I have some conflict with my wife. We have been married for 3 years.

She is a typical housewife with no outside job, and it has been 3 years, but we are not planning to have kids yet.

It seems like my career and its required labor are hindering our marriage.

Compare to the statistics, I work 800 hours more than other average Americans working annually. I guess this business simply has to exploit agents like me to stand herself competitive.

After work, I am completely exhausted both physically and mentally, and she doesn't like me having a break, and she wants me to do exact half of all houseworks.

Just because my job is an utter sweatshop, that doesn't mean that I make my wife to do all the housework. I want to minimize her burden, and I try to help her. So I also do everything that women cannot do.
But doing exact half of all houseworks won't give me any rest.

2006-11-03 15:04:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

No perverts here. Tying and gagging is the ultimate in trust!!! If you didn't love and trust this person with your life, why would you ever consent?!!!!!

2006-11-03 15:03:43 · 9 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both girls and we make out sometimes... and then all of our guy friends beg us to do it in front of them why do they get so turned on?

2006-11-03 15:02:33 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Olivia 69♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

See we had an argument 2 days ago & he hadent called me at all so today i got feedback from all u people that answered me and the best answer was 4 me to call him i did and 4 nothing cauze he ended up haveing 2 hang up only after 3min.& treating me like ****.what do you think iz going on????????

2006-11-03 15:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy who i really like & sure he likes me too cause my friend keeps on asking him.
And hes always flirting with me like he hugs me and stuff, i like wen we flirt but i act like i dont and should i not? cause i dont want him to think i dont like him so wat do i do ? and he wont ask me out and every one saysd he wants to but he dousnt shoul i just ask him if he wants to go ou then?

2006-11-03 15:01:57 · 7 answers · asked by hey 1 in Singles & Dating

See,I have this friend.He's a reeaal good friend so we talk a lot.He has this problem though,he looks at porn..and he's always telling me about it..I never know what to tell him,because I want him to stop looking at it,but I don't know what to say.What can I say to help him?

2006-11-03 15:01:33 · 5 answers · asked by Afiya 2 in Friends

What do I do?I have a husband and three daughters but my third baby is not his and he thinks it is and he loves our baby so much.It would be the end if he found out.And I really am a nervous reck when he's holding her,knowing that she's not his.I drive myself crazy day after day with my deep secret.Give me some advice about my future,please!!!

2006-11-03 15:01:10 · 32 answers · asked by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

....been cheated on and who have lasted for years on top of years. I am afraid that my husband might be cheating on me. We have been together for 4 years. We have a 3 year old son. I love my husband to death, and he says he loves me just as much. How do I know he is telling the truth? Can someone please tell me some of the signs that he might show if he is cheating on me? What where the signs that you noticed, when someone cheated on you? And how do you know they are comfortable in the relationship and are no longer looking? Thank you for your time.

2006-11-03 15:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by Black N Gold Fan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian so how can i ask her if she likes

2006-11-03 15:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out today that the girl that was going out with the boy I like, broke up with him today. My locker is like 3 away from his, so I see him between almost every class. I always watch for him to walk down the halls. I have been noticing that he has been look at me a lot more for the past few days. Wednesday, I passed him in the hall and he was watching me walk and staring at me from head to toe. And he has been watching me more too. Don't get me wrong, I watch him too!;)
But, since I'm shy, I don't know how to flirt with him. I think he is nice and polite and very cute(well, hott!)
How do I go about flirting with him? I really want to go out with him.
I have never had a boyfriend.

2006-11-03 15:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Singles & Dating

Im sure that there is someone out there that stayed with some one for Love. Actual pure love. My boyfriend does the dumbest things. He is 22. Is he still just young? How can I get him to straigten up?
He takes advice of everyone else, even stupid people and I tell him not to. He choses their advice over mine and screws up. How do I get him to see and trust me? I have my head on straight pay my bills work try to educate myself and have a better life and hes just like DUH.
We have been together for 5 years.

2006-11-03 14:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So theres this guy I am really in love with, I mean I would seriously go to the end of the world for him if i had to, Even mymom said that she has never seen so much *sparks* between anyone lyke me && him && she has a feelin thats ima end up marrying. The other night we were out eating and she was teling me how she sees the way I light up when ever im aroundhim and how he looks at me when I'm paying attention. But the other day his sister emailed me telling me not to call him or email him or speak to him again && he delted me of off his friends list and deleted my comments *off of myspace* I dont know what I can do.. I really do love him more than anything, and want to be with him, I just know hes the one for me

2006-11-03 14:59:06 · 8 answers · asked by babisoldier10 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my husband is 60 and i'm 44.He is dying and has asked his best friend to take care of me and our son after he dies.we are now in a relationship and my husband knows and he plans on moving in with us shortly.I love my husband but he has been abusive in the past i also love my boyfriend with all my heart and soul he is my best friend.I don't want to leave my husband and him sick.he drives me crazy talking about dying and me being taken care of.so what do you think? I don't need anybody telling me how i'm going to hell for it cause i was raised in church and i know.i just want an honest opinion

2006-11-03 14:59:03 · 22 answers · asked by nina r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this boy. but he sayin im not bein aggressive. so how can i not be a nice girl?

2006-11-03 14:58:58 · 8 answers · asked by datgurlnette601 1 in Singles & Dating

I wish there was I see questions on here and it is a disgrace how many children are involved at such a young age, I don't think they know what is out there. It makes me sick I ll tell you that.

2006-11-03 14:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do men feel they are always right?

2006-11-03 14:57:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone who walked in on his/her spouse and at the heat of moment killed the cheater ... or
A drunk drive who accidentally killed a person?
Which is worst and why?

2006-11-03 14:55:53 · 25 answers · asked by Evangeless 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I never really got to learn it as well as others due to the situation that I grew up in, so I generally shy away from too much physical contact. The problem with this is that recently, a girl told me that she didn't pursue our relationship much further because I seemed to shy away from physical contact.

Anyway, women please define the boundaries of touch for friends, girlfriends, or how much physical contact you'll be okay with regarding someone who you haven't gotten to know so much yet, but are interested in.

2006-11-03 14:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by humstu 1 in Singles & Dating

I have the hot's for my best friends ex she say's im not her type shoulde i take here word or do you thnk she likes me how do i tell if she doe's
i asked her sraight out and i gave here ten dollars and boutgh here two brother's pizza wich here big brother is my best friend two she smile's a lot when im around and she shows of on her swing she also is mean to me but in a quite way she flirts to but i cant get here to say yes

2006-11-03 14:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

don't mind the avatar i share the account with the girl i love and its supposed to be her. but i fu*ked all kinds of sh!t up and she is mad at me. I made her realy upset about a week ago and we wer finaly getting close again i was so close to winning her back and we argued this morning she swares i told her to "shut the fu*k up" but i didnt or atleast dont know i said it. what is the best way to tell her im sorry and that i love her. my hopes are she checks this question and sees that im sorry but is there a way to tell her she is the best most beautiful greatest blah blah blah mushy mushy mushy la la la love love love girl ever. any suggestions on how to make a girl melt?

2006-11-03 14:54:45 · 15 answers · asked by AshleyNick H 3 in Singles & Dating

With or without:
Condoms
Hair
Toys
Porn
and finally, Top, bottom, behind or in front...or other?

2006-11-03 14:54:44 · 13 answers · asked by She-ra 3 in Singles & Dating

Was it a surprise for your girlfriend? Or you have an unofficial agreement that yall want to live to gether and you went ahead from there to propose?
How did you ask her to marry you?
Please be specific if possible.

2006-11-03 14:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, why don't you all like gymnasts?I am 5'1 and like 82lbs. I have and would have sex on a 1st date..
I live in barrington. I am filthy rich. If you give me a good night then you may get somewhere. You give me and averae night(ie: under 70 dollar dinner) you get nada and go home as I call a limo, and maybe another chance. poor night= I never met you
I have a kind disposition and don't mind if you want to hang out with friends, and don't wanna go out every day. I havebrownhair and eyes, and a sweet personality. Would you date me & why??

2006-11-03 14:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by trish 1 in Singles & Dating

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