i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u al.l she is a strong christian so how can i ask her if she likes
2006-11-03 15:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and how should i go about asking her for her number even if i already know it bcuz her bro
2006-11-03 15:01:09 · update #1
well... id say the best approach if she is a strong christian girl is to go to her and say 'hey, i waz just wanderin... do u like me?' hopefully she'll say yes, then u can ask her number... good luck bro, hope it worx 4 ya :)
o and if she does like ya try this to get her number 'id really like to get to kno u better, could i get ur number?'
im sure itll all work out, good luck
2006-11-03 15:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for her number as if you didn't know it already.
If you can't date until you're 18, find out things you can do together without technically dating each other. Group functions and social gatherings you can both go to. That way the two of you can be together and talk. And you don't have to call it a "date."
2006-11-03 15:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you can't date until your 18, which might complicant things a lot, but what you must do is ask her what she feels. One good way, if you don't like saying things in person, is online. You can easily type sumthin like, you know i like you, i just want to know if u feel the same or not? But, you don't want to put her in a position that she will feel bad if she does not, becasue that drives me and many other girls crazy. Try to do it in a nice n kind of uncaring but wondering kinda way, if that makes sence. haha
2006-11-03 15:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you cant date it sounds like you can still be great friends. She's probably embarressed so just be honest with her and don't do it in front of your friends or her friends etc. She's probably stressing about it as much as you are!
You don't need to ask for her number if you can get it from her brother. Save yourself the anxiety and get it from him, but make sure you use it!
2006-11-03 15:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i fell in love at 13 im 17 ask her straight out if not you will end up heart broken because she led you on trust me its not the best feeling do it now and get it over with
2006-11-03 15:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by KAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well umm if u cant date till your 18 then you might as well just ask her look do u like me/ and if she says yes then be like well i like you to but dont say anymore and wait for her to be like would u ever wanna go out or something but if i was you then i wouldnt even bother askin cause its not gonna get u anywhere cause u cant date till ur 18
2006-11-03 15:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask her if she like you or not. Ask her if she would like to hang out with you more or not. You & her can go studying in the library together & spend more time with her. Get to know more of her.
2006-11-03 15:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with her more and more. always becoming more and more intiment. then in a couple of weeks or even months, ask her out again. and if she changes the subject, then she is still trying to decid her feelings about you. keep hangin' with her and soon enough, if its ment to be, it will work out
2006-11-03 15:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rodney Lindsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...if u know her number then don't ask for it if she knows u have it....just ask her if u can call sometime to talk to her....and if u really do like her then just tell her you do and ask her how she feels about you. you're not going to know unless you ask. that's the best way it can be done. goodluck!
2006-11-03 15:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard!Well...Get in niceley dressed clothes,(your best ones),and walk to her dor.and ask would you like to go on dinner this friday?and if she says yes then ask her at the Resturant.
Oh and, lie lie lie and lie your head off,Tell her she looks nice,do crazy things,
good luck!
2006-11-03 15:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋