I just found out today that the girl that was going out with the boy I like, broke up with him today. My locker is like 3 away from his, so I see him between almost every class. I always watch for him to walk down the halls. I have been noticing that he has been look at me a lot more for the past few days. Wednesday, I passed him in the hall and he was watching me walk and staring at me from head to toe. And he has been watching me more too. Don't get me wrong, I watch him too!;)
But, since I'm shy, I don't know how to flirt with him. I think he is nice and polite and very cute(well, hott!)
How do I go about flirting with him? I really want to go out with him.
I have never had a boyfriend.
2006-11-03 15:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~~we are both in high school, both freshmen. I am 14 and he just turned 16.~~
2006-11-03 15:02:53 · update #1
Ask him a question and appear interested. When he's finished talking, ask him if he wants to get some coffee and talk about it some more.
2006-11-03 15:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by nixkuroi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear is absolutely the worst feeling ever in the world. No feeling is worse than fear. Timidity is a form of fear, and a habit of shyness is just about the nastiest habits of them all.
I've overcome some of it myself.
I think you should start talking to him more, SMILE, make sure he knows you're interested. Then later on ask him if he wants to see a movie on the weekend or something.
2006-11-03 23:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel comfortable, get a mutual friend that will help hook you two up or just casually say "Hi!" as your walking down the hallway and then once you are comfortable with that, start up a conversation with a mutual friend so it won't be as awkward. Good luck and I hope all works out! ^_^
2006-11-03 23:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
strike up small talk. find out things both u and he are interested in and talk about that. once he sees how you are things will totally open up.
i'm the same way. you know, shy. i was in this same situation a few weeks ago. this kid in my class kept staring at me and of course i notcied him. he would mess with my purse, paly with my hair and so forth. i found out he listened to a lot of screamo music (Underoath to be specific) and ever since then, we talk about music everyday!
2006-11-03 23:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by hey heather. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i cant really explain it because all my frinds say i ma a HUGE flrt but i never notice that... i guess just laugh at them when they say something funny, talk to him a lot, tease him playfully etc. (this is what i do and i dont garuntee tis will work, it works for me though. its too bad ive never had a b/f either!) lol
2006-11-03 23:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by @ |* ! @ n @ ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him!!! get to know him better and when the time is right you will know and he will ask you out. just dont be tooo nosey or trying to find out EVERYTHING about him just paly it cool
2006-11-03 23:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Baby gurl! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him say things like eww u like her but just play around and kid around with him P.S. dont make it to obvious
2006-11-03 23:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by dominoteryaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him and asked him can you be my first boyfriend? if the answer is no.. never mind.. forget it! but if it is yes.. congratulation! give all the best you can.. let me know huh!
2006-11-03 23:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by pandit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋