....been cheated on and who have lasted for years on top of years. I am afraid that my husband might be cheating on me. We have been together for 4 years. We have a 3 year old son. I love my husband to death, and he says he loves me just as much. How do I know he is telling the truth? Can someone please tell me some of the signs that he might show if he is cheating on me? What where the signs that you noticed, when someone cheated on you? And how do you know they are comfortable in the relationship and are no longer looking? Thank you for your time.
2006-11-03 15:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by Black N Gold Fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How do I know he is happy?
2006-11-03 15:01:07 · update #1
How did you find out they was cheating on you?
2006-11-03 15:42:14 · update #2
Has he been pursuing you regularly for sex? Does he spend most of his time at home with you or doing activities with you when he isn't at work? Has he started going to the gym more often and doesn't want you joining him? Does he get strange phone calls at odd times? Is he secretive? When you ask questions does he bite your head off in an attempt to thwart your conversation? Is he going out to clubs with the guys routinely?
Have there been drastic changes in his demeanor and appearance?
2006-11-03 15:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some signs I noticed when my husband cheated was........
*d-fensive when asked questions about his whereabouts
*moody
*working late
*had to go into the office early
*strange numbers on cell phone bill
*learned new things/techniques in the bedroom
*accidently found a private email address he set up under a made up name (that i didn't know about)
that's a few of them - hope they help.
*GO STEELERS! hopefully Ben will start playing better. Next year I am hoping will be a much better yr then this season. But that's ok we got our ring last year :)
2006-11-04 00:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by helpfulgirl75 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look for changes in personal appearance, a sudden need to excercise or lose weight. Recent purchase of new clothes that seem unlike those in the past. A different cologne that you are no particularly fond of but he loves.
Unexpained calls on cell phone that he leaves the room to take.
All of the sudden he is bringing you flower or small gifts. (out of guilt) Look for changes.
2006-11-03 23:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have not been cheated on but have cheated in the past.
some of the signs are
decreased affection
decreased desire to have sex with you
finding any fault with u they can
being distant
always hiding things that he would not normally hide
working late and not being able to prove it.
missing funds (ie motel rooms)
change of attitude towards the marriage in general
now as for u
what are u not doing that would make u think that he is looking elsewhere? possibily saying to to his sexual requests, ignoring him, letting yourself go. most men cheat cuz what they desire they can't get at home. if u give him what he wants he will not look elsewhere. this might require some extra energy and creativness on your part but is your marriage worth it?
2006-11-03 23:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can check the cell phone points and where he is if he calls you during the day saying he'll be late at work or something. Just go online and you can see if he's lying. Check his email, see who he hangs out with, ask to go with him more and see him more, if he's hiding something he'll want less contact with you. Sorry you feel this way!! I promise it'll get better.
2006-11-03 23:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't really tell if they are im going thru the same thing bu tthe choose lies within ourselfs to stay and deal with it or just leave ive been with mine 4 14years and i know that he has, and 2 weeks ago he didn't come home and he said he wasnt with noone but i dont believe that by the way i have 5 kids and have raised them myself most of the time so it just your choose.
2006-11-03 23:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex cheated on me, he lied about his whereabouts when he wasn't home. Used working late, helping out friends, etc. as excuses. He got found out and that was it for us. I don't have to do anything I don't want to do and settling for a cheater is something I refused to do.
2006-11-03 23:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to suspect then he probably is.
The biggest sign is unexplained absences.
2006-11-03 23:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch his routine and count how many changes you see. watch for private phone calls an excuses to leave.
2006-11-03 23:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stalk him
2006-11-03 23:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋