Im sure that there is someone out there that stayed with some one for Love. Actual pure love. My boyfriend does the dumbest things. He is 22. Is he still just young? How can I get him to straigten up?
He takes advice of everyone else, even stupid people and I tell him not to. He choses their advice over mine and screws up. How do I get him to see and trust me? I have my head on straight pay my bills work try to educate myself and have a better life and hes just like DUH.
We have been together for 5 years.
2006-11-03 14:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry. be happy
2006-11-03 15:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by juamps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man honestly I feel you man I think that you can not change a man but you can lay some guide lines meaning put your feet down let him know whats on your heart and also give him a ultimatum..Or you can mode him in to the man you want him to be by simply praying to God and telling him what you want out of your man, but wait there is a trick God may send you what you asking for but it may not be what you want but it exactly what you ask for so you have to be specific
2006-11-03 15:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by biscuit181 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave him before he uses up any more of your valuable time. How long do you think it will take for him to mature? How long have you waited already?
2006-11-03 15:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i have the same problem with my bf but hes 27 and we've been together 4 years :) i try to overlook the problems but if they bother me enough i say something but they never listen its either wait it our or leave :)
2006-11-03 15:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by mami2nate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so how many years are your going waist of you life with your loser boyfriend, its a harsh reality but you need to move on. you have outgrown your boyfriend.
in the long run LOVE is not enough. good luck.
2006-11-03 15:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you should just talk to him. But honestly, he deserves better than you. You're the one who needs to grow up. Calling him your "dumb boyfriend"!! Yeah, you obviously have no class and don't deserve to have any boyfriend if you insult them behind their backs like that.
2006-11-03 15:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Furious B 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
everyone is different.
women mature alot faster then men.
if your not happy move on , life is shorter then you think.
2006-11-03 15:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is young .. you should overlook his mistakes
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2006-11-03 15:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋