I never really got to learn it as well as others due to the situation that I grew up in, so I generally shy away from too much physical contact. The problem with this is that recently, a girl told me that she didn't pursue our relationship much further because I seemed to shy away from physical contact.
Anyway, women please define the boundaries of touch for friends, girlfriends, or how much physical contact you'll be okay with regarding someone who you haven't gotten to know so much yet, but are interested in.
2006-11-03 14:55:46 · 6 answers · asked by humstu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called KINO, on the mystery method website. ALL girls want to be touched, you must not be insecure becuase we women want a male who at least pretends to know what he is doing and going to do. Lots of eye contact and the long touch rather than the short touches.
2006-11-03 15:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think holding hands is really nice. Sitting on the couch and cuddling is cool too. I guess it depends on how long you have been going out but also each person is probably different in what they like and dislike. You would know by the way someone acts whether they like what you were doing or they were uncomfortable with it. When you are walking down the street try putting your arm around her and if that is uncomfortable for her just try holding hands, oh look l don't really know, just do whatever you two are fine with. I am very comfortable with touching and feeling so it just depends on the individual. That is for a girlfriend ofcourse. You may find though that a friend may also be happy with you putting your arm around them in just a friendly way.
2006-11-03 23:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i first meet someone i'm very shy and dont really like to be touched but if we go out then and all goes well a hug at the end of the date is fine. and then as i get to know someone i will gradually get more comfortable and hold hands and hug and kiss. then i would really have to be comfortable with a guy before letting them touch me intamatly.
as for friends hugging and holding hands a hand on my back or shoulder and a freindly kiss on the cheek or a quick peck on the lips. that is once i have gottten to know them and became comfortable with them.
best to start out with holding hands and hugging maybe a touch on the arm .
2006-11-03 23:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that one problem with one girl is making you over think your own judgement. When there is chemistry with a person you know when and where to touch. However you start with holding hands or try leading her in a particular direction by guiding her with the small of her back.
2006-11-03 23:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by cjones 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i like hugs! There fun and flitry even if your just friends. i don't like guys that i'm not going out w/to grab my butt. I don't mind a guy putting his arms around me even if were just friends unless i have a bf that could be lookin bad.
2006-11-03 22:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no boundaries of touch if the woman loves you
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2006-11-03 22:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋