do u think a relationship lasts longer if you go slowly and take your time to do things or does it last longer if you do things fast? i personally think that going slow (not too slow though) is good because if you do things too fast then u get bored faster,if you take your time it gives you something to look foward to in your relationship and that makes you want to stay with them longer.
2006-11-03 14:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Beca <3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a very good question and i think that your answer/opinion is the best, but the issue that i see is that you might see something as going fast and your guy might think its slow. to each his own, and unfortunatly time is a relative thing, to you you might be going too fast, while if you've been in the relationship for a while he might think its going too slow or not progressing at all.
2006-11-04 17:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I think you should take things at a slow pace in a relationship. Don't take things too fast or you might ruin the whole thing. If you take things slow, you can still have a lot of fun and probably even get to know the guy better and have a healthy relationship.
2006-11-03 22:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kelbells 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slow
2006-11-03 22:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by desdinova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it is important to take things slowly. I was just in an amazing relationship, but he broke up with me. I think what really led to this was that we moved way to fast, we acted as if we were married in a sense, spent night and day together, and essentially my life revolved around him and anything he needed. This is what led to the downfall.
So please learn from my mistake, take things slow, and treasure every moment, because you don't fully realize, or appreciate what you have until it is gone.
2006-11-03 22:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by StillBelieve143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to take my time and see if i really like the person and want to invest myself. Can go to quickly and then regret giving to much of oneself. that would not be a good thing. Best to go slow and build a friendship, thus a foundation for a relationship God bless
2006-11-03 22:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow but not too slow is good.Thats what relationships are about taking your time to make the other person happy.Enjoy what you have together, dont rush because when you rush you make alot of mistakes that hurt the relationship.
2006-11-03 22:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all love the chase, the tease, long as it's not overdone. slower is better, too fast usually means it's probably going to end up just a sex thing and fizzle out, go slow, have fun, get to know each other. peaceout, bilrokz
2006-11-03 22:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by bill p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the slower you go the better, give each other time to really know the other.
2006-11-03 22:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow to learn is slow to forget
2006-11-03 22:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thts true i went through a relationship where we went fast then we stopped talking to each other,don't go fast
2006-11-03 22:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋