Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

im pretty sure my moms becoming addicted to her pain pills.ive confronted her and shes in denial.i have four siblings and im wondering if i should talk to one of them about it.they have no clue but i can tell cuz i live with her.i know she doesnt want anyone to know but im very worried.please help

2006-11-02 13:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok
So I am attractive (some say beautiful), well groomed, affluent, smart, intelligent, good fun and a great friend / host. The downside? I am a size 16 (US size 14).
I never have boyfriends. Will I ever have a boyfriend at this size? I think I am genetically programmed to be this size as nothing I have ever tried works. Are men ever attracted to someone who is a size 16 ? I seem to get asked out by married men a lot. I think maybe men are embarrassed to be seen with me? What do you think? I am 5 ft7 tall.... I wondered about the embarrassment thing because only married men ask me out. Maybe men only want me as their secret and not to present me to the world as their partner.

You would have no idea if you met me that I lack confidence - I come across as really positive and hap . My friends probably wouldn't even entertain the idea that I was shy if i told them.

2006-11-02 13:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by lou h 1 in Singles & Dating

I was seriously curious on this one. When a guy asks a woman to marry him, and goes though all the special steps to do so (like on the comic below) and she says No, is the relationship typically over? I'm sure this has to have happened at least some time in history.


http://www.ctrlaltdel-online.com/comic.php?d=20060213

2006-11-02 13:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

whats makes an ideal g/f to you? jw thanks

God Bless!

2006-11-02 13:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by InlovewithJESUS 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 21 & have epilepsy for a few years now & i wanna make love to my g/f but then i'm scared that i'm going to trigger and i dont know what to do or how she gotta react . .. i'm scared to tell her that i have epilepsy also cuz she might leave me!

2006-11-02 13:10:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I asked her out, she says "sure maybe we can sometime, not sure when, but I'll let you know".

Is that rejection?

2006-11-02 13:10:00 · 16 answers · asked by pure_west102 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to be a very friendly person, but the problem is I suffer from severe depression. And whenever I feel comfortable with someone and I feel like we are getting close, inevitably the subject of my depression comes up. After I share with people about my depression and my suicidal thoughts, then people shy away from me. I feel like I am too much for people to handle. But its hard for me to feel close to someone if they really don't understand all of who I am. Any advice and suggestions? I am a real people person, I get really, really down when I am by myself. How can I be and have true friends, without scaring them away?

2006-11-02 13:09:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. Finally I decided to ask her out. Today I was talking to a best friend of ours on the phone, and I was told that her (the girl I like) friend told her about this guy who liked her, so she got excited and gave it a try, but ended up separated because the guy was being non-Christian-like. Since she has suffered from it once, I'm not sure if she'll have the same reaction to me when I tell her I like her that way. Is she still willing to give it a try? Any help is appreciated!

2006-11-02 13:08:08 · 9 answers · asked by yaoliu89 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, so at the beginning of the semester here in college i met this guy through a friend. for some reason he and i were pretty shy around each other but eventually started talking. we talked for hours on aim every night when we weren't all hanging out an we would flirt like crazy, yet when we were hanging out in person, we were shy around each other again. suddenly, he stopped talking to me on aim and rarely communicatates with me when we are all hanging out. we share the same friends. he talks to them but not me. so in return i don't say much to him. his best friend here hangs out with me all the time, so i guess i don't smell bad ha. this sucks because i like him so much. i don't know why. he's constantly on my mind and it hurts so bad. i want to confront him about it but he's not really one for confrontation. i guess he's immature or something i dunno. people have told me to move on and find someone better. but they don't understand. i've fallen hard for this boy. PLEASE HELP

2006-11-02 13:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by blessbtbam 1 in Friends

do u think its bad to chat online. My mom wont let me chat or have myspace or anything. I am 15 and I am smart enough to not give any personal information 4 ppl to track me down, u kno? Was ur opinion? plz i think my ma is really strict and i kno she just trying to protect me but come on she wont let me do anything else! Does she want to lock me in a bubble and not let me do anything. aahh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im gonna pull my hair out. And plz dont say just sit down and try talking to her. That never works! plz answer be4 ma comes home 4rm work.

2006-11-02 13:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do u think its bad to chat online. My mom wont let me chat or have myspace or anything. I am 15 and I am smart enough to not give any personal information 4 ppl to track me down, u kno? Was ur opinion? plz i think my ma is really strict and i kno she just trying to protect me but come on she wont let me do anything else! Does she want to lock me in a bubble and not let me do anything. aahh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im gonna pull my hair out. And plz dont say just sit down and try talking to her. That never works! plz answer be4 ma comes home 4rm work.

2006-11-02 13:07:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what are some songs that sing about the death of wife or a loved one? thanks so much.

2006-11-02 13:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 4 in Family

My ex boyfriend worked at McDonalds with me. Thats where we met! But anyways when i quit and i moved we still talked on the phone but we never really got to see each other. Well one night he told me he had to work well see my cousin is the manager and he called me and told me my boyfriend called in sick. Then when i called my boyfriend he told me he was out with one of our guy friends i knew it was a lie cause our guy friend was at work i came to find out he was with my best friend he said it just happened im so sry baby well i left him and moved on well i just moved back about 3 days ago and i am recently working at McDonalds again and well when i went in tonite he was trying to say hi and trying to talk to me and i woulldnt let him, but i still love him alot and i wish we could just erase the past but we can't and im stuck i want to let him back in but at the same time im afraid if i do ill always hold what he did to me against him. I love him alot though, what should i do? Help Me!!

2006-11-02 13:07:03 · 12 answers · asked by angelatfoxey 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who rides my bus I haven't started to flirt with him but it almost seems like he likes me he just looked at me funny the other day I am 13 and he is 14 so I don't see him at school because he is in high school but I don't know what to do do I flirt or what because I want him to know that I like him without all of my firends knowing please help!

2006-11-02 13:06:36 · 2 answers · asked by caitlyncookiedough 1 in Singles & Dating

while out shopping one day i was browseing around the store with clothing layed across my arm when the sales person came and ask me to let her lay them on the counter while i did my shopping and i did, as i went to pay for my clothing i had picked out i payed for them and walk away from the store as i walked i found my tennis bracelet was missing that my husband bought me for my anniversary it was very expensive i know this cashier stole it for i do remember feeling a little tug as she removed the clothes from my arm so i say since it is coming upon the holiday please be careful even the cashier's cannot be trusted

2006-11-02 13:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by mishoney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Unless the enemy was marching down my street there's no way in hell I would let my wife go to war. She would never see action in Iraq or any forgeign land because all the wars that the US have been involved in have been surrogate wars or wars to secure G.O.D. ( Guns Oil & Drugs).

2006-11-02 13:06:20 · 20 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He is going to try to take my l2 yr. old daughter away from me out of spite....and revenge. He doesn't want to give me fifty/fifty or child support. He doesn't want to give me half his retirement and he took all my retirement out when we moved six times from state to state due to his job. I teach
I just found out he is moving to another state and taking my daughter with him. I have to move and quit my teaching job so as to be near my daughter.
I found out that he had letters written in on him at work about not getting along with people especically women. He mistreated them and was rude to them, etc.... SO this move to another state one thousand miles away from our hometown was because of his complaints from work....his bosses told him he HAD to move.
He has attended anger management classes too.
What I am asking? Can he still get full custody of her if I fight him on it due to his work problems? Can he get full custody if I left him for another man? 23 yrs. of marriage

2006-11-02 13:06:11 · 17 answers · asked by lucy p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i really like him and we have talked and i gave him a note so do u thaink he would like me

2006-11-02 13:05:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 13:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by mike a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she was standing next to me did she want me to talk to her i was to shy

2006-11-02 13:05:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spoke of issues in regards to my relationship to my husband of 14 years, to some girlfriends at a birthday party. Now, some of the women have repeated that conversation to their husband's. Who in turn have brought up th subject with my husband. This has made a very tense situation even worse.

I feel totally betrayed and do not know what to do.
I know 2 of the women's names who did this. One is a best friend.

I want to confront them, but am not sure how.

2006-11-02 13:03:19 · 25 answers · asked by Dawn S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should a gurl do when she loves one person but has feelings for another?
Ok, I have been married for almost 11 yrs. I love my hubby. But I have strong feelings for someone else.
What should I do?

2006-11-02 13:02:56 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Unless the enemy was marching down my street there's no way in hell I would let my son go to war. So my son would never see action in Iraq or any forgeign land because all the wars that the US have been involved in have been surgogate wars or wars to secure G.O.D. ( Guns Oil & Drugs).

2006-11-02 13:02:24 · 22 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Family

My boyfriend asked me how I felt if went on a break for a while. Not for long though. He wants to spend sometime by himself to see if he likes that better. He's not sure how he'll feel after that. He does work a lot. He said he once cheated on me and he feels really bad about it. I'm not saying we're breaking up completely. We'll still be together. Has anyone been in this situation? Does anyone have any ideas about what I can say to him?

2006-11-02 13:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

how do U get a guy to really notice U?how do U impress him?

2006-11-02 13:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by pretty girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a full chest of hair. No hair on my back or shoulders. My first girlfriend said she didn't care and she was ablsolutely beautiful (Swedish exchange student). I am just curious what other girls think.

2006-11-02 13:02:07 · 13 answers · asked by cagewalker 2 in Singles & Dating

he thinks im hot, he waves to me all the time, he makes ALOT of eye contact with me, he comes up and talks to me occasionally.....
WHAT DO I DO?
I WANT HIM!
Like please list baby steps to get him or good things NO guy can resisit when i a girl does something....
or how your girl got YOU

2006-11-02 13:01:23 · 3 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is a boy that i like,and i ride the same bus as he does,we sat right next to each other today and i told him i liked him,he said he liked me too.now im kind of scared to talk to him!im affraid he might over think things and stuff.what should i do?plz dont be mean im kind of sensitive.thanks for your help if you help me.

2006-11-02 13:00:53 · 14 answers · asked by the lovely bunny 1 in Singles & Dating

He went home with a red mark on his neck from me, and his mom said that if it happened again she would break us up.

2006-11-02 13:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by gingpupginger 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so, i like this 1 guy a lot, and i've been thinking of going thru the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing, and well, todat i found out that one of my friends like him 2, and well, 2morrow is a dance, and well if he's there she'll want 2 dance w/ him... but i rele want 2 get 2gether w/ this guy.... but i don't wanna hurt my friends feelings, how do u i get the guy, and still be friends with my friend???

2006-11-02 12:59:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends