My ex boyfriend worked at McDonalds with me. Thats where we met! But anyways when i quit and i moved we still talked on the phone but we never really got to see each other. Well one night he told me he had to work well see my cousin is the manager and he called me and told me my boyfriend called in sick. Then when i called my boyfriend he told me he was out with one of our guy friends i knew it was a lie cause our guy friend was at work i came to find out he was with my best friend he said it just happened im so sry baby well i left him and moved on well i just moved back about 3 days ago and i am recently working at McDonalds again and well when i went in tonite he was trying to say hi and trying to talk to me and i woulldnt let him, but i still love him alot and i wish we could just erase the past but we can't and im stuck i want to let him back in but at the same time im afraid if i do ill always hold what he did to me against him. I love him alot though, what should i do? Help Me!!
2006-11-02 13:07:03 · 12 answers · asked by angelatfoxey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you've broken up with someone, SPECIALLY SOMEONE WHO CHEATED ON YOU... leave it alone. you can't go back.
2006-11-02 13:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you in on a secret, being a guy and all. When a guy cheats on his gf, and she finds out, and then forgives him and takes him back, the guy is thinking "Wow, she didn't even break up with me... this is Great!!! Well hey, if I can get away with it, I'll just go bang any girl I want!! After all, I'll always have some p*ssy to fall back on if things don't work out with other girls!!"
2006-11-02 21:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. It's time to grow up and show him that you are a woman and you deserve respect. He disrespected you and you shouldn't return to him because it's like eating your vomit. What you really long for is love and to be loved. That's what you miss and he missed his opportunity to give you what you needed. Instead he just wanted sex. Go find someone who will love you and who is concerned about helping you become the best you can be. Someone who cherishes you and treats you like a queen; rather than a concubine.
2006-11-02 21:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by krisnsally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same kind of problem, let him go you will find someone not prefect but the one, you might love him from the past but think what he did, he knows what he was doing he isn't sorry he wants both so girl let him go and you find someone out there
2006-11-02 21:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl i think you should take it slow with him now because he is just hurt that you left him and he may have thought have been doing the same thing and it dont think it is fare to you or him of both of you work in the same place because you cant b iht up undr ach other and your bst friend itsnt really a frind because if she was she would have called you and told you that your man was missing you and let you handle that
2006-11-02 21:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is to be celebrated. You can love him and not be with him. He is not what you want. He is not what you need. Smile. Enjoy his conversation. Find a man that meets your needs. No regrets. However, move on.
2006-11-02 21:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by SWF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated. why wouldnt he cheat again. hes already defined his character and thats not changing. being a guy i know he will say a lot of things but most likely doesnt believe any of it and is saying it to get in your pants.
so dont get back with him. keep your pride. possibly talk to him again and try to get him to reflect on his mistake and actually make him a better person. but please dont get back with him
2006-11-02 21:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this site is not a book writing site so next time keep ur word to the minimum so that i can read and kinda help you solve ur misery , .
2006-11-02 21:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by teehoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him the hell alone and find another job!
2006-11-02 21:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a sucker....once a cheater always a cheatter
2006-11-02 21:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋