i have been married now for almost 3 years...a guy that is a very good friend of my family and who i sort of had a fling with before i met my husband is in the army and coming back from spending a year in Iraq..my husband knows that he is a friend of the family but doesn't know about the fling,(i didn't tell him because of the guy being so close to my family and didn't want my husband to have any insecurities or be jealous of him because i feel nothing but friendship for this guy.)anyway,,my husband doesn't like for the guy to be mentioned because if i bring him up my husband thinks that it is because i want him...i wanted to drop the guy a simple e-mail to welcome him back home to the states,but i don't know if i should or not knowing that my husband feels that way,,and if i do drop him an inocent e-mail,i don't know if i should let my husband know about it,or just keep it to myself..i don't like to lie,or to keep secrets no matter how big or small...any thoughts?
2006-11-02
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