moved in with you, even tho you are sick, and they never cleaned, picked up after themselves, or helped in anyway, but you can't kick them out because of the little grandchild? They all live in a 2 bedroom apartment, so there are now 6 of them all together. One of them refuses to work, and spends his days laid up in the bedroom.
2006-11-02 13:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by pupcake 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't put them out , you are not doing that grandchild any favors and he may never have responsible parents .
2006-11-02 13:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I understand you feel sorry about your grandchildren,but
you seriously need to sit down and talk to them. Give them an
ultimatum, with no buts. If you don't say anything then they
will continue to be this way. They will continue taking advantage
of you and the situation. Put your foot down. Tell them the kids can stay but you have to go and give them the reason, don't hold
nothing back. Give them a certain date and time, have it all in writing. Cause if you don't they will continue living in the same
house hold. As long as you let them stay they will continue to
lay back in his room or in the living room. Also you need to tell
them to clean up after them selves they are not kids. Even the kids can clean up after themselves. If they are at the age of three
and up. A three year old can pick up their toys and put them in their room, a three year old can put his/her dishes in the sink,
Now if a three rear old can do this on his own then why can't
an adult!! Just put your foot down and say something or you
will keep asking this same question. You need to say get your lazy *** off the couch and go look for a JOB, so you all can
get your own place.
2006-11-02 14:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your house set rules if the don't abide then don't be so nice and give them a thing make them earn everything want that will make then work
2006-11-02 13:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by nobleicus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send them packing ....i know u love your grandkids.....but if they worry u to death, then who would they stay with,think about that ....if u were to die i bet they would get their own place and work because they would have too.....grown folks need their own place.
2006-11-02 13:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough love, man. give em tough love.
2006-11-02 13:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by janice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋