Family & Relationships - 2 November 2006

So my ex dumped me a month ago. She said she wanted to be friends when she dumped me and I told her that I could not do that because I needed time to get over her. I felt bad saying that cause she is going through a tough time. Her dad passed 4 months ago and she is currently in therapy dealing with that and other problems. She has low self esteem and always seeks attention. I am over her know though and have not talked to her in a month. Would it be okay to send her a quick txt on her birthday to say happy birthday and hope she is doing well?

2006-11-02 14:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a daughter who is 25, maybe 26 yrs old and she moved in with her dad with her 2 kids, and her husband. This is the 3rd time she has come back home to stay because they financially cannot make it on their own. She has spending problems.
I am 42 yrs old, raised 2 kids alone with no spousal support. I obtained a degree after my husband deserted and I make a very good living. I work a 12 hr a day job and my parents are both deceased. I am respected in my community
My boyfriends daughter stood outside his bedroom door listening to us while we were in bed and yelled in and asked her dad if she should call the police to have me removed from the house.
She is dirty, she doesnt clean up after her kids and never offered to do dishes, vacume or clean the whole time she lived with her dad. The house was filthy. Her dad says I should be kind to his daughter. I think he is cracked. He left a note on his fridge telling her how proud he was of her. She is a user.

2006-11-02 14:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

So many things have happened, and now I feel like *BOOM*, I feel like I have no right to talk to anyone, I feel like laying in bed all day, i feel like failing all my classes, i feel like I should be on drugs, I feel like sh*t, and I have so many problems, and so many people that hate me right now...I have shakey legs, bags under my eyes. What do I do,

2006-11-02 14:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-02 14:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by baby cou$ 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the different between US Weddings and China Weddings ?

2006-11-02 14:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Weddings

my mom said she is willing to spend 100$ on concert tickets .should I get 2 tickets for 100$ ,where they are great seats ,but I with just my mom, remember people a concert with JUST MOM,or should I get 3 for 100 where me my mom and a friend can go,but the seats arent as good. It will be a great thing to look back on if I go wit a friend

2006-11-02 14:07:43 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Friends

What does this mean. Today during SSR (silent sustained reading) during 5th period which i have math with her and she sits on my right. We talk to each other alot during class. Like she always asks me everyday to see my homework. Which i dont mind to let her see everyday. Well like today she asked me if i have an a.i.m. screen name i studdered, and was said no, then i said wait, then said yes. But i don't think she heard the yes part. Then again yesterday she showed me these lyrics about love and it was very powerful the lyrics were so touching. Well heres what she wrote in my song book. Also what does the second sentence mean, also does she kinda have a crush on me, and is she showing this crush to me slowly but prgressively btw werr in 7th grade. Ok here it goes " You have such great writing skills! I envy you for that. Also, if you say that to Amani, she'll probably talk to you. She's really nice. Good luck :)" I have this friendship thing going on with Amani thats why.Good answers?

2006-11-02 14:07:18 · 2 answers · asked by YAHfTRIXKER753 1 in Friends

i have hair cut on a 1 you can bearly see it and she came up to me in class and lick her hand kinda it u kno wat i mean and rubbed it aginist my hair like it was stickinbg up or somthin when i cant ever get to stick trying to stick up does that me she likes me or somthin just wonderin

2006-11-02 14:05:42 · 8 answers · asked by sohot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

my brothers daughter would be my "nessi" or my nesi i have no clue how to spell it

2006-11-02 14:04:59 · 20 answers · asked by shell 2 in Family

Help us men understand how bad a date is with a real pig.
If we understand the stupid things men do on dates, we can all learn and improve.

2006-11-02 14:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does'nt society like this? I would! One for each night of the week!

2006-11-02 14:04:43 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well he talks to me, jokes with me, sings to me, and meets at hte places he says he'll be . Doesn't break his promises with me.And he also looks at me a lot, we sit together but sometimes he makes stripper jokes about me. we are in highschool. he's one year older then me

2006-11-02 14:04:17 · 12 answers · asked by shortee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and have not had a real boyfriend. is that not normal? what would guys think about that?

2006-11-02 14:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 14:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by just meee 1 in Singles & Dating

Is love like a game of russian roulette except with your gun always fully loaded?

2006-11-02 14:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

someone who thinks and believes the same as you? Me personally I like someone who is the same as me.

2006-11-02 14:01:13 · 21 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Singles & Dating

howw can i know my bf loves me, form what , the way he kiss, the way he looks ?...... give me some tips plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2006-11-02 14:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by gg 1 in Singles & Dating

Can I get my marriage annulled after 3.5 yrs the reason being we were both of different religions and my wife refused sex for the reason that unless and until I start following her religion completely she won't consumate the marriage. This was not the condition before marriage. We lived like friends and then she started cheating with another guy though she did not had sex she did other lwed acts with the guy coz he was of the same religion, so she thought she could fool around with him. Can I get my marriage annulled.

2006-11-02 14:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by peter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A lady I know wathes me constantly, other people have noticed also. She seems nervous around me also. If i am with someone else, she will talk to that person, but never to me, just a quick hello passing by. Other than that, she stares at me all the time, if i walk across the room(I can see her out of the corner of my eye) she watches me. I catch her all the time, as I said though, she never tries to come up and talk to me. I can't work it out, any opinions would be great? Thanks

2006-11-02 14:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by luke 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently started going out i girl that i have known a couple of months. Its been two weeks into the relationship and shes somewhat distant already. she used to call everyday with an energetic attitude, we would talk and laugh. now when she calls she hardly speaks unless i ask a question and i hate those awkard silences. i dont know maybe its due because she is kinda ill right now...i hope thats it. then when we hangout together she tends to be quiet. i dont know then at times she will be normal again. but when we hangout with other ppl shes more talkative. also i have noticed she tends to act fine around her other guy friends but when i try talking to her shes just quiet and says yes to everything i say. well i dont know maybe she doesnt feel good or im boring her. girls what do u think. i love her to death and i let her have her space but she acts bored now and she was not like that before. well any suggestions on y she is acting like that would b nice thank u

2006-11-02 13:59:27 · 6 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 13:59:14 · 11 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Singles & Dating

today in my class my ex was sitting across from me and he was talking about me. I heard him.Then when he was starring at me half of my heart was normal and the other half was fluttering. And whenever he talks bad about me my heart starts to hurt. Why?

2006-11-02 13:58:49 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

this guy that i rele like has a girlfriend but he flirts like no other with me
do u think he likes me?
and plz dont tell me just to ask him cuz i wont

2006-11-02 13:58:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl and I met a few months ago and we really hit it off. We enjoyed talking and I think we enjoyed spending time together. The thing is, eventually it turned into more than that. We sort of found our way into a “relationship” of sorts – and thing got weird. I became “pushy” and she became very distant…all within the course of a week. We ended up breaking things off but wanted to try remaining friends. I guess I was still “needy” as a friend…and she told me to back off a little (using harsh language). I took offence and ended up backing off completely, and we haven’t talked in a long time. She hasn’t reached out to me and I don’t make an effort to speak to her. This was about 2 weeks ago. The thing is, I find myself missing her. Not in an obsessive “I want her so bad” sort of way, but just hearing from her every so often and being friendly was just kind of nice. Right now, it feels awkward. Should I try to reach out and say something? Is it too soon? Is it even worth it?

2006-11-02 13:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by The Rainmaker 1 in Friends

Man i got some mad action. We were playing basketball and i was making all kinds of shots. Then this one girl that doesnt even know me says ill gard him. while doing that she did all kinds of stuff like give me hugs wrap her arms around me when i was faced the other way and all kinds of stuff. What do you think.

2006-11-02 13:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Jay 3 in Friends

2006-11-02 13:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lucia 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-02 13:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by monogrith7 2 in Singles & Dating

There is one guy in my English class, which we meet two times per week.
He usually smiles at me (in class),and walks beside me when we walking out of class. And during discussions, he will look at me to see if I am laughing at his jokes. But he never asks me out or say anything else out of class. And whenever we bump into each other in neighborhood or elsewhere in campus, he always just looks away and pretends not knowing me and not even say hi. I am really confused because I really like him, but I am not sure what his reactions mean. It will be great if I can hear some advice, for I am really really confused now.
Thanks

2006-11-02 13:55:20 · 5 answers · asked by Dreamboat Shrek 2 in Singles & Dating

it seems like no matter where i am people are complaining about their spouses. im not just talkin about stuff like saying they dont pick up after themselves, but stuff like calling them useless. even a womans group i went to at church was nothing more than a husband bashing session. i really felt like a freak because after over 5 years with him i still think my husband is great and we are very much in love. is it me or is all this spouse bashing really making these people look like they made poor choices when they decided to commit?

2006-11-02 13:55:04 · 12 answers · asked by aarika 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When your significant other has kids with a psychopath.

2006-11-02 13:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family