When your significant other has kids with a psychopath.
2006-11-02 13:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay I have been there and done that. What needs to happen is the significant other need to put his foot down and let them know that they don't run anything in that direction anymore they are history. The only thing she needs to be concern about is the kids. Not you and him that what she needs to focus her energy on. Good luck
2006-11-02 14:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by jazzymomma77 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ever notice how anyone who was married or committed and then split up - how the ex becomes Satan, or a psychopath or crazy or my favorite - everyone I have ever known with an exhusband tells me he was a drugaddict.
Maybe there are two sides to the story with the "psychopath" mommy. Whatever the deal, his first priority has to be the welfare of those kids--first and foremost.
If the baggage is too much to handle with lots of bad blood, move on, it will never get better, until the exes can get along and not refer to each other as psychopaths.
2006-11-02 13:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I just split up and he tells everyone I am a "psychopath". If you really like this guy and want to be in a long-term relationship, she and her kids will be your fami;y too. As a "psychopath", really look at why he says that. Is she a psychopath because she demands child support, is she a psychopath because she expects him to spend time with the kids or is she a psychopath because she wants him back and is trying to interfere in your relationship. None of these make her a psychopath and if your man isn't paying his child support or spending time with his kids, dump him, he isn't worth the trouble. If she wants him back or something similar, he needs to tell her that he is available for the children but he and she are over. As for you having to field phone calls, she is a woman just like you, treat her that way and you will reduce the drama.
2006-11-02 14:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by cegla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im sorry but you don't know what is going on with the "baby mamma" so maybe you need to step off, ,aybe hes saying things to her behind your back, and then in front of you hes acting like he hates her... you NEVER know, don't cast your judgement on the girl, when you don't know the whole story, you just think you know!! They do have kids together so they need to talk to each other, and honestly you have NOTHING to say about them talking to one another they do have kids together!! I cant offer any other advise i dont know the full details, you would have to tell us what all the details are, I.E./ like maybe shes like threatining to kill you or something...
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-02 14:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Romy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to put some specifics here.
What does she do? What does your "significant other" do? What do YOU do?
Remember, you cannot change someone else, you can only change how you deal with it.
2006-11-02 13:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't put up with it. I will break up with the guy before putting up with it and I have done that before. The drama goes on because he allows it to happen.
2006-11-02 21:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move out of the state. She'll get bored with having to call.
2006-11-02 13:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Asia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In your case.leave him
2006-11-02 13:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
good luck....
2006-11-02 14:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋